Assume you have two options:
1) To make $300,000 per year in the United States until retirement in a predominantly white town/city.
or
2) Make an amount considered as middle/upper-middle class in a developing, predominantly black country (Jamaica, Ghana, Nigeria, etc.). You live a comfortable existence and own a home. Income is considerably less. but so is cost of living.
Does the higher income offset the effect on the psyche of being a racial minority in a country as racist as America or nah?
Would your quality of life be better in an all black country (since you have bread) than America?
Which you choosing?![]()
For me it's option 1 for a couple of reasons. I'm African American, so adapting to another persons country is something I'm not interested in doing. I would miss my own African American culture ( Soul food, Hip hop, dancing, sports, etc).
Secondly Africans tend to be really tribal. You don't see a lot of Africans willing to date African Americans, unless they have a lot of money. Then I need to ask myself " If I didn't have money would she still want me"? If the answer is no, then screw it. That's in America to; but at least culturally speaking I could meet a women ( see earlier paragraph).
Thirdly, you would always be a target in those countries. I think somebody said they" could afford security". In America I wouldn't have to worry to much about that, in comparison to living in certain African/ Carribean countries. It's just whatever.
But finally I would just miss America ( the black part). I love playing spades with the fam. I love Sunday dinners ( something special about this), I love listening to American rap ( Biggie, Nas, Jay, big L). I love my African American history. Making it from Slavery to the White House, Martin Luther King Jr., Harlem Renaissance, rap era, American TV, Mohammed Ali, Malcom X. I don't really want to separate myself from this. And to be honest if you move, you would have to adapt and change. I know I'm about to sound ignorant; but I love my negus here.
Ultimate goal, would to be making the money; and living in wealthy black neighborhood; " Prince George County" or " Rockland County NY"