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BlueHeffner
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Be confident breh, and go talk to her.So I want to get to know this chick in my business ethics class. I say get to know her because I don't want to put mental pressure on myself before I even know will she give me the time. So what should I do to be successful in pursuing her? I know the most obvious thing is to stop acting like a bytch and go talk to her but even though i'm introspective and realize being scared of some cute 5ft girl is dumb as fukk and the only thing she can tell me is no. I still can't bring myself to talk to her.
I feel like a super lame because I'm not one of these dudes who base their self worth in women (women not the end all be all for me) but chicks i'm attracted to have me shook.I know that these girls 9 times of 10 ain't shyt like most people but I get these feelings going and I want to treat them like angels before they even deserve that treatment for me.
My mom played megot me wanting to treat these girls right before I even know them.
So help me brehs I see her again Tuesday and I want to at least have a conversation with her I'm not eveng putting the pressure of getting a number on myself. I just want to have the confidence to talk to her.
The worst she can say is no
You sound like you're just psychin yourself out. Only thing you can do is DO IT. That's the only option, sack up
just say "hi" before or after class, don't even stop walking, just make eye contact, smile and say "hi" "good morning" or "see ya" and keep it moving....see how she responds
If you're feeling bold aND she's giving you any indication of interest then you can even try a "you look nice today" and again keep it moving
All you want to do right now is test the waters and open the door
just say "hi" before or after class, don't even stop walking, just make eye contact, smile and say "hi" "good morning" or "see ya" and keep it moving....see how she responds
If you're feeling bold aND she's giving you any indication of interest then you can even try a "you look nice today" and again keep it moving
All you want to do right now is test the waters and open the door
NotAnFBIagent
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Try to sit next to her
Ask to be her partner if yall have group projects or study together if yall have a test upcoming
???
Profit
Ask to be her partner if yall have group projects or study together if yall have a test upcoming
???
Profit
This right here.Be confident breh, and go talk to her.
The worst she can say is no
Yep and the CONFIDENCE is not in the approach but in your ability to maintain despite her reaction
Confidence says, your rejection doesn't break me
Truly believe it's her loss and if she isn't hype that you stepped to her than she's a wack bytch. Sounds crazy but I'm giving you survival tactics for the insecure
I've been out here living wild in this world for a min, can't say the shyt right or wrong, but try my advice . shyt works
When you put her on another level than you as if her shyt dont stink, you will be forever in that mentality.
Dominicansbelit
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Don't listen to these responses.. You still don't love yourself enough if you have these needy ass feelings.. Spend more time alone and learn to love being by yourself.. When you can do that you will treat girls like your homeboys while they get anxiety around you
If not the first time @PeridotPuss blew brothers minds...You just blew my mind
I never even thought of it like that
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