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Ineedmoney504
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In not to familiar wit u bro, I just know u go thru a lot of problem. But my main thing I see that's wrong wit u blaming everybody else for your problems, a lot of us didn't have a great father in our life. Sometimes u got to take life how it comes at U and make the best of it.
Your cousin who u wish u had life had a good life from the start, but she still made the the right choices and it's paying off.
If of all why do u think it's ok to quit every job? Be a man and stick wit something for once in your life, sometimes u have to start from the bottom, how will survive without income, your mother can support u, and your pops can't either.
It's a lot of things I wish I was taught by my pops, but he wasn't there, but hey, I learned it regardless, from women, driving, have a great work ethic and no give up.
U a young grown, who is still talking bout he mentally weak, change that if its true, suck your pride up and make a change son
And to answer your question I did have some resentment for my pops until he got off drugs and got his life together, once he showed me he was serious I forgave him and put all that shyt in the pass, he passed a couple years and when I think I only think of the great moments that we had in life, put that shyt behind u and build wit him before its to late
SheWantTheD
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I used to. Had to work on myself and heal from years of abuse, lack of a presence, relationship with them etc.
I had to come to grips with the reality that my father isn't the father and husband I hoped him to be. Same with my mother.
I learned to take the good from my parents and discard the bad when it comes my time to be a parent and spouse.
I also came to the realization that my parents did the best they knew how. You can't change people, they have to want to change
for themselves. And people who have been living for 40+ years will most likely not change the way they live, think, talk, walk, act, eat, etc.
I had to come to grips with the reality that my father isn't the father and husband I hoped him to be. Same with my mother.
I learned to take the good from my parents and discard the bad when it comes my time to be a parent and spouse.
I also came to the realization that my parents did the best they knew how. You can't change people, they have to want to change
for themselves. And people who have been living for 40+ years will most likely not change the way they live, think, talk, walk, act, eat, etc.
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