Why do people keep saying this?
What it means is by the time you are 25, you are gonna be stuck in your ways, it doesn't mean you somehow become mature. Your brain plasticity stops, and if you want to change you will have to work hard at it.
If anything, if you live around people who have a lot of negative characteristics, and you want to influence them for the better, you better do it before they turn 25, because after that chances are they won't change until they are forced to, and even then they might not change. If you read the Bible, the story of Exodus was basically saying this. Remember, a lot of the people weren't allowed to go into the promised land because they were stuck in their old ways, and weren't gonna change. If you are a man of means, and quality, you would be a fool to get with an older woman just because she is your age, NOTHING you say will make her change her ways if they are negative. Why do you think the divorce rate is so high? Two people trying to change each other, but shyt aint happening
What It Takes To Change Your Brain’s Patterns After Age 25
"More than a century since James’s influential text, we know that, unfortunately, our brains start to solidify by the age of 25, but that, fortunately, change is still possible after. The key is continuously creating new pathways and connections to break apart stuck neural patterns in the brain.
Simply put, when the brain is young and not yet fully formed, there’s a lot of flexibility and plasticity, which explains why kids learn so quickly, says Deborah Ancona, a professor of management and organizational studies at MIT."
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nah I would say keep the love sht closer to your age range...
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. One gave me a signal to make the next move, but some of these chicks were close family friends back in the day and I was like a non-blood related big bro/big cuz ..... 
