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[Red Comp]

Make it about you from the start

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Be just as selfish if not more

Honestly, this.

I always say, even on here, no one gives a fukk about a grown mans feelings.

Especially women especially spoiled and selfish women or women only concerned with their survival.

Now I don’t agree all women are like this but i noticed with a lot of them it is, even with certain family members. And I’m quick to be like “fukk you and your problems too then” and they know it and ill do it to damn near any female.

From the jump I try to establish shyt and if i got to vent i do it on my own or to someone else i know gives a fukk because honestly, ive noticed that nobody does really but they expect you to even females you’re in relationships with at times.

I tell my girl all the time there’s certain shyt I don’t like but she ignores it. So i have no problem cutting communication off because of it because of all the shyt ill deal with, if you don’t care about the shyt I won’t then I don’t care about shyt either

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[Coli Bot]

Be selfish too. This is your life, live for you.

 

[The Fade]

Big picture thinking we all selfish, male and female


Gotta find people have has as much courtesy and nurturing traits as they have selfish..


I have automatic beef with people who constantly have shytty attitudes

 

[Swirv]

Give them what they want sometime but not all the time.

 

[Cat piss martini]

Most Women live by the Me/My/Mine code.
Other than my mother i'll never put
a woman's happiness before mine.
they are only as important as their ability
to make/keep me happy.

 

[Sugarbush]

When they’re being selfish, in that exact moment, correct their actions so that they can see where their wrong. Men and women are naturally selfish. It’s a survival instinct.

If she still has issues understanding, act selfishly towards her and acknowledge it.

You have to teach ppl how to be selfless.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

I don't know if they're getting more & more desperate, but I've been meeting a bunch of "logical" women lately.

I'm not in the trenches of a relationship with any of them, tho.We basically converse, grab a bite to eat, and fukk.

They never ask me for anything other than a lil bit of my time, penis, and conversation.Maybe if I attempted to have

a go at exclusivity/monogamy with one of them, things would change? They'd probably show their true colors?

As of right now, they seem pretty selfless.Wouldn't be surprised if I was just the side piece.I wonder about

that sometimes

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

You find one with a low low low level of selfishness and you set boundaries. That shyt goes both ways too.

The really selfish women and the "aint shyt" nikkas exist, but they won't ever be married more than likely. Aint nobody trying to deal with that shyt.

Ppl are different ppl to different ppl

 

[Max Power]

Be a fukking man.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Y'all right. I'm naturally not a selfish person tho. But I guess I have to be with these new age women.


I'm just a guy who genuinely cares about other ppl and their feelings and what they are going through in life. But if me caring about other folks means they ain't gonna care anout me, which is twisted and sick when you think about it, guess I gotta switch it up.

Set boundaries and don't be afraid to enforce them. Always be true to the essence of who you are.

Give of yourself, time, energy & resources to those that are truly deserving, reciprocate, and those that earned it. Kind acts & words should come from the right place.

[Realize that it's a blessing to be able to do things for people too.]

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Expect people to care about a grown black mans feelins brehs

 

[Da_Eggman]

Ignore them

 

[the bossman]

You need to start fukking with chicks that actually like you.

A woman who likes you will come across very selfless and want to do whatever to see you happy