NoChillJones
Banned
I love talking to my grandparents because they always drop gems on me. So I am at my grandfolks place and the topic of race relations come up.
We are talking about the black community and then my grandma says, "Black women are the reason the black community is in shambles."
Honestly at first I was looking at my grandma shocked like she was a c00n, but then she broke it down to me.
She said that the strongest people in the world are black men. She said Jesus was of black decent, that's why. So when a black boy doesn't have a black man to raise him, he will never be as powerful as he should be. She said that a lot of black women pro-create with those same ain't shiit black men who grew up without a black father to raise them and show them the right way and the cycle just kept repeating itself.
She said women suddenly started getting too many rights at one time and didn't know how to handle it. So they pretty much started thotting. She said back then if a girl got pregnant, marriage was the only option. And if the man felt like running, the families, in the south, would "scare" him into owning up to his responsibilities.
IDK it seems kind of harsh to put all the blame on black women, but it did make a little sense.
So absentee fathers are completely void from this equation?
Funny I always thought sense of responsibilty was an individual attribute...not a hereditary one. Sorry your grandmother is wrong on this one.
Daddies need to be fathers to both daughters and sons. Parenting is a co partner task. The mother dont take the blame just cause the father aint there. In that case he is just as much to blame if not more..because he is showing his kids exactly what no sense of responsibilty really means.
