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[DarkHorse23]

It exists, but it's your choice to decide if you want to be in that zone or not.

The funny part is that as many men that have a problem with women friend zoning them, there are just as many woman that have a problem with males not wanting to be friend zoned. They be like "What's wrong with just being friends? Am I not good enough to be your friend? Or are you just looking at me as a piece of meat? You're disgusting!"

There's nothing wrong with being just friends. But some guys just don't want that, and you as a female shouldn't expect them to. I mean think about it, why did these men approach in you in the 1st place? How many men actually look at an attractive female and say.think "You know, I'd really like to be her friend". The answer is none. They obviously were looking for something more than friendship.

The problem with females and that mentality is that they're essentially asking/expecting that man to settle. That is female arrogance at it's highest level. These men didn't want friendship from you, they wanted more. You didn't want to give them more, fine. But why should they stick around for something they didn't want in the 1st place? I mean, it's fine that you don't want them on that level. And you will not settle (most females won't). But yet at the same time, you expect the man to settle?

Long story short: A man isn't obligated to a woman's vagina, and a woman isn't obligated to a man's friendship

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I keep reading these sob stories of virgins on the coli, talmbout how they been put in the friendzone and once they get there, there's no way out


but I gotta ask: is that a real thing?

If I decide to approach you for your mind and get to know you as a friend, instead of coming for your beautiful titties and nice ass.... does that mean that you will forever look at me as a friend and nothing more?

there's a friendzone and there's a holding zone.... you gotta know the difference



some women just want to be nice.. so they talk, give you the number, hoping you'll go away.. but really they don't mind you, but they see nothing more, and wouldn't care if you said fukk them and left



then sometimes they'll have a man, be 2 weeks away from cheating, unhappy, ready for the right man to get them panties... but she still a little scared so you gottta approach it like you just the shoulder to cry on..... and we all know where that leads

 

[UpAndComing]

What I realized is that if you don't talk about romance with the girl your talking to within 10 days of meeting her, she automatically puts you in the friend zone

 

[Perpetual Beast]

It really is OP... I used to jerk off in one quite frequently bro

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Yes, it does exist. Some of us are evil and we laugh at you and your pitiful attempts to try to get us to see you as more than someone we can talk to when we are bored or to boost our ego when the guy that we really like doesnt pay us any mind. Oh and when we need you to make our boyfriends jealous. Or need a ride, or someone to go to the mechanic with when our car is acting up. Or to help is with plumbing. Or to paint our toenails when our real female friends are busy.
Whats even more funny is that some of us will rub up against you, rub your shoulders, hug you and press our boobs against you and act offended when you get a boner.

Oh and you better not get a girl friend, cause we'll sabotage that too

dap and rep for being a real bytch!!!

now that was the truth.. fukk what these other ladies talking about, like it don't exist.. like every male "friend" is super fukking awesome but just isn't for her

nah... some of y'all out here using and abusing these "friends" for nothing more than your pleasure.. you KNOW he likes you.. he approached you looking for a date.. you know damn well he ain't trying to be your friend... and instead of keeping it 100 and saying it's never gonna happen and neither of you need new friends..........

instead you string him along... flirting, touching, gazing, hinting at things that'll never happen.. for the exact ego boosting and life hacking reasons that this woman just gave


i can't hate the game... cause men out here playing a role to get p*ssy.. so to each its own... but stop lying and playing innocent.. the friend zone is not a unicorn

and to go 15 steps farther






to all the women saying they don't believe it.... to all the men saying they don't believe it


how many of y'all NEVER fukked a friend.... ever?

 

[duckbutta]

Only dysfunctional women are repulsed by respectful approaches. I never deal with a man that approaches me in a disrespectful manner (rarely if ever happens)


Nobody puts you in the friendzone. You choose to stick around thinking you will be her man after she told you and showed you it's not happening. Instead of moving on you put yourself in the friendzone. Nobody puts you there without your consent.

 

[The Mad Titan]

So if a man chooses to stay around and get "friend zoned" its his fault, but if a woman decides to have sex and get's pregnant "it takes two"




But really tho...

If your in your late 20's and getting friend zoned, time to get yo head right. Women will friendzone you in a heartbeat if your useful but dont turn them on, you either stick around for it or move on.

 

[agnosticlady]

dap and rep for being a real bytch!!!

now that was the truth.. fukk what these other ladies talking about, like it don't exist.. like every male "friend" is super fukking awesome but just isn't for her

nah... some of y'all out here using and abusing these "friends" for nothing more than your pleasure.. you KNOW he likes you.. he approached you looking for a date.. you know damn well he ain't trying to be your friend... and instead of keeping it 100 and saying it's never gonna happen and neither of you need new friends..........

instead you string him along... flirting, touching, gazing, hinting at things that'll never happen.. for the exact ego boosting and life hacking reasons that this woman just gave


i can't hate the game... cause men out here playing a role to get p*ssy.. so to each its own... but stop lying and playing innocent.. the friend zone is not a unicorn

and to go 15 steps farther






to all the women saying they don't believe it.... to all the men saying they don't believe it


how many of y'all NEVER fukked a friend.... ever?

