Become indifferent.
You can still be courteous, polite, and mannerable but leave the actual FEELING out of it.
Stop smiling so much. Most people take kindness for weakness, weakness does not get a broad hot and bothered. Truth is, MOST females (not a real woman) want a little/lot of a jerk in a guy. Jerks don't shower broads with care and attention, instead they are more selfish, vain and more oblivious to others needs.
It's all fine and dandy to be who you are now to a real woman who appreciates the authenticity and proper upbringing of a real man- but that ain't most females so if you want to get your dikk wet from time to time, act accordingly.
All women don't deserve the side of you that's cordial, caring and patient- and that's real shyt. Your radar has to be on submarine to differentiate between real woman and typical female at first glance. Bogey or friendly. Change your game to fit the situation.
Don't call them, let them call you.
Don't ask for confirmation, do it anyway. If they object, bushes. (I.e. You set up a date, she flakes, never talk to her again- move the fukk on)
7 times out of 10, she'll eventually call back trying to get back into your good graces, that's when you pump and dump.
Don't be a friend. Most women use men as emotional sponges to download their insecurities and problems onto. She feels better afterwards, you won't.
I got a lot more, but Im sure you're an intelligent cat so I'm sure you get the gist of it.