40 Dating a 21 Year Old

[born of fire]

How old are you?

i’m 21.

 

[Chrishaune]

it tells a lot about my character that i don’t wanna fukk 40 year old men? ok

You have to think about it from a man's perspective. A man that's been out here building himself up in life is looking for a woman to give him some seeds. It doesn't mean he's been out here trying to run through women, even though some men actually do that. If he's older he's more than likely going to need a younger woman that will outlive him to be there for the kids after the fact....

 

[truth2you]

it tells a lot about my character that i don’t wanna fukk 40 year old men? ok

If it makes you SICK, it does

You do know 40 year old black men damn near look like men in their 20's. I can't speak for other races, a lot of them be looking like

 

[Counter Racist Male]

i’m 21.

What's the oldest you'll date?

 

[born of fire]

What's the oldest you'll date?

26

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

I promise you a 21 year old isn't looking for a serious relationship with a man nearly 20 years her senior.

My advice:

 

[Counter Racist Male]

26

and the youngest?

 

[born of fire]

If it makes you SICK, it does

You do know 40 year old black men damn near look like men in their 20's. I can't speak for other races, a lot of them be looking like

i think it’s gross yeah. it’s not just about looks. the age difference freaks me out.

 

[born of fire]

and the youngest?

20, maybe. no one younger than that

 

[seabreeze80]

I see you had weak old man dikk because once you get a taste of some good dingaling, you will be stuck on them balls. Sex changes everything, and if its good, your whole attitude changes. When its bad or regular, you want more then that

Sounds like he had nothing but money to give, and telling you how to live. Women only listen when the dikk is good or they are getting money

They didn't have any money to give . All their money went to child support and alimony. I had my own money. Never needed theirs and never asked. Sex was decent with the first but that wore off real quick. The relationship was lacking and we had nothing in common. Most women don't stick around for sex only. They stick around for other qualities and the particular guys I dated didn't really have any desirable qualities. In the end I felt grossed out. It took a little while for me to realize it but one day I woke up, saw them for what they were and bounced.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

I've done this and I would not do this again. Only short term casual status. The immaturity and young girl games were a headache

 

[truth2you]

You have to think about it from a man's perspective. A man that's been out here building himself up in life is looking for a woman to give him some seeds. It doesn't mean he's been out here trying to run through women, even though some men actually do that. If he's older he's more than likely going to need a younger woman that will outlive him to be there for the kids after the fact....

Its not even outliving him, its having a chick who can conceive with less problems

From what I've seen all women seem to have no life, but the older chicks are the worse at it because they hang around each other fronting how good their life is, but constantly complain about shyt. When they are younger, they have more hope and optimism about life, and I feed off shyt like that. The only problem is if the chick don't want to listen, I gotta keep it moving, those chicks will end up being the older chicks with baggage.

Older chicks is kind of better because you know if she made poor choices just by listening to her talk about her life. To me only energetic older men who made choices to live the life they want live should date younger women. If you are just living life, and taking whatever comes your way, date someone your age, its less stressful for your type.

 

[fckyoupayme]

this is a good conversation so lets keep going. i'm chilling right now.

Let me know what subjects that a 21 year old who is well read can't talk about to a 40 year old who is also well read?

Also, shouldn't it be a good thing to be with a man who is well established, and can teach her something? I thought that is what women wanted. Now, if he is controlling, and won't let her enjoy her youthful years, then he needs to leave her alone. I only agree with this if both people are full of energy, and wanting to live life, a grown man shouldn't force his chick in the house at her age

Ok! I see your point but I really don’t think someone that age can speak with the same nuances and insight of someone who has lived longer and experiences more. Yes, we can talk about the same thing, but we will come to different conclusions and understandings because of the life we have lived or have yet to live. For example, I understand how people can end up in bad situations so much better now than my 20 year old self. I get the grey area in a way I couldn’t when I was younger.

As for a woman dating an already established man, on one hand this is great, but that means she is robbed of the experience of becoming established herself through experience. Struggle molds people. A 20 year old who is coddled and taken care of will grow into a 30 year old with the same mentality.

Of course there are exceptions to everything. I believe that after 30 age doesn’t matter but the 20s are still babies.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

As a 40 year old wtf do you have in common with a 20 Yr old?

 

[Buckeye Fever]

lol that's young breh. The heaaaadachesssss you're about to have ...

You're gonna be having a lot of stupid fights.

When he wants them to sit at home and sip cognac while listening to Anita Baker, she gonna argue about her friends bein' out at the club turnt all the way up