I know older men that are way more immature than dudes my age. I see a few every single day.All of my exes were my age or younger. I never really liked older men. Tried it once when I was in undergrad thinking older dudes would be more established and mature.
That isn’t always the case. He was in his late thirties and I was 20. To be honest, its not the age difference. It’s the lifestyle difference, the priorities and disposition.
At 20, I wanted to explore the world, do tons of shyt, see everything. At 38 he had been divorced, three kids, was really, really pessimistic and kinda a drag to be around.
You don’t want to be with someone who will bring you down.
Keep in mind I’ve seen the reverse happen too where older dudes will legit have their shyt together but the younger chick has kids, is toxic and just a drag.
It’s less about age and more about two people being in the same space and having similar mentality.
Alotta them hate when they see a young breh like me shine too. Slick comments. “Oh I bet u cant make the payments on that”....just bc when they were my age they couldnt. Prolly still cant.
Swear they know everything cuz there older too even when Im right.
Im not buying that older = mature. Life experiences make u mature not breathing longer. There’s 18/19 year olds who been raising their siblings/paying the bills for years and are more mature than alotta older folks.
if it works for you who cares whose doing it and who isn’t. My husband is a lot older than me but he looks young so we’re good. 
.....immature as fukk. 
(tho I still question should I have done that...
....still no fall out from it tho...all good)