The issue is that it's not the point.
You can put all the effort in you want and if you weren't lucky enough to have it like that, you won't have it like that.
Whatever the average man can do to improve himself will be incomparable to the attention someone like him will get by walking out of the house.
Many men can do everything possible to maximize themselves and still not get any female attention, rarely if that.
The caveat to all of this, that many overlook is that attention is not the end all be all. It is definitely a part of things - but it's not a requirement.
Having the confidence to approach someone removes attention as a requirement. You don't have to get choosing signals and people approaching you all the time to have a lot of partners. Hell, you may even have more partners then someone who gets approached all the time just due to the fact that you're proactive about things. But that's a whole nother thing.
The point still stands - the average man won't ever get anything close to this experience. Even with all the bells and whistles. And we can leave it at that without the false comparisons and borderline gaslighting of "groom and present yourself", "focus on your finances", "fashion" like those are foreign concepts to most people in general.