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[Sugar]

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[Micky Mikey]

Women are women brehs. As a man you are in the driver's seat and assume full control over any interaction you have with a women. You dicate what happens next while the women is in the driver's seat. And you may get rejected but it's all about how you handle it. Remember brothers time is on our side and we age like wine. There is no need to take rejection all that serious.

 

[Ohene]

So coli, give me a convo starter.

Let's say I see a beautiful young Betty on the campus bus listening to music or in the library reading a book. What do I say? What do I do?
I'm all ears

smh

as far as a book...read the title on the cover and spark a convo based on what the cover portrays
if its a ttextbook, use the topic, "is that a genetics textbook? hows that class?" this right here is enough to break the ice and segway into other questions that allow yall to get to know eachother. right then you can find out what program she's in (she says biology), what year she's in (she says shes a sophomore)..."oh word? how come I'm just seeing you now. where you been hiding this whole time"

it might sound corny but this shyt works man.
listening to music on a bus? tough because time is of the essence and you have to disrupt them.

i either tap them or use my phone's notepad and type a joke or HI then show it to them prompting them to remove their headphones and respond. I've literally used the paint option and just wrote "HI" in big letters with lines. They love that shyt... I'm 3 for 3 for me when it comes to getting the number. After she removes the headphones though it's up to you to have something to say.

There's no cheat code; you just have to learn to use the situation around you (what you see) to spark a convo. Maybe you saw she was listening to an artist you like when you glanced at her phone screen. Maybe she has on a nice jacket/hat or some shyt. WHo knows and who cares. Just blurt something out and dont get discouraged if the initial response isn't fully endearing.

 

[Ohene]

you wanna know how to "practice" approaching dimes then? Go to the mall, with a homie or solo, and just say hi to every fine girl in passing. Literally everyone you walk by, look at her, and say hi, how are you doing? Say it loud enough that she hears you, and look at her so that she knows you are talking to her. And smile as you do it. It's thaaaaaat simple. By saying hi, for the sole purpose of saying hi, without the "pressure" of trying to seduce her, is how you warm up. I think we all can say "hi" to a pretty girl with no problems, right?
Do this for....ehhh maybe two or three trips. The location isn't important. Anywhere with a high concentration of girls in an open, come and go location is good. After you get comfortable just saying hi, asking them how they are doing, and responding if you want, compliment them. Say that they look nice, they're beautiful, gorgeous whatever. That's the next step. And calling a girl beautiful only works if she's...beautiful, lol. Now you see why I laughed when you said approaching 5s and below. There's nothing pretty about them. An ugy girl will think you're pranking if you compliment her meanwhile, a dime, who obviously takes time to LOOK NICE, will appreciate someone observing her beauty and acknowledging it. All pretty girls want attenton. You're doing them a disservice by ignoring them. They wasted their time coming in public to be invisible.

Also rejection gets a bad reputation. So what if a girl rejects you? She's just not interested. There's how many girls in the world? Being told no, that she's not interested is scary how? Being burned alive is scary. Falling from a twenty story building is scary. Having a gun pointed at your head is scary. Id rather get turned down by the girl before any of that shyt happens.

youve grown up breh

 

[MaxBundles]

you wanna know how to "practice" approaching dimes then? Go to the mall, with a homie or solo, and just say hi to every fine girl in passing. Literally everyone you walk by, look at her, and say hi, how are you doing? Say it loud enough that she hears you, and look at her so that she knows you are talking to her. And smile as you do it. It's thaaaaaat simple. By saying hi, for the sole purpose of saying hi, without the "pressure" of trying to seduce her, is how you warm up. I think we all can say "hi" to a pretty girl with no problems, right?
Do this for....ehhh maybe two or three trips. The location isn't important. Anywhere with a high concentration of girls in an open, come and go location is good. After you get comfortable just saying hi, asking them how they are doing, and responding if you want, compliment them. Say that they look nice, they're beautiful, gorgeous whatever. That's the next step. And calling a girl beautiful only works if she's...beautiful, lol. Now you see why I laughed when you said approaching 5s and below. There's nothing pretty about them. An ugy girl will think you're pranking if you compliment her meanwhile, a dime, who obviously takes time to LOOK NICE, will appreciate someone observing her beauty and acknowledging it. All pretty girls want attenton. You're doing them a disservice by ignoring them. They wasted their time coming in public to be invisible.

Also rejection gets a bad reputation. So what if a girl rejects you? She's just not interested. There's how many girls in the world? Being told no, that she's not interested is scary how? Being burned alive is scary. Falling from a twenty story building is scary. Having a gun pointed at your head is scary. Id rather get turned down by the girl before any of that shyt happens.

lol nikka foh dont talk to me like i need this information, i dont have this problem. im just speaking from an objective point of view

 

[Sugar]

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[Sauce Dab]

can't let a young nikka have his moment

hating ass nikkas

You know how the coli works

 

[I AM WARHOL]

Just say what's up

They humans like us

She gonna respond.

I feel you. My thing is will they not feel like I'm disturbing there flow? I've tried the library one about 3 times and broads always look annoyed. I'd understand the reaction if I was ugly, but I'd like to consider myself a good looking dude. Should I just keep trying till it works?

