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[MoonGoddess]

Just remember one day you'll have a son. Enjoy your evening.....

I was trolling breh, but there are people like that....

 

[DarkHorse23]

#NotAllMen

You're right. There's actually a percentage of men who REALLY want to watch tv, gossip, and go shopping with you. What was i thinking?

 

[KingFreeman]

What the hell is "free companionship"???


Lord have mercy the misogyny on this site never ceases to amaze me.


So now, a woman is not worthy of male companionship, unless she shares her body with him and has sex with the man?



If you're gonna give conversation or friendship to a woman, she must repay you with SEX!?








Thats the same woman you will treat like dirt or call a hoe, because of how many "bodies" she got from "male companions", or you will discard Her for being a single mother.
(As if she became a single mother on her own.)


#ColiLogic

By free companionship I meant do boyfriend/husband-type things with a woman that doesn't view you as such. It may seem like this is misogynistic, but so many men do it and end up in a situation they end up regretting. Understand where Im coming from? Its happened to me before if that makes it any better

 

[CinnaSlim]

You're right. There's actually a percentage of men who REALLY want to watch tv, gossip, and go shopping with you. What was i thinking?

I don't ask men to do all that lol. I had a dude I went to the movies with or went to events with cause no one else wanted to go.

 

[DarkHorse23]

All men want sex, but is it ALL you want?

You can't be friendly or respectful to a woman who isn't giving you sex?


You think that's normal or okay behavior?

To say all men came for sex, so give it to them, and if you don't you're a manipulative bytch? A tease? A user?


Why is it that women are wrong for expecting men to enjoy their company without sex, but it's seen as normal for a man to always expect sex from any woman he's attracted to and friendly with?


How is that okay? Why are women supposed to accept that, but men can't accept the fact they need to have self control and stop being driven so much by sex?

I just read 10 chapters the last two weeks to write a paper. So i don't need your 'novel' tonight.

(1) I never advocated being disrespectful or rude to women who won't have sex with you.
(2) I never said women are obligated to give men sex.
(3) A woman is only a manipulator or user if she misleads a man in thinking she will have sex with him, and isn't upfront with her feelings or lack thereof. And as @MoonGoddess has said they're are MANY women who are like that? And i've seen it and experienced it. So stop the 'woe is me...men are predators sermon'
(4) Well....that's all i got for you

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

By free companionship I meant do boyfriend/husband-type things with a woman that doesn't view you as such. It may seem like this is misogynistic, but so many men do it and end up in a situation they end up regretting. Understand where Im coming from? Its happened to me before if that makes it any better

What is "husband/boyfriend" type of stuff?

 

[DarkHorse23]

I don't ask men to do all that lol. I had a dude I went to the movies with or went to events with cause no one else wanted to go.

Was he gay? lol

 

[KingFreeman]

What is "husband/boyfriend" type of stuff?

Become the woman's emotional doormat (past friend levels), buy things for her, take her out, and give her the attention that some other woman that could possibly be a mate could get, things like that. Some cats that don't know any better can end up with a woman/girl offering false promises of an actual relationship to get things, or the dudes can simply be wasting their time when they could be establishing an actual relationship with another woman.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I was trolling breh, but there are people like that....

I'm glad you're not like that....

 

[CinnaSlim]

Was he gay? lol

No, I'm sure he wanted to hit lol. That wasn't my point tho.

 

[ORDER_66]

By free companionship I meant do boyfriend/husband-type things with a woman that doesn't view you as such. It may seem like this is misogynistic, but so many men do it and end up in a situation they end up regretting. Understand where Im coming from? Its happened to me before if that makes it any better

Yep. if im spending boyfriend time with you, i deserve to have boyfriend benefits too... aint nothing here free pleghgurl...

 

[DarkHorse23]

Friend zone means that she thinks you're cool, but she doesn't like you like "that".


Women don't know what they want...
but women do know what they DONT want. (Difference)

If she friend zoned you immediately... It's cause she doesn't want you. (Like that)
Get over your ego and accept it. Don't be mad at her cause she doesn't want you, and hate on the "thugs" or cooler guys she's more attracted to.


SHE DOESNT WANT YOU.AND JUST BECAUSE YOUR NICE DOESNT MEAN WOMEN ARE OBLIGATED TO LIKE YOU!



Some of Yall "Friend Zone Niccas" stick around waiting for a "pitty fukk" or hope the girl (who's prolly waaaayyyy outta your league) comes around to wanting you. Or you think you can manipulate your way into her affection.

Even if you ever do get that.... She's only settling because you're there and she doesn't want to be lonely, or feels sorry for you. But Make no mistakes, nothing has changed!!!!!!


SHE DOESNT WANT YOU!


And when a better guy comes along, or the guy she REALLY wants for whatever reason comes around...


You are outta there! Gone. Finished.


Then you're gonna be on the Coli playing the victim talking about how "bytches ain't shyt" When she made it clear to you from the beginning that SHE DOESNT WANT YOU!!! Like "that". Only as a friend.


But you hung around trying to play "the nice guy" role to manipulate your way into sex.

(BTW REAL "nice guys" would never be manipulative, and then bitter and revengeful when it doesn't pan out how they want. )

I will NEVER have to question your gender. Your words have woman/female written all over them.....

 

[DarkHorse23]

No, I'm sure he wanted to hit lol. That wasn't my point tho.

 

[King P]

It exists, but it's your choice to decide if you want to be in that zone or not.

The funny part is that as many men that have a problem with women friend zoning them, there are just as many woman that have a problem with males not wanting to be friend zoned. They be like "What's wrong with just being friends? Am I not good enough to be your friend? Or are you just looking at me as a piece of meat? You're disgusting!"

There's nothing wrong with being just friends. But some guys just don't want that, and you as a female shouldn't expect them to. I mean think about it, why did these men approach in you in the 1st place? How many men actually look at an attractive female and say.think "You know, I'd really like to be her friend". The answer is none. They obviously were looking for something more than friendship.

The problem with females and that mentality is that they're essentially asking/expecting that man to settle. That is female arrogance at it's highest level. These men didn't want friendship from you, they wanted more. You didn't want to give them more, fine. But why should they stick around for something they didn't want in the 1st place? I mean, it's fine that you don't want them on that level. And you will not settle (most females won't). But yet at the same time, you expect the man to settle?

Long story short: A man isn't obligated to a woman's vagina, and a woman isn't obligated to a man's friendship

 

[Neil Tyson]

Yeah I don't play that shyt. If I don't want to be friends then you were indeed just a slab of meat to me because you had zero personality.