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[ORDER_66]

Physical attraction plays a part. Just because a dude is cool peoples and I like his personality doesn't mean I want to fukk him. There are plenty of dudes that I can say are objectively attractive, but they do nothing for me. MOST people aren't going to do it for any particular person, but does that mean you can't still share other interests?

It's not an insult thinking you'd be amazing for some other woman... unless you think that ANY woman not wanting you physically is an insult.

I'm saying its a mix... like you'll be amazing for everyone else, just not me.... but alot of chicks refuse to be honest with alot of dudes upfront... dudes can take it, be blunt with them but be respectful about it...

 

[Shadow King]

If you're not attracted to me, you need to be putting me on to your friends who are, or we making money together or

The female friends I have, I'm not attracted to. Idealistically, nothing is wrong with opposite sex friends but it's generally insincere on both sides. The example @MoonGoddess posted is how A LOT OF women do.

 

[agnosticlady]

So true, I remember I was working a summer job with this Asian girl. Spent all my breaks and free time with her. Didn't step to her cause she was the only one I was really cool with and if she shut me down it would be awkward working the summer with her. My first warning sign is when she told me she
Liked Justin timberlake over Usher . The second sign is when she told me she thought another co worker was good lookin. At that point I should of bounced but I stayed around and put my self into the zone. Long story short, by the end of the summer we fooled around and the following year when she came back from school I smashed but you're right about guys not reading the warning signs.

Yup ANYTIME a woman feels the need to tell you that she thinks some guy is good looking she is not interested in you, only sees you as a friend, or wants to make you jealous (code for dysfunctional).

 

[MoonGoddess]

I'm saying its a mix... like you'll be amazing for everyone else, just not me.... but alot of chicks refuse to be honest with alot of dudes upfront... dudes can take it, be blunt with them but be respectful about it...

No they can't take, it's one of the reasons females are not honest about it.
Obviously not every single case is the same but one of the harder things in life is being bluntly honest with someone. Some guys will not get it and think you are playing hard to get. This usually leads to the female being a straight bytch and hurting his feeling or letting him continue to believe he has some type of chance.
In the end both scenarios usually ends in resentment on the guys part. Some are able to brush it off and go about their life and some create accounts on thecoli and thus #hoh has another member and new addition to the shyt on every female because Cindy didn't hug you in kindergarten brigade.
Men can be as or even more emotional than women, ya'll just hold it inside and let it fester and taint your soul.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

I'm saying its a mix... like you'll be amazing for everyone else, just not me.... but alot of chicks refuse to be honest with alot of dudes upfront... dudes can take it, be blunt with them but be respectful about it...

I'll have to say that this can be true, but there are a lot men that CAN'T take it. They hang around under false pretenses, thinking they can change a woman's mind, and a lot of women just aren't built that way (to be blunt). That can lead to miscommunication and hurt feelings.

I'm a blunt person, so dudes knew where they stood with me from jump; they could remain friends after the fact or keep it pushing. I had no qualms steering them towards friends I thought they'd mesh with, though.

No amount of 'having a great personality' is going to make my p*ssy pop for a dude I'm not physically attracted to.

 

[Shameonyou]

who cares if a chick friendzones you? why are you worried about what some chick feels? when there are so many more girls out there to flirt with.....grown men dont waste time figuring out if a woman likes them or not....grown men PICK their woman

 

[KingFreeman]

To be honest, its good to have 1-a few female friends just because of the inside info/knowledge you can pick up. That and some are genuinely interesting to hang around. That said, friendzone is 100% real, and if you find yourself in it when you don't want to be, KIM and don't try and give a chick free companionship.

 

[Neil Tyson]

It's only as real as either of you make it. If you're only a friend you have the ability to walk away, and you should if there's feelings and lust involved. Most of the time, highly recommended that you walk away because most women don't have interesting personalities for you to just remain friends, for that do, just be their friend.