 

[the bossman]

That, I don't even care enough to think about if she's uninterested, it'll show up in further conversations. and girls like that eventually fade away.

here's the difference. you waste time with "further conversations" and blah dates waiting for the flakes to fade away, while I know she's most likely interested right away, cause she hit me up like I told her to! the odds are much higher and I found out in less time.

The fact that you said "if she calls/text it's a bonus" shows how faulty that approach is. Getting an text from anyone should never be a bonus. this aint a job benefit it should be a GIVEN, and that's something that's harder to control if you're not in control of the situation. There's literally no power in giving her your number. Feminine girls are the most beautiful girls, and they only respond to masculinity. I've never gave a dime my number and heard from her ever again. Another dime.

nikka just stop. you reading too deep into it. Women are just a perk/bonus to me, because I'm already happy with my life and what I'm doing. My happiness is never dependent on them. so if she wants to get with me, cool. that's nothing but a bonus . There's nothing to control UNTIL she shows interest. nikka acting like I'm tellin the broad to set up the date and pick me up from my house. Once she hits me up like I told her to, I take over. It's that simple. "here's my card/here take down my number, give me a call/text tomorrow afternoon so we can get together for X". how is that not masculine? do you understand what masculine means?you thinking about ti way too hard bruh. This works on dimes, 5s, 6s, 7s, 8s. It doesn't matter what she looks like. a dime bleeds once a month just like a 6. A woman is a woman is a woman. When a woman is interested in you, she will do damn near anything you tell her to.

You were guy #482389 who asked for her number that night while I may have been one of the few or only one who gave her my card or told her to take down my number and then rolled out. none of that "hey chelsea? yea it's me tyrone from last night, remember me guy #238923?". The fact that you've never heard from a dime again after giving her your number speaks to YOU bruh, not anybody else, cause thats not my experience.

 

[Prynce]

smh

as far as a book...read the title on the cover and spark a convo based on what the cover portrays
if its a ttextbook, use the topic, "is that a genetics textbook? hows that class?" this right here is enough to break the ice and segway into other questions that allow yall to get to know eachother. right then you can find out what program she's in (she says biology), what year she's in (she says shes a sophomore)..."oh word? how come I'm just seeing you now. where you been hiding this whole time"

it might sound corny but this shyt works man. its no different thann talking to somebody here...you

listening to music on a bus? tough because time is of the essence and you have to disrupt them.

i either tap them or use my phone's notepad and type a joke or HI then show it to them prompting them to remove their headphones and respond. I've literally used the paint option and just wrote "HI" in big letters with lines. They love that shyt... I'm 3 for 3 for me when it comes to getting the number. After she removes the headphones though it's up to you to have something to say.

There's no cheat code; you just have to learn to use the situation around you (what you see) to spark a convo. Maybe you saw she was listening to an artist you like when you glanced at her phone screen. Maybe she has on a nice jacket/hat or some shyt. WHo knows and who cares. Just blurt something out and dont get discouraged if the initial response isn't fully endearing.

That's a good ass idea

 

[PhonZhi]

So coli, give me a convo starter.

Let's say I see a beautiful young Betty on the campus bus listening to music or in the library reading a book. What do I say? What do I do?
I'm all ears

Honestly the DIRECT APPROACH mite work the best in these situations. Ive done it before in the library scenario. Basicly i saw her sitting in a chair reading a book and i walked over to her. The following is basicly what i said word for word:

Me: hey, how are u? May i ask u a question real quick? Whats your name?

Her: Kim

Me: Nice to meet u Kim, hey look i saw you earlier, thought you were cute and just had to come say something to you.

Her: awww thank you

Me: so can i sit down for a second or u got a man? I dont wanna get you in trouble

Her: oh naw you good, im single lol

Me on the inside:

Me: *sits down and asks about the book she's reading, where she's from, why a beautiful girl like her is single, etc before asking and receiving the number.


Thats it. Simple. The biggest thing is having the balls to do it. There's no magic words or lines. Its all about simply having the courage to go over to her, expressing to her that you find her attractive (keep it simple, respectful and non-thirsty) and being able to improvise and carry on with the convo using your surroundings to help. Keep in mind that this is strictly how I do it. Everybody is different. Every girl is different also and wont respond the same. Im not with the "beating around the bush" indirect approach. Im extremely direct and aggressive. She knows why im talking to her rite from the jump. I ask if she has a man rite away so ill know rite then. If she tells me she has a man ill K.I.M. Everybody cant do the direct approach. It takes HUGE balls but women love it. The chick in the above example later told me that she LOVED how aggressive i was when i approached (she was also physically attracted to me at 1st sight so that helped too).

Bottomline breh: getcha convo game up. I think thats the key. Even with all that i just said, the most important part is what you say AFTER you've mustered up the courage to introduce yourself.

Can u keep the convo going? Can u make her laugh? Can u keep her looking at you in interest? Is she asking YOU questions? Like i said earlier, once i learned the art of conversation and improvisation, it gave me the confidence to approach women.

 

[Sugar]

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[TEH]

The cold approach works and women respect it once they find you attractive and you are not sleazy.

Just don't come one too strong....

 

[Kano]

Why

Being tall is a foot in the door so to speak, one less hurdle to think about even if you aren't as aesthetic as your shorter counterpart.

If you're tall, dress well, good dental work and moderately aesthetic, the odds are certainly with you.

 

[Versa]

When I see black men refer to dark skin a pleasing description and not a negative tag