Cause the boyfriend can't be everything, but usually those kinda relationships don't last cause it doesn't have that "friendship" foundation. This is why people get
called a$$holes, when really its two people building something on a flimsy foundation.
Believe me when I say the simp in her ear will get the most intimate conversations out of her, while her boyfriend gets different kinds of conversation and 100% of the p*ssy.
Losing situation to be the simp, cause you build a connection with someone who just likes that you listen to her ass, something her boyfriend knows better than to do all the time.