 

[DarkHorse23]

It's a real thing. You could be a great person but I just don't have any type of sexual attraction to you. I can still enjoy your company. It's up to you to decide how you react. Either continue being friends and enjoying eachother's company or conversation, or deciding to distance yourself from that person.

From a female perspective, if you walk away just because you won't get sex, it seems like that's all you came for. But I can also understand if because if your feelings, being around someone you want but can never have is unhealthy. Some people aren't able to but their feelings on the back burner.

When will you women get that's what ALL men come for? If i wanted to grab lunch and have a nice chat i have a mom, sister, and female cousins for that. The "extras"(non sexual companionship) outside of sex are icing its' not the cake.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I know

Just remember one day you'll have a son. Enjoy your evening.....

 

[CinnaSlim]

When will you women get that's what ALL men come for? If i wanted to grab lunch and have a nice chat i have a mom, sister, and female cousins for that. The "extras"(non sexual companionship) outside of sex are icing its' not the cake.

#NotAllMen

 

[Flay Mayweather]

The friendzone is a personal choice

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Friend zone means that she thinks you're cool, but she doesn't like you like "that".


Women don't know what they want...
but women do know what they DONT want. (Difference)

If she friend zoned you immediately... It's cause she doesn't want you. (Like that)
Get over your ego and accept it. Don't be mad at her cause she doesn't want you, and hate on the "thugs" or cooler guys she's more attracted to.


SHE DOESNT WANT YOU.AND JUST BECAUSE YOUR NICE DOESNT MEAN WOMEN ARE OBLIGATED TO LIKE YOU!



Some of Yall "Friend Zone Niccas" stick around waiting for a "pitty fukk" or hope the girl (who's prolly waaaayyyy outta your league) comes around to wanting you. Or you think you can manipulate your way into her affection.

Even if you ever do get that.... She's only settling because you're there and she doesn't want to be lonely, or feels sorry for you. But Make no mistakes, nothing has changed!!!!!!


SHE DOESNT WANT YOU!


And when a better guy comes along, or the guy she REALLY wants for whatever reason comes around...


You are outta there! Gone. Finished.


Then you're gonna be on the Coli playing the victim talking about how "bytches ain't shyt" When she made it clear to you from the beginning that SHE DOESNT WANT YOU!!! Like "that". Only as a friend.


But you hung around trying to play "the nice guy" role to manipulate your way into sex.

(BTW REAL "nice guys" would never be manipulative, and then bitter and revengeful when it doesn't pan out how they want. )

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

When will you women get that's what ALL men come for? If i wanted to grab lunch and have a nice chat i have a mom, sister, and female cousins for that. The "extras"(non sexual companionship) outside of sex are icing its' not the cake.

All men want sex, but is it ALL you want?

You can't be friendly or respectful to a woman who isn't giving you sex?


You think that's normal or okay behavior?

To say all men came for sex, so give it to them, and if you don't you're a manipulative bytch? A tease? A user?


Why is it that women are wrong for expecting men to enjoy their company without sex, but it's seen as normal for a man to always expect sex from any woman he's attracted to and friendly with?


How is that okay? Why are women supposed to accept that, but men can't accept the fact they need to have self control and stop being driven so much by sex?

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

To be honest, its good to have 1-a few female friends just because of the inside info/knowledge you can pick up. That and some are genuinely interesting to hang around. That said, friendzone is 100% real, and if you find yourself in it when you don't want to be, KIM and don't try and give a chick free companionship.

What the hell is "free companionship"???


Lord have mercy the misogyny on this site never ceases to amaze me.


So now, a woman is not worthy of male companionship, unless she shares her body with him and has sex with the man?



If you're gonna give conversation or friendship to a woman, she must repay you with SEX!?








Thats the same woman you will treat like dirt or call a hoe, because of how many "bodies" she got from "male companions", or you will discard Her for being a single mother.
(As if she became a single mother on her own.)


#ColiLogic