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I mean, I'm all for ending sexual harrassment, but when we gon have a real conversation about what's happening in these streets? :gucci:


Don’t hold your breath! I don’t think people really want to have a real discussion about things. You got some people who will cry out being a victim but at the same token be very dismissive and minimalist about someone else’s or group’s struggles, pain, etc.

Unfortunately, I don’t think we can have a real discussion without said discussion being railroaded and turned into a thunderdome of ad hominems, smite and other forms of disrespect.
 

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nikka.. u better pulled out a camera and have a written contract written out today


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If she's feeling you then no need... Unless you famous with some bread.

Then I'd be more careful but still not asking for shyt. If I can't tell she's feeling me or not I do what I normally do.. Which is nothing
 

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Never have asked for permission. And I refuse to start asking for permission to do such things that are common, it would only break the mood and feel more robotic.

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some of these allegations im reading (SOME. for emphasis :scusthov:), im reading this shyt and its like....isnt this called making a fukkin move? :heh:
 

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What a time to be alive. I’ll be interested to see how this pc generation of women respond.

I wish I could have asked for permission every time i had sex. A lot of women can’t be upfront about wanting dikk so you have to have finesse leading up to the act. Would have loved to be like “now I would really love to have sex but I’m gonna need your expressed written consent first.”
 

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:gucci: What part of "you don't have the right to touch someone" is hard to understand?

And yes, this applies to women who touch you without your permission.
 

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I mean, don't get me wrong.

Obviously as a man, me starting a huge mess over a chic kissing me on my neck, or a chic touching me being unwanted advances.... is ridiculous

Man, you don’t want to be labeled gay, if you legitimately had an issue with women touching you w/o permission. I get it. I know that is exactly what would happen.

but I'm sick of the demonization of men. I gotta admit, I enjoy seeing these cacs getting took down, but it's dangerous that we're allowing popular culture to redefine men and women: men are sick sexual predators and women are dainty innocent creatures

Yeah, I can relate to the sentiment, but you do know that people are going to break out with broad paint rollers when it comes to generalizations about certain groups. Notice that some people love to focus attention to the bad shyt a small group of men do, but they don’t give attention to the men who do good things. On some shame the simp but praise the pimp type shyt! It’s the a$$hole who gets most of the attention, even if negative. Negative attention is attention nevertheless. What about the dude who never mistreated women or nothing that would be considered abnormal in any type of social interaction?

Point is..

People only deal with a very small pool of people and when bad shyt happens to them, then guess who gets the blame? Not the dude who committed the crime, but every other dude because it’s easier to cast blame on others than to keep it with the person who actually need to be held accountable.

that's not the way the world works. If we're going to talk about "rape culture", let's stay grounded in reality while we have this conversation.

Not gonna happen! This is why I don’t engage in those type of “discussions”.
It’s one sided to start! There are people still think that a woman can’t rape a man or even a teen boy. People don’t want to discuss men being raped by other men or men who are raped by women. Nobody wants to discuss, let alone recognize that misandry exists. So, why would I want to have a one sided powwow with people who won’t even acknowledge that rape culture is gender specific?

I'd be okay if women would just come out and say, "It's not that we don't to be touched or we don't want you to comment on our bodies... we just want only men that we're attracted to, to do this"

if chics would come out and break kayfabe and admit this real quick, I'd be like, :ehh: "carry on"

But this whole pretentious idea that men are out here doing things to women that women don't like or want..... this is going to spiral downward into a dark, dark hole that present society may never recover from

This is why you have to learn to pick and choose your battles. I was taught to accept that people are not going to always be brutally honest with you. No woman is going to do what you suggested, so it isn’t worth the wishful thinking.

If a man asks for permission, then he can be labeled a simp for not being assertive. If he asserts himself, then he can be labeled intrusive or more. Essentially, men need to be mind and body language readers for some people who I think deserves no damn attention!

Maybe one day, there can be a change for a real discussion to happen, but I don’t see it anytime soon!
 
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