Preach. I treat my girl the same way and she’s in love. She even says she can’t fully cite why she loves me from how I talk to her.i told y'all in the other thread
i put zero effort in at this point. no gifts,compliments(unless she earns it),no nothing. alot of criticism and a$$hole shyt tho.
A woman might have no idea what she wants in a man or a relationship, so in the meantime she keeps simps in her circle for superficial validation. Meanwhile time is passing and they're not learning from their mistakes, having meaningful beneficial experiences or getting any closer to what they really want....Why?
I am pass the days of being phony and putting someone else’s happiness before mine. I rather be honest and expect the same. Can’t compromise my integrity.
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This. I can't tolerate being in a man's company if I don't like him or to be just kicking it to have something to do. There has to be some type of mutual affection, otherwise I'm def not wasting my time or his. That fraudulent romantic attachment is not something I've been into. If I don't like him in that way and start noticing he has a different perception or a different outcome; I'm deading it or communicating it. Never been one for that unrealistic expectations set up. Too much other shyt to focus on and not trying to hurt dude's feelings if it's not reciprocated. Either way, feelings are involved but for me, taking advantage of the situation isn't cool or the right thing to do.
