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- Thread starter Neo. The Only. The One.
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havoc
Superstar
A guy you are dating is not your friend. He is either a date/or FWB. Women seem get this shyt wrong all the time, always calling a guy who they are dating/fukking a friend
Some of you ladies need to learn how to speak with nuance. Never in my entire 34 years of breathing in this world I ever heard a man called a woman he is smashing and dating a "FRIEND".A guy you are dating is not your friend. He is either a date/or FWB. Women seem get this shyt wrong all the time, always calling a guy who they are dating/fukking a friend
but im not fukking him, I wanna get to know him before I do that
edit: I think I misinterpreted the OP's post.
ORDER_66
I am The Wrench in all your plans....
So your ACTIVELY dating him, thats fine but there are women out here using men for that emotional pickup but the men aint getting nothing outta it, that's just wrong...
So your ACTIVELY dating him, thats fine but there are women out here using men for that emotional pickup but the men aint getting nothing outta it, that's just wrong...
So why are the men staying and complaining if they're not getting anything out of it....onto the next one.
ORDER_66
I am The Wrench in all your plans....
So why are the men staying and complaining if they're not getting anything out of it....onto the next one.
Because in some sick and twisted game the woman gives the men just enough to keep the man hanging on... some men are simps until they snap outta it, and some men never do, they have to hit that rock bottom to truly change and see these women for what they are...
Some women are fukked up and broken they will use men and proclaim they are nice people, but they will never reflect and say to themselves what they are doing is wrong because they get off on using people... but the men who allow it are even worse because they have this pathological need to make her into their girlfriend/ mate they tolerate the abuse. idk why...
Like i said they gotta hit rock bottom or get something to snap them outta it...
Only time I got put in the friend zone is becuz thats what I wanted.
Yes, it does exist. Some of us are evil and we laugh at you and your pitiful attempts to try to get us to see you as more than someone we can talk to when we are bored or to boost our ego when the guy that we really like doesnt pay us any mind. Oh and when we need you to make our boyfriends jealous. Or need a ride, or someone to go to the mechanic with when our car is acting up. Or to help is with plumbing. Or to paint our toenails when our real female friends are busy.
Whats even more funny is that some of us will rub up against you, rub your shoulders, hug you and press our boobs against you and act offended when you get a boner.
Oh and you better not get a girl friend, cause we'll sabotage that too
I have no words...
Theodoresolderbreh
No Shorts No Malarkey
Be ugly and a simp and think she gonna be with brehs. 
that's truly has to be a horrible situation to keep shooting at the basketball and having shaq block you every time
that's truly has to be a horrible situation to keep shooting at the basketball and having shaq block you every time
Then that's not the friend zone. The friend zone (in a guy's case) is when he actually wants to hook up/get in a relationship with the girl but she wants to keep him as a friend. If you WANTED to just be her friend then you weren't ever in the friendzone
Friend zone is like a prison with an open door.
If it's done the RIGHT way (I.e. What was once known as courting) then yes this is the ideal way to go about dating to find a life mate.
HOWEVER things done changed...
My personal belief is that what we call the "friend zone" does indeed exist. Most men who've dealt with many women have experienced it at least once. With experience however I feel like men have to take responsibility to understand which type of friend one their being put in.
A). The female isn't attracted to you, but understands that you are a simp and aill do anything for her with just the SLIGHT possibility that may garner her favor. This is the manipulative female, the one who leave in the bushes as quickly as possible and do not stay in contact with.
B). The female IS attracted to you, but might have been going through a period of men smashing and dashing her and is afraid that, as a nice guy trying to honestly win her favor, are just another pretender. This is the emotionally scarred female, and depending on your commitment of attraction to her it might prove worthwhile to stick around until you've eased her emotional walls or move on.
C). The female is slightly attracted to you, or qualities you possess, but feels thats she can do "better" than you. Either a better looking man, one with a better job/status, or an overall better fit. This is the female who feels like she's "out of your league" or whatever you want to call it. I personally will not stand to be put on ANY woman's back burner as a "just in case" option. fukk that. Chuck her the deuces and introduce her to the bushes
NZA
LOL
you're not a real friend if you would rather be something else to her. you're just passive aggressive and pretending to be a friend is the only dating strategy you have. the sooner you are honest with yourself, the better off you will be.