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[Yup]

The more Caucasoid your features are, the easier life is. In the job world, in the dating world, socially, when dealing with the police, when vacationing, when marketing yourself, etc

Plus assuming that you are dark-skinned...genetics are very strange. You kids may be mixed but still be very dark or not look mixed. You can't be sure of how your genetics will turn out in your children.

I think you need to sort out how you feel about being black and bringing mixed children in the world or else you may en up disappointed.

 

[(Lean Ambrose)]

Historically black men were NEVER as savage or insecure compared to other men when it came to bw shacking up with other men.

Your right... Should we care more?... Idk probably... But most of us really don't give a shyt

 

[Yup]

In the dating world, being black isn't AS MUCH as an issue for men as it is for women

It can still be a hindrance but it's easier for a black man to eat than it is for a black women

Black women can still eat to. I know of a lot of brown guys who like black women

I see.

 

[Gaara]

according to stats that's true. But since your black, you don't think that your black features will be held against you when you settle down yourself? Or is that more an issue for bw like @Gaara says.

Never said black features were held against black women. Honestly non-black male reasons for not dating black women sometimes include looks but often cite traits like attitude, uncouthness and materialism as reasons for why they avoid black women. And it's kinda funny that their reasons for avoiding black women mirror black men's reason for avoiding black women.

 

[Yup]

Never said black features were held against black women. Honestly non-black male reasons for not dating black women sometimes include looks but often cite traits like attitude, uncouthness and materialism as reasons for why they avoid black women. And it's kinda funny that they're reasons for avoiding black women mirror black men's reason for avoiding black women.

so you agree with these white male views of bw I presume.

I believe if there is one thing that cannot be held against black women is them being materialistic. Any black guy I have heard complained about bw materialism who date exclusively other races were never 'broke' guys. They always had their ish together...so I fin it funny when dudes imply Asian/white/latina women are less materialistic. Anyway, I don't believe that white men found black women too materialistic to date(that's straight from the black male playbook) or else they would not date Asian women as they do. East Asian women don't hide that their materialistic and I would argue are the most materialistic and classist of all women.

What I can agree with is that bw like bm are flashy. Love of display of wealth but that comes from not being in contact with people with real wealth.

Perhaps their approach is different but the result is the same. Why would an Asian/white/latina settle for a broke black man when they are far more likely to find a man that is stable in their own communities.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

 

[Prynce]

How do you figure I'm in my feelings? Does that sound good to you to make it seem like somebody in their feelings? Who said women couldn't do what they want?

quoting me for no reason

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

why do black men turn men of other races into such uncomfortable weirdos?

Cuz they know how their girl feels about us. They want the pipe

 

[Gaara]

so you agree with these white male views of bw I presume.

I believe if there is one thing that cannot be held against black women is them being materialistic. Any black guy I have heard complained about bw materialism who date exclusively other races were never 'broke' guys. They always had their ish together...so I fin it funny when dudes imply Asian/white/latina women are less materialistic.

Perhaps their approach is different but the result is the same. Why would an Asian/white/latina settle for a broke black man when they are far more likely to find a man that is stable in their own communities.

No i don't actually but see how you jump to conclusions and how it takes next to nothing to cause your tempers to flair that is what a lot of black men (And white men) complain about.

i actually agree that other races of women are faaaaaar more materialistic than black women. So why are you singling out black men for this when white men view you in the same fashion despite not having as much prolonged contact with you as black men.

 

[Yup]

No i don't actually but see how you jump to conclusions and how it takes next to nothing to cause your tempers to flair that is what a lot of black men (And white men) complain about.

i actually agree that other races of women are faaaaaar more materialistic than black women. So why are you singling out black men for this when white men view in the same fashion despite not having as much prolonged contact with you as black men.

wha ? I am responding to you...where am i flaring. You've said something I disagreed with...I responded why. Where is temper tantrum?

I just don't agree that materialism is listed as the main reason some wm don't consider bw for dating. I personally think its a predominantly black male opinion.

 

[Gaara]

wha ? I am responding to you...where am i flaring. You've said something I disagreed with...I responded why. Where is temper tantrum?

Ok whatever

 

[philmonroe]

quoting me for no reason

Nah y'all cats like to make yourselves feel more important than y'all are. If anything maybe I read your post wrong. If I didn't I said we weren't going to agree and since you stated you wasn't arguing about your views I just said we can agree to disagree. If I was in my feelings as some of you dudes like to overuse I wouldn't even said that

 

[philmonroe]

wha ? I am responding to you...where am i flaring. You've said something I disagreed with...I responded why. Where is temper tantrum?

That seems to be some new online tactic that anybody you reply to you have to be pissed knocking keys off the keyboard or something.

 

[Gaara]

That seems to be some new online tactic that anybody you reply to you have to be pissed knocking keys off the keyboard or something.

No i misinterpreted the way she responded that's all. i'm one of the more level headed guys on here

 

[Yup]

Ok whatever

Sometimes some bm can be just as guilty on stereotyping bw. I actually like the honest conversation we are having...I think a lot of dudes think like you on the low but would never admit openly much less to themselves. So its nice to have someone say it like it is. I aint mad.