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[notwhoiusedtobe]

Repped, love both of them beautiful women.

That reminds me, saw this on tumblr

In the mid 1990′s singers Angie Stone and D’angelo dated for four years.

When asked about D’Angelo, Stone commented: “When I was dating him he wore glasses, had short hair and his pants were hanging down to his butt. He was just a 19-year-old kid with big shorts and nobody cared and no one saw his beauty but me. And I told him, “You are beautiful. I promise you when your record drops your lips are gonna become famous, your eyes - everything will become famous.

She then went on to say: “He couldn’t see it because his self-esteem wasn’t where it is today. He didn’t even have an image and his hair was really short so I braided his hair with thread for his first album cover. It wasn’t until Brown Sugar came out that people actually took a good look at him and said, “You know what? He’s fine.” Then all of a sudden, he’s so fine he shouldn’t be with me.” (.)
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eta: this is what I mean, y'all, a black woman's love can be transformative ​

 

[Regine Hunter]

Still waiting on the Women here to make a Black Male appreciation thread about how they tell at least one black man a day they are proud of them and love them.


Oh wait I forgot this the Coli, these women dont even date Black men, let alone men in the first place.

There is one.
You didn't look for it.

 

[Apollo Creed]

There is one.
You didn't look for it.

It should be a sticky, not dwelling on page 600 of a forum

 

[Regine Hunter]

It should be a sticky, not dwelling on page 600 of a forum

That's not my fault though. Take that up with @cook

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's not my fault though. Take that up with @cook

So its all goes back to being the black mans fault. I see how this works.

 

[DarkHorse23]

at least I would be able to actually TALK to them, you ole invalid acting ass motherfugga.

I'm so impressed you can talk to them lol. I can as well I just choose not too. You want a cookie fakkitt?

 

[DarkHorse23]

you can #pullup anytime, my nikka.

You don't really wanna go that route....TRUST ME. So for your sake I'd suggest you STFU and stay in your lane. Waking a sleep giant is never a wise idea.

 

[WheresWallace]

I make it my business to compliment a sister or two daily. Not on some creepy/disrespectful stuff

I like this idea. It'll be good for raising the moral of our women...but honestly, Im concerned about looking "thirsty".

How has this been going for you? What neutral (non- sexual) compliments do you give? What reception do you get?

 

[The M.I.C.]

I'm so impressed you can talk to them lol. I can as well I just choose not too. You want a cookie fakkitt?

I doubt it.

You don't really wanna go that route....TRUST ME. So for your sake I'd suggest you STFU and stay in your lane. Waking a sleep giant is never a wise idea.

PULLUP.

"Waking a sleep giant'? Fall back you half baked, no heart having ass bytch nikka..you ain't even strong enough to lift up one of my shoes. Go cry about not having a woman to put up with your stupid ass somewhere else.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I was going to shout you out, but I'll pass after this.

Lol I know you're not incapable of taking a joke? It's not that serious

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Do you live up north or down south?

Technically it's the south but we act like northerners. I live in Maryland.

 

[The M.I.C.]

Lol I know you're not incapable of taking a joke? It's not that serious

Dude is emotionally unstable.

I bet he's in the midst of writing a song about how you "rejected" him right now.

 

[DarkHorse23]

PULLUP.

"Waking a sleep giant'? Fall back you half baked, no heart having ass bytch nikka..you ain't even strong enough to lift up one of my shoes. Go cry about not having a woman to put up with your stupid ass somewhere else.

You heard what I said nikka. Proceed at your own risk.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Lol I know you're not incapable of taking a joke? It's not that serious

Ok. Whatever.

 

[WheresWallace]

Exactly why I don't say shyt to them

You got to look at it both ways...I've heard crazy stories about how black women are treated. Dudes spitting on them for not giving them their numbers...being groped.

Most women are just trying to NOT be victimized...don't get it twisted, Im not saying its the wild wild west like those racist white feminist try to say but I think women carry themselves in a similar way that a bullied kid would carry themselves...they avoid contact in order to avoid confrontation.

Try to look at it both ways.

Still waiting on the Women here to make a Black Male appreciation thread about how they tell at least one black man a day they are proud of them and love them.


Oh wait I forgot this the Coli, these women dont even date Black men, let alone men in the first place.

Two things...there was a black man appreciation thread made recently...and, even if there was no thread...can you blame them? Every thread showing appreciation to women are filled with white (pawg) and latinas. When people actually make a thread showing love to black women, lames come in to derail it.

No lie but I miss older black American men. I know there are some creepy dudes out there that just take it too far but when older black dudes compliment you they be so sweet and smooth.

Edit - older black men anywhere are pros when it comes to the compliments. They put a genuine smile on my face.

What's the best way for a young brotha to give a compliment to a young black woman that will be well received by yall? I don't mind giving black women platonic compliments but I aint tryna play my self by chicks thinking I'm thirsty.