55 year old dime says being child free is great!

[RadaMillz]

looking after my aging dad gave me a different perspective of life
all that money, non stop traveling and having 'fun' means nothing as u get older
you need family

 

[Rawtid]

Without my father - my mother wouldn't have shyt that she has today.

And she knows that.

She knows she won the jackpot.

And without his mother he wouldn’t be here m. I’m sure your father is way more appreciative of his woman though. Women are men’s main inspiration without them they lack direction and goals.

 

[Ohene]

And without his mother he wouldn’t be here m. I’m sure your father is way more appreciative of his woman though. Women are men’s main inspiration without them they lack direction and goals.

what made you bitter? genuine curiosity

 

[Henri Christophe]

And without his mother he wouldn’t be here m. I’m sure your father is way more appreciative of his woman though. Women are men’s main inspiration without them they lack direction and goals.

Its getting late.... I'm bout to smoke and go to bed... I feel like this debate is moving in a circular motion.

I just assume we're coming from 2 different realities.... my grandfather was successful.... my father is successful.... my mother owes everything to her father and husband.

The men are the ones who BUILT the life that we currently enjoy.... NOT the women.

I appreciate the debate and I'm still gonna advocate for black marriage.

 

[Warren Peace]

this whole fukk them kids wave is pretty cringe

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Y'all such fukking losers gah damm mad cause a chick don't want to have kids

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

pretty cringe

Y'all really talk like cacs

 

[Lord Bison]

Women’s whole purpose boiled down into one post: ‘she look’s pretty’ and TRAVEL

It doesnt elcit anger which is what they want to believe. It elicits … like damn, I’d feel empty af. ‘Travel!’ gets old especially the way women travel. Beach after beach after beach. At least white folk will backpack or go volunteer in a 3rd world country or some shyt. Black women pull up on to the same beachside location and take the same type of pics, same excursions.

I recently traveled with one a chick who’s one of those modern ‘i travel 10 times a year’ chicks and she was boring af. She didn’t wanna do anything bc she did it already. She wanted to ‘just relax, sit by the pool, get drinks from the poolside bar’.

That's one thing that bothers me about women who brag about traveling. They just sit around and do the same shyt that would be doing here. All for some posts on the gram.

I aint even gonna put it on white folks, but men are usually about doing some activity even when traveling. Why would I leave the country to just relax? You can make money from anywhere in the world now, men see the world an opportunity. Women see it as a rest haven.

 

[TEH]

You can hear the pain her voice. She wants to cry. How tf you are that pretty but fumble all those opportunities to procreate?

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Good for her. If being childless works for her


I'm waiting for the inevitable picture in these threads.

 

[Vodun]

I don't have kids.

And to be honest, I've never had to grow up. I did the same shyt from 15 to like 40.

Chase tail and party. Had some fun long term relationships. I don't know if I'd have preferred buckling down and being responsible.. for other humans.

I have serious regrets.. but that's like someone regretting not being a Hollywood stunt man. Looks like fun, but ask the stunt man. Them Jackass fools prolly wouldn't advise you to do what they did.

Ultimately I prolly avoided the situation because of pure selfishness. And what I DID do instead was exactly what I wanted for my life. Petty as it is. Just enjoying the shyt out of existing.

I would like to reproduce but it's getting late

There is nothing wrong with not having kids Especially as a man given the laws and shyty women out there. But as a single father of a 7 year daughter. Having kids opens up a whole new side of your humanity. You develop a deep unconditional love for your child man. It's deep man, I wouldn't trade being Parent for nothing. Yes it's has its ups and downs. In the end you have a fulfilling of some sort that you reproduce and caring for the next generation

 

[Yas]

She did good for herself, if she doesn’t want kids that’s believable especially in a society where the women have to take a lot of the responsibility for how they turn out.

 

[zayk35]

do you

 

[the bossman]

She looks genuinely happy. Incels will not be happy about this though

 

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why people in their feelings about this?