$33k Student Loan
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ndthentherewasx
El Capitan
So what ever did haopen with this?
How are things with you and your mom's
How are things with you and your mom's
Dak Pickscott
Shout out to Dallas my bih is a star
God has us still here, still together and I'm thankful for him and her. I mentioned this in another thread but two weeks after I made this thread my pops died after a long struggle with diabetes. At the time I was so confused I was about to possibly turn my mother into the police for this when I had already knew that she did it. That would not have been the best move especially considering what happened next. I couldn't live with myself putting my own mother in prison. Regardless though without God and the Lord Jesus Christ I would have caved in. I would have given up. I stayed faithful and waited on him and he's delivered me. I still have this on my credit report but please believe God already has a plan for me. I just have to allow him to work my life. I love my mother though although I was angry that she did it behind my back without telling me my mother did more than I could ever pay her back raising me in this cold cold world so I just have to be stronger than that. I'm thankful for some of yall brehs in here that talked me thru this and helped me weigh my options as it helped me make the best decision for me to be comfortable with. I can truly say I'm over this and I've passed it on to God and he's handling the rest.
ndthentherewasx
El Capitan
Damn, I'm sorry to hear about your pops. My condolences.
As per your mother, you did good by not pursuing charges; idk why she did it but I'm sure it wasnt malicious in her part.
Stay strong for each other and keep seeing the light, stay hustling and bustling too.
Eventually that 33k will be paid in full or handled and you'll be like
Salutes breh
Dak Pickscott
Shout out to Dallas my bih is a star
Interesting you say that because I do feel it was partly malicious but the bible told me to not rely on my own understanding lol. Me and her got into it and I disrespected her and talked very rude to my mother before she did that. I can imagine it hurting her to the point that she wanted to hurt me so I think thats where the not telling me part comes in. Her needing the loan for money is a separate issue tho as she's older and no longer working/only receiving social security so she may have come to me at some point wanting to do this down the line anyway. It dont even matter tho man. She's my mother and the bible says honour thy mother and father. I had to man up and become that kinda man.Damn, I'm sorry to hear about your pops. My condolences.
As per your mother, you did good by not pursuing charges; idk why she did it but I'm sure it wasnt malicious in her part.
Stay strong for each other and keep seeing the light, stay hustling and bustling too.
Eventually that 33k will be paid in full or handled and you'll be like
Salutes breh
ndthentherewasx
El Capitan
The struggle and inner conflict with your own thoughts and feelings vs what the "good book" says, it must be
She was petty for not telling you about it but like you said, that's your momma. You had to man up and accept it.
You supporting her right now?
Dak Pickscott
Shout out to Dallas my bih is a star
We support each other is how I look at it. I'm not married yet so until that day she's the #1 woman in my life lol. She makes it a lot easier for me too. Lord knows how much of a struggle it would be without her. It's easy to overlook these kind of things during rages of anger tho. This is where the good book comes in handy for me personally.The struggle and inner conflict with your own thoughts and feelings vs what the "good book" says, it must be
She was petty for not telling you about it but like you said, that's your momma. You had to man up and accept it.
You supporting her right now?
ndthentherewasx
El Capitan
You're a better person than me. I would forgive her but I'm still calling the cops. There are consequences to actions and it takes a really big person to accept the consequences of the person that violated them.
Student loan debt is for life. Non-dischargeable in bankruptcy. Either she or you needs to pay back those loans because if you don't the interest is going to keep them growing and the debt will get out of control.
There are two things in this country that you pay. Your taxes and your student loans. Those loans are so bad they can garnish your social security as a senior citizen to get that money back.