Every man who’s got experience with many women knows they Change their mating strategy as they get older. Between 18 and 27 years old, in their prime years, they mostly want to date fun, tall, adventurous, starving artist, in shape, or handsome men with social clout in the social scene /nightlife/party scene. They want to feel thrills, indulge in drama, want to have butterflies in their stomachs and want to surf emotional rollercoasters. Both introverted and extroverted, but in different ways, obviously. They are picky and fickle and just want to have sex with the men that they actually desire, since they have all the leverage at that age ( being a young prime baddie in demand )that gives them all the options. If you don’t have what the bad bytches want ( looks, clout, drip, mysterious vibes, ability to connect with her emotionally, cool factor, money, drugs, fun, nightlife/scene/industry connections etc) they straight up ignore you without apology or justification. They want to enjoy their youth right here and right now. They’re carefree and lacking foresight. It’s all about satisfying her primitive/immediate moods, urges and capricious whims by any means necessary. And they know they won’t be denied by anyone.
But when she’s hitting that wall the early 30s ,they begin to see value in men who provide stability, commitment and finances. Men that they ignored more than a decade ago. The wall for women is financial, social, and physical. The wall forces them to go into pure survival mode. Dating from now on will be purely strategic, pragmatic and utilitarian. It won’t be based on raw/ immediate sexual attraction, fun, social popularity contests, physical, emotional and visual stimulation, authentic emotional connections and fickle feelings anymore. the first time in their lives, they have to face reality or be humbled by life. So far, until their 30s, Their youth and their looks shielded them from the harsh realities of life. But their looks are fading because of aging and physical baggage and it doesnt work like that no more.
A woman who already hit the wall doesn’t get invited to trendy parties or get her lifestyle funded by rich simps or sugar daddies anymore . She can’t live above her own means for free. If she wants to have fun, she has to go back to school and work. She will have to get money on her own because there aren’t a lot of wealthy, age appropriate, and attractive men out there on the dating market. And if she wants to have fun, travel, she knows she will have to find these activities/trips herself. « Her money is her money but his money is her money » mentality is wired in most women.
She notices that around her, a lot of women in her age range are settling down, finding husbands, building families and birthing kids. And she’s realizing in real time that she’s not as pretty, full of energy, fresh as she used to. She’s older, she’s more tired, and by now she wants to be comfortable, and she notices there are less and less people in her social circle. So she has less people/friends/acquintances to party with. People are moving on from their crazy young years, from the party scene, are growing up, maturing and taking that next step in life. They’re opening a new chapter in their lives. FOMO is kicking-She doesn’t want to be the only girl without a man or kids. She doesn’t want to feel isolated, stuck in the same patterns and still act like a 19-year party girl in a 34 years old body.
And work/jobs/ aging parents also get in her way too by the way.
She knows she has to slow down on the party lifestyle for the sake of her health. From a Health/physical/social point of view, She can’t go afford to go out and go hard at night anymore. She will enter her healthy lifestyle era sooner or later. It’s only a matter of time because she has incentives to preserve her health and her fading looks.
Most women over 30 fall in these multiple categories:
Workaholic
Cosmetic surgery customers
Anti aging skincare expert/Health expert/wanna be nutritionist/gym babe
Perpetually single, life laugh love, Aunt wine alcoholic, travel addict/sex tourist
My kids are my life, my everything( both single mom and married women)
Depressed single cat lady
Converted lesbian
Spiritual bytch /witch/astrology expert
Humanitarian going to third world countries
Gold digger
Reformed hoe/new convert to churchianity (and not real Christianity )
Bitter feminist hag
Fat obese bytch
Delusional bytch: still living in the past, still trying to relive her glory days, and failing to adapt to new realities( being old) and failing to adjust her dating strategies
getting all of this off this short azz clip
