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Reginald Noble
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Mr. Somebody
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It's unfair friend because grudges rarely hurt the people they were intended to effect.
Grudges are usually taken out on complete strangers. So that kinda makes a grudge a matured form of temper tantrums.
But really a grudge is immature because you shouldn't treat strangers harshly because someone treated you harshly. Unless you're in an American prison. Hmm I ponder like hmmmm, so in some ways a grudge is like a prison for your spirit
It's so demonic, friends
Grudges are usually taken out on complete strangers. So that kinda makes a grudge a matured form of temper tantrums.
But really a grudge is immature because you shouldn't treat strangers harshly because someone treated you harshly. Unless you're in an American prison. Hmm I ponder like hmmmm, so in some ways a grudge is like a prison for your spirit
It's so demonic, friends
MammaSaidKnockYouOut
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I don't think OP ever said it was fair to hurt anyone. Resentment is just a feeling. Doesn't mean you have to act on that feeling and honestly if a man chooses not to be in a relationship it doesn't hurt anyone. That complete stranger who was interested could probably find someone else available and willing.It's unfair friend because grudges rarely hurt the people they were intended to hurt.
Grudges are usually taken out on complete strangers. So that kinda makes a grudge a matured form of temper tantrums.
It's so demonic, friends
true but we play with their emotions also.
And I don't think women are always doing that on purpose. I think they're just weak willed and quicker to change their mind about a dude. You were her number 1 when she was saying all that, then she met the upgrade and you ceased to matter.
Is what it is
money can't leave you.
Mr. Somebody
Friend Of A Friend
You resent women but you don't act on it. So do you resent them or not.
What is resent without action. How can conscious resentment for an entire group of people not creep into your actions toward them unless they have something you want and you feel the need to play a role to obtain it.
I'm not following your perception of the ops thoughts friend
Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
Too many women out there, to let a couple of birdies affect you . Most women in their 20s these days are constantly on the lookout for upgrade. Have your fun, if she dips oh well .
. Most women in their 20s these days are constantly on the lookout for upgrade. Have your fun, if she dips oh well .they have something we want. We feel the need to act to get it.
And I don't think it's being resentful as much as it's just being a realist. I love women wouldn't wish anything bad upon them. But I don't believe anything they say because I know how they get down already.
Natural = Right...
That's horribly inaccurate.
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
Only resentment I see is cacs not having melanin.
Because we (men) are the predominant gender. so it's more acceptable for us to be resented because we have so many advantages.
Look at it this way: Look at the bolded statement and think about it in terms of whites vs blacks. If a black man says "i hate white people" it;s viewed as racism but it's somewhat accepted because we have good reasons to hate whites and even they understand that. If a white man says "i hate black people" it is automatically labeled as racism and they will get hell lfor it and it;s well deserved.
The underdog of the two groups will always get the sympathy. Thats just how the world works. Many different ways to look at it. Rich vs poor. etc
MammaSaidKnockYouOut
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You're speaking as if resenting someone means I want to bash their heads in with a sledge hammer. Lol Just because I resent someone doesn't mean I'm going to sink so low as to do them wrong. People who let their feelings such as resentment dictate their actions don't belong on the street. That's called having a lack of self control. But I will tell you this, if I ever felt distrust for resentment as a whole I wouldn't lash out or try to harm them but I would cease any type of social communication with women I don't already have a close relationship with who I know I can trust.
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