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When you attempt to speak to classmates, what happens? When you attempt to speak to women, what happens?
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When you attempt to speak to classmates, what happens? When you attempt to speak to women, what happens?
They look uncomfortable and hurry away from me. I can't connect with people.
Do you think that you're odd/weird, or do you feel like you're normal? I've struggled with this myself, and still do from time to time.
I think I'm normal. People just don't have a interest in me.
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Be specific, maybe someone can help you.
You see a woman standing near you. You are interested in speaking to her. How do you approach? What do you say?
I'm a freshman in university. I'm 6 feet about 180lb and I'm in decent shape. I don't think I'm ugly but I don't know.
You're probably just different. People look at me like I'm an alien sometimes because I don't act like most people.
I get nervous so I just end up being direct and ask for her number. I probably do look visibly nervous in my approach.
I guess I am
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Have you thought about joining any clubs? It's a great way to meet people.
How were you in HS? Did you have friends?
How were you in HS? Did you have friends?
I had 2 friends and a lot of people who only liked me because I could help them.
There's nothing wrong with that bruh. The thing is dealing with most folks is a hassle because of it, and I admit I don't connect too well with folks myself most of the time. The key seems to be to not take shyt too serious/personal. Keep communicating with people to get yourself in the habit of doing it. I'm a lot more comfortable dealing with people now than I used to be, so I know you can do it too.
trust me you're not the only one on this board 
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