It doesn't exist.

1. A true friend doesn't treat you like that
2. You know through her actions that she doesn't like you like that, but you hope that she will give you the time of the day
3. As I said before nobody can take advantage of you unless you allow them to

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

It doesn't exist.

1. A true friend doesn't treat you like that
2. You know through her actions that she doesn't like you like that, but you hope that she will give you the time of the day
3. As I said before nobody can take advantage of you unless you allow them to

that sounds like it does exist, people just choose not to leave

like i said... we have ALL fukked friends...

we have all been hollered at/tried to holla.... fukked up somewhere and been friends for months or longer.... then at some point ended up smashing

that time you was friends... you was in the zone man... whether you chose or not, accepted or not, bided your time or whatever you want to call it.... at some point you was just playing friend (hence why you're in a zone and not a real friend) until you could escape the zone (by quitting or hitting)

on the flip side... a woman knows what you want.. chose to not let you go.. and decided to keep you around as a friend... knowing you really don't want to be there and still want to hit and would if given the shot...

she knows you ain't a real friend... so you don't get real friend status... you get trying to smash but not so useless that i'll shyt on you... aka... friend zone

 

[Geek Nasty]

My opinion on the friendzone is it's when a woman has decided that she likes you, but she thinks she can do better. So, she keeps you on the back burner just in case. You can get out of it if you stop simping and move on. The moment she sees you moving in on another woman she's going to flip. If she immediately changes her mind, you know you were in the friend zone.

 

[Mac Casper]

Does it exist? Is you some type of social incompetent . .


I friend zone bytches all the time breh . .

 

[jwonder]

It is a real thing I have a friend who can't stop befriending women that are not fukking with him. He got so many female contacts that don't see him as more than a friend it is unbelievable. Dude doesn't get it... He's been working on some of these women for a decade, still holding out hope. I've had the chance to smash a couple of these friends but I can't hurt his soul like that.

One of em was drunk texting me from his phone so I know he saw it. He tried to smash the same night too and she bounced on his ass

I don't let no female put me in that spot. I have one close female friend and she is hot and I use her to bag more girls and she uses me to get at dudes.

Dude please tell me you making this up. Who the fukk does that? I'm a seasoned veteran, so I can see the signs quick if the vibe isn't there. No problem being friends with women, but some broads be thinking that you still going to take them out. One chick that told me she wanted to be friends I was like cool. She could be a good wing woman. She wanted to go out so some restaurant. I was like cool. I said we are friends, so this dutch. She was like oh I thought you were treating. I don't chase or sweat these broads. Your boy is part of the problem I have to sadly say.

 

[jwonder]

Yes, it does exist. Some of us are evil and we laugh at you and your pitiful attempts to try to get us to see you as more than someone we can talk to when we are bored or to boost our ego when the guy that we really like doesnt pay us any mind. Oh and when we need you to make our boyfriends jealous. Or need a ride, or someone to go to the mechanic with when our car is acting up. Or to help is with plumbing. Or to paint our toenails when our real female friends are busy.
Whats even more funny is that some of us will rub up against you, rub your shoulders, hug you and press our boobs against you and act offended when you get a boner.

Oh and you better not get a girl friend, cause we'll sabotage that too

I can't believe dudes really do this. Simping is in full effect. I never did anything like this before. I mean without it going both ways.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Dude please tell me you making this up. Who the fukk does that? I'm a seasoned veteran, so I can see the signs quick if the vibe isn't there. No problem being friends with women, but some broads be thinking that you still going to take them out. One chick that told me she wanted to be friends I was like cool. She could be a good wing woman. She wanted to go out so some restaurant. I was like cool. I said we are friends, so this dutch. She was like oh I thought you were treating. I don't chase or sweat these broads. Your boy is part of the problem I have to sadly say.

I'm not joking. Matter fact it gets worse like yall wouldn't believe.

Dude just got out a 2 year full time relationship that his girl broke off and now she basically using him as a platonic friend. I haven't inquired into their status but it's obvious.... They don't spend the night together anymore so I suspect he ain't getting sex but he still takes her to dinner and movies etc

At this point what do I say to dude?

 

[ORDER_66]

I'm not joking. Matter fact it gets worse like yall wouldn't believe.

Dude just got out a 2 year full time relationship that his girl broke off and now she basically using him as a platonic friend. I haven't inquired into their status but it's obvious.... They don't spend the night together anymore so I suspect he ain't getting sex but he still takes her to dinner and movies etc

At this point what do I say to dude?

TELL him to stop being a fukking looser... he has to show her he moved on and pipe some other chick!!!