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[CinnaSlim]

It's a real thing. You could be a great person but I just don't have any type of sexual attraction to you. I can still enjoy your company. It's up to you to decide how you react. Either continue being friends and enjoying eachother's company or conversation, or deciding to distance yourself from that person.

From a female perspective, if you walk away just because you won't get sex, it seems like that's all you came for. But I can also understand if because if your feelings, being around someone you want but can never have is unhealthy. Some people aren't able to but their feelings on the back burner.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I've got a condo in the friendzone if anybody wants to rent it? I haven't been there in 4 years so it might need some work

Where do I sign?

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

I think in a way it's a backhanded insult and compliment... like I'm so awesome and I'm an amazing guy, any woman would be happy to bang you but I only see you as a friend?

Physical attraction plays a part. Just because a dude is cool peoples and I like his personality doesn't mean I want to fukk him. There are plenty of dudes that I can say are objectively attractive, but they do nothing for me. MOST people aren't going to do it for any particular person, but does that mean you can't still share other interests?

It's not an insult thinking you'd be amazing for some other woman... unless you think that ANY woman not wanting you physically is an insult.

 

[eastside313]

having female friends isnt always a bad thing. You could be smashing all her girls.

The friend zone is easily avoidable. You gotta be upfront and stop just hanging around like you really into her conversation. Make sure she knows you wanna hit that.

 

[Abstract83]

Been thru the friend zone in my teens. Maaaaan fukk all that. No p*ssy=gas pedal pushin.

 

[At30wecashout]

I think in a way it's a backhanded insult and compliment... like I'm so awesome and I'm an amazing guy, any woman would be happy to bang you but I only see you as a friend?

I'm so amazing but you wont fukk me but you'll fukk some bumb standing on the corner who aint got nothing going on...

sometimes it just makes no sense. You wont understand the concept as your young but as you get older alot of women be on that bullshyt. they'll put you in the friendzone, fukk these bum ass nikkas and then when she gets ran through she'll hit you up again on some can we hang out shyt, OR GETS JEALOUS THE MINUTE YOU START fukkING SOMEONE ELSE...

That's why i tell these women I'm too old for your bullshyt...keep it a 100...

Good shyt. My rule of thumb: It doesn't matter if she enjoys your company and personality. The time spent with her can be better spent with a woman who wants your personality and more. Once attraction is denied, dip.

Sometimes you get that 2am text saying "I miss you." It can turn into something else down the line, but don't hope for it. Cut her off!

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I keep reading these sob stories of virgins on the coli, talmbout how they been put in the friendzone and once they get there, there's no way out


but I gotta ask: is that a real thing?

If I decide to approach you for your mind and get to know you as a friend, instead of coming for your beautiful titties and nice ass.... does
that mean that you will forever look at me as a friend and nothing more?

lets be serious, you not looking at no chick and saying HMM I BET SHE'LL BE A GOOD FRIEND

 

[DarkHorse23]

Nobody puts you in the friendzone. You choose to stick around thinking you will be her man after she told you and showed you it's not happening. Instead of moving on you put yourself in the friendzone. Nobody puts you there without your consent.

100% agree.
And 99.9% of men need to move on and stop hoping something that is equivalent to winning the lottery is going to happen.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Physical attraction is everything. Just because a dude is cool peoples and I like his personality doesn't mean I want to fukk him. There are plenty of dudes that I can say are objectively attractive, but they do nothing for me. MOST people aren't going to do it for any particular person, but does that mean you can't still share other interests?

It's not an insult thinking you'd be amazing for some other woman... unless you think that ANY woman not wanting you physically is an insult.

Fixed. No need to thank me.

 

[DarkHorse23]

It is a real thing I have a friend who can't stop befriending women that are not fukking with him. He got so many female contacts that don't see him as more than a friend it is unbelievable. Dude doesn't get it... He's been working on some of these women for a decade, still holding out hope. I've had the chance to smash a couple of these friends but I can't hurt his soul like that.

One of em was drunk texting me from his phone so I know he saw it. He tried to smash the same night too and she bounced on his ass

I don't let no female put me in that spot. I have one close female friend and she is hot and I use her to bag more girls and she uses me to get at dudes.

And that's the way it should be. If you're going to be "just friends" than she better damn sure be brining something to the table. That's the only way i'm going be "just friends" with an attractive woman, otherwise she can get out of my face and personal space.

 

[Shadow King]

Yes, it does exist. Some of us are evil and we laugh at you and your pitiful attempts to try to get us to see you as more than someone we can talk to when we are bored or to boost our ego when the guy that we really like doesnt pay us any mind. Oh and when we need you to make our boyfriends jealous. Or need a ride, or someone to go to the mechanic with when our car is acting up. Or to help is with plumbing. Or to paint our toenails when our real female friends are busy.
Whats even more funny is that some of us will rub up against you, rub your shoulders, hug you and press our boobs against you and act offended when you get a boner.

Oh and you better not get a girl friend, cause we'll sabotage that too

I thought you was different

 

[MoonGoddess]

I thought you was different

Spoiler

im trolling, but this happens alot, my ex best friend was notorious for this

 

[Ensoniq]

why would you be friends with a female if u don't think you'll soon be fukking her

i can see coworkers but friends

i got a homie thats friends with a bunch of chicks and he doesn't try to fukk them

he's a dork tho

 

[John Mayer]

I don't let women tell me no.

 

[old_timer]

women shouldn't get all the fun around here
aight so many women have orbited me in strange ways
some would offer help, drive me around, etc
even lure me into asking for help (never money)
then sort of manufacture a situation where i had to decide
take things sexual, or .. fall all the way back
always at my lowest point, too

but there are also women who circled around
yet never pushed me to decide or any pressure at all
one woman did my ironing for 12+ months
only stopped when i got married (it would be weird, she said)
my wife was like "what happened to your clothes, boo??"
that was an awkward conversation

i don't know why women friendzone themselves
i think they prefer a clean fantasy to a so-so attempt at reality
or want companionship or see me as their project
or just like doing some free emotional labor