55 percent of Black Men are single

Are you single

  • Yes

    Votes: 189 70.3%
  • No

    Votes: 80 29.7%

  • Total voters
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International Playa

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Seen or heard somewhere that we should just expect these women out here to at least have one kid after 25+

It’s over bruh :mjlol:
My heart is still hopeful :mjcry:

Career focused black women tend to have kids in their 30s. There is a huge number of over 30+ black women without kids
 

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nikkas aren't concerned with relationships. Folks prioritize personal happiness over everything now, especially young men and women. And anything that jeopardizes that, whether it be a dead-end job, relationship headaches or potential parental responsibilities, they're avoiding it. Now how all of this is gonna shake out in 20-30 years, it remains to be seen. But this is the way now.

:yeshrug::yeshrug::yeshrug:
Happiness, like every other emotion, shouldn’t be constant. To expect to be 100% happy 24/7 is a terrible thing. At work, in a relationship, school, etc.. there will be bumps in the road you can’t simply ignore.
 

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Happiness, like every other emotion, shouldn’t be constant. To expect to be 100% happy 24/7 is a terrible thing. At work, in a relationship, school, etc.. there will be bumps in the road you can’t simply ignore.

Nobody saying that bumps won't be in the road or expecting happiness at all times. But are we gonna do whatever we can to chase happiness or partake in activities that will bring me the most pleasure? Hell yes.
 

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To be fair, there are dudes who aren’t hurting for p*ssy but would want a relationship.
That was me basically

Was scouting but wasn’t really fukking multiple hoes like coli typically recommends…I took my time…vetted out prospects and chose pretty damn good

:ehh:
 

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Nobody saying that bumps won't be in the road or expecting happiness at all times. But are we gonna do whatever we can to chase happiness or partake in activities that will bring me the most pleasure? Hell yes.
what brings you the most pleasure may not be the best thing for you. Same with chasing happiness. There are many things that make me happy that also impedes my success.

This isn’t really a Gen Z problem moreso a young adult issue.
 

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That was me basically

Was scouting but wasn’t really fukking multiple hoes like coli typically recommends…I took my time…vetted out prospects and chose pretty damn good

:ehh:
Exactly. Whether it’s 5% or 0.0000005%, there ARE solid women out there worth exploring a relationship with. May not be in my neighborhood, city, or state.. but it’s there.

Every time modern dating problems are brought up, it’s men struggling to get p*ssy vs women hoe-ing around when it’s more complex than that. I do understand the game given is to not lead naive men into believing Disney fairytales
 

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I don't like relationships at all had my last one in my early 20's in the final years of College and hated it. It kind of felt like I was forcing myself to be a "boyfriend" if you know what I mean....Anyway we inevitably drifted apart after a few months and after a massive sigh of relief I never did the relationship thing again....Talk about feeling trapped. :gag:

Was the biggest weight of my shoulder ever.....perhaps second only to becoming an Atheist.
 
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