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[Audemar]

Some guys just have poor self-esteem, among other mental health issues, and simply don't develop confidence and self-worth overtime. Hard to have confidence when you've never tasted success before and the cycle continues.

 

[CinnaSlim]

I'm available

 

[AAKing23]

No one wants to be with someone with that mentality. If they are like that with women, imagine what else they are like that with?

I can't get a job because no one wants me. It's always everyone else's fault never their own. They are self-defeatists, they give up before they even try.

I'd like to date someone healthy for a change.

I know this from experience because at times in my life I could relate to how these dudes were feeling. The thing that separates me from them is my greatest gift which is introspection. I have the ability to look at myself before projecting my insecurities onto others and seeing how I contributed to my own problems.


That's why I say these dudes are extreme narcissists, they never look at themselves to blame.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

*disclaimer this is not a woman bashing thread. I shouldn't have to type this but I know how you miserable nikkas are

 

[Hejdå]

Why do you think that is? I really want to have a conversation on this breh. I never knew men were hurting like this especially black men.

The one reason I think majorly affects them is lack of confidence. It's a mentality thing that they get from their environment or the media that shows that only the good looking dudes get everything from the hot down to the chubby girls. So upon seeing those kinds of relationships they put themselves down and don't think they have a chance at grabbing anyone.

My personal problem is not confidence though I just need money and a house, etc before I go searching for one. That way if we break up I can have money to fall back on.

 

[Prynce]

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[AAKing23]

I have that same gift
I always look at myself before I try to place blame
Sometimes we need to admit that we cause our own problems in life
I know I have stood in my own way before.

All the chicks I could of had, if I could of told my conscious to STFU

 

[Prynce]

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[Smoke]

Most of them shooting out their league....D-Leaguers trynna ball with NBA cats. In my case I'm just taking Ls on all levels tho

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

And the purpose of this thread is realized.

 

[Prynce]

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[Will Ross]

Most of them shooting out their league....D-Leaguers trynna ball with NBA cats. In my case I'm just taking Ls on all levels tho

Nope most of them strike out with all types of women. Young women no matter how they look want the same type of guys.

 

[Vandelay]

I started to read this thread and watch their videos...

I'm not even gonna acknowledge all the BS...

Spoiler: Spoiler...but not really

It's their fukking down on themselves personality...don't no woman wanna be around that sorry for yourself shyt

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

I know who alias you are now @cook

Who? Because as of right now this is my only account. Go back to playing your passive aggressive blame game kiddo.

 

[Audemar]

I know who alias you are now @cook

In due time.