I get what you're saying but the whole "kids game" mindset we as fans have like it's all easy is garbage. To be a top level athlete requires alot of dedication/discipline & sacrifice the average person couldn't maintain
Oh I'm not implying it's easy by referring to it as a kid's game, just that it is still essentially a kid's game only played at a world class level. These dudes went from being 17,18,19 year old high school and college kids to all of a sudden making millions some of them making generational money on a national and international scale. My kid's game comment had to do with the mindstate of the players being drafted not the game itself.
Then their career plays out, and for the most part they stay surrounded by yes men and lawyers and accountants, most of them don't have to make a real life decision until well after their playing days, and by then are at a serious disadvantage compared to the rest of society. It's laziness and apathy on their part by not taking things into their own hands to learn how to handle their own money both during and after their playing days, and just blatant naivete on their part by trusting the people around them to set them up for the future and to be there with/for them when times get a little rough. It sucks, but there are far too many cautionary tales at this point to feel any sympathy for any of these players falling into this kind of physical, finanicial, and emotional place.