40 Dating a 21 Year Old

[mortuus est]

i feel like alot of older brehs dont knw how to vet younger chicks and end up finessed instead of benefiting

 

[mortuus est]

Dating a younger girl is easier in my opinion, especially if you are looking to settle down and she wants stability and to be married.
You literally can trainher how to be a good wife and she will be receptive to it.

its easy depending on the type of guy you are , alot of older brehs still aint qualified, these kneegas cant lead

 

[RareHunter]

Breh if u ain’t tryna marry wut u askin 4? She legal legal. Ppl be sheep den a mofo.

 

[David_TheMan]

its easy depending on the type of guy you are , alot of older brehs still aint qualified, these kneegas cant lead

Thats true, there are a lot of busters out there of all age.
But if you are a straight up man and honorable, you actually set yourself up well by getting a younger woman, especially if she has the right submissive mindset.

 

[mortuus est]

Thats true, there are a lot of busters out there of all age.
But if you are a straight up man and honorable, you actually set yourself up well by getting a younger woman, especially if she has the right submissive mindset.

100% i agree

 

[Thegospel]

Is it toxic for a man in my position to entertain this? Have any of you ladies done this or currently doing this?

Live your life. Ive done it with a non American woman. It was fun going out with her and seeing the looks from dudes but we didnt really talk. I assume even if it was an American chick it would be the same thing...................Im not 40 yet but close

 

[shutterguy]

Fwb only

 

[staticshock]

lol if you think a 21 year old will be faithful to a 40 year old.

dont do it
reconsider, read some liter-ture on the subject
you sure? fukk it

 

[The Exchanges]

That's your problem.

If you got the energy at 40 to be in a relationship with someone in their 20s. Then go ahead.

Given all the dumb shyt people in their 20's do, myself included. 40 seems like a long ways away for me but I can't see myself wanting to deal with someone more than a decade away from me.

 

[Jordan>>LeFrozen]

Im dating a woman younger than me(born in 98) while I’m 32. Relationship is going great but she’s a conservative and to herself. Even then I’ve thought about breaking up with her several times cause at 20/21 just coming into life, you never how shyt changes when these people get older. Still I love her ass though.

 

[Phitz]

I'm in a similar situation I'm 35 and recently began dealing with a very mature and lovely 5 foot 10 in Brown skin black 23 year old goddess ...I've dated women older than me my same age and younger and all I know is 2020 for me is starting off on some:

12 years is not a bad range though. Its not like 17 or 20 years

 

[Jimmy Two-Times™]

eat her

 

[L&HH]

Idk if I could do it. I’m mid 20’s and I’m in Applebee’s right now. Table next to me is some girl that just turned 18 and her friends and I just couldn’t. They just seem way too young and goofy.

 

[David_TheMan]

Gonna be honest with you though, if you date young, you have to pull her away from most of her friends.
Most of them, especially the girls who are ratchet or jealous, will try to fill her head with non-sense.
Pull her into your circle, try to introduce her to mature women with their heads on straight who can mentor and guide her.

You have to look at the relationship completely different than usual.

I remember when I dated the 19 year old, she was just getting ready to go to college and I was out of grad school and working, it was something else trying to see who her peers were and where their heads were at. The young guys we easy to read, you could see some who were just outright haters, others wanteded knowledge and were cool. The young ladies were the worst.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Society got men scared of their own nature