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[MajesticLion]

nikkaa is lying pretending they going to work just so they can get peace from their old ladys now?....





i might have to try that

I can't even imagine having to do anything like this. Like...WHY



All respect due to the women who are easygoing and can just let your man be, and have their own hobbies and interests to bring to the table.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

when she gets to the hamstrings and calves breh

she also brings me home 3 bottles of beer every single time she comes. I don't even ask, it's routine. She's a good. Sometimes I think about being single, and I have pushed her away, then I go 2 weeks by myself and while walking to get my own beer, before scrubbing the sink, and then after getting a knot in my back, I think "call that girl now, you stupid fool"

Of course I can do everything myself, could always take my arse to a massage parlour, but she's positioned herself so well that you literally don't want to do that and just want her. That's how you know shes positioned herself to be a partner, and not someone leeching.

So she does all that and you still "push her away" until you miss being served? I swear ya'll make terrible cases for "submission."

 

[ChatGPT-5]

So she doesn't all that and you still "push her away" until you miss being served? I swear ya'll makterrible cases for "submission."

Served? Do you call it that when a male pays the bill? or pays the rent? buys you a purse or some flowers? or opens the door for you?

lets not go down this hole, it wont be pretty.

and I pushed her away for reasons I never mentioned.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Served? Do you call it that when a male pays the bill? or pays the house? or opens the door for you?

lets not go down this hole, it wont be pretty.

and I pushed her away for reasons I never mentioned.

You literally said you start to miss her when you have to do the menial things that she use to do.

If I were to say I miss a man when i have to pay my own bills you would call me every type of degenerate word you could thing of so I don't wanna hear that mess.

And idk why you're offended. Idk how being a glorified servant and maid seems like a good life to you. I just wonder like do ya'll ever really listen to what you say or how you could think that is a life a human with independent thoughts, ideas and feeling would aspire to be.

And I'm not knocking you. If it works for you and yours then do you but your verbiage makes the scenario sound extremely unappealing. When given the opportunity to speak well on her your pride is that she brings you beer and gets you glasses of water. I mean you don't see how odd and diminishing that sounds?

 

[Atlrocafella]

I can absolutely understand being attached to someone and succumbing to the societal pressures of what a "real man" is supposed to be, especially since most of that shyt exists on social media, where women control the content.

What I can't understand going through life being miserable, when all you have to do is say, "Nah, I'm not doing that." and a woman will respect that 20 times out of 10.

Literally all you have to do is be a man. Nature built it for us to command and them to lead, but brehs are out here fighting with nothing-ass women over spending time with their friends.

"I'm going out with the brehs. I'll be back when I get back. Cry / leave if you want to. Don't if you don't." Try it, and watch what happens.

I can't believe there's brehs who get chewed out by a woman for going to a bar and stay in the relationship....

Facts. I got my own shyt, I refuse to let a woman tell me what I can and can’t do.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

You literally said you start to miss her when you have to do the menial things that she use to do.

correct. I miss when people do nice things for me, not that I need it to be done thus the very next phrase talking about how she positioned herself as a great partner. not that she is needed. big difference.

If I were to say I miss a man when i have to pay my own bills you would call me every type of degenerate word you could thing of so I don't wanna hear that mess.

I don't know anyone who would not miss living rent free or having a door opened for them, but if you want to lie to us, ok great.

When given the opportunity to speak well on her your pride is that she brings you beer and gets you glasses of water. I mean you don't see how odd and diminishing that sounds?

no you see it as a problem because you wouldn't do such things. this is the main complaint with men here, what do you first world women even do? that's why you see people in here disgruntled and instead of first world women looking within, they simply say 'pfff im not your servant' men are very easily pleased, and yes bringing water when asked isnt being a servant but being caring, but youve first world women lost these values while simultaneously wanting a man that PROVIDES. Would you date an unemployed man? if you say no, I wouldn't call you a gold digger, you see? So if I say a woman brought me water, I don't think it's appropriate to say she's my maid. I pay my maid btw. I do not pay my gf, she does these things because loves me. Men are expected to do a lot of things for women that you COULD call servant, responsibilities that you expect in a man. Now, what do you lot bring to the table if bringing water is a huge task that makes you feel beneath. this is alarming.

 

[Balla]

Lot of dudes in here talking about being lonely.

I felt that shyt Baaaaaad them first 2 months after we stopped talking.

Then I started working on my businesses, my credit, my youtube accounts, etc.

Now I ain’t been lonely in about 6 months, Also ain’t been to sleep in about 4

I take lonely as depending on consistent sex on a regular basis.

That’s exactly how a girl gets put on a pedestal because the dude is depending on her for his happiness. You gotta have more than her to make you happy, she gotta be last place to other things that make you happy.

Like I’m thinking hard on what these dudes mean when they say that and unless you a super old ass nikka, you shouldn’t feel like that.

It feels so good to be single




(I’m not talking about you cuz I know you know what I’m talking about)

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

correct. I miss when people do nice things for me, not that I need it to be done thus the very next phrase talking about how she positioned herself as a great partner. not that she is needed. big difference.


I don't know anyone who would not miss living rent free or having a door opened for them, but if you want to lie to us, ok great.



no you see it as a problem because you wouldn't do such things. this is the main complaint with men here, what do you first world women even do? that's why you see people in here disgruntled and instead of first world women looking within, they simply say 'pfff im not your servant' men are very easily pleased, and yes bringing water when asked isnt being a servant but being caring, but youve first world women lost these values while simultaneously wanting a man that PROVIDES. Would you date an unemployed man? if you say no, I wouldn't call you a gold digger, you see? So if I say a woman brought me water, I don't think it's appropriate to say she's my maid. I pay my maid btw. I do not pay my gf, she does these things because loves me. Men are expected to do a lot of things for women that you COULD call servant, responsibilities that you expect in a man. Now, what do you lot bring to the table if bringing water is a huge task?

Missing someone because you'd rather they do housework is diminishing. Idc how you try to word. It is what it is.

So "missing" someone or wanting someone around specifically for financial gain is acceptable and encouraged by you? Cool, I stand corrected. Most people call that gold digging. But hey if you like it, I love it.

You're being presumptuous. I actually do do those things and a lot more but it isn't a defining attribute. It's basic human decency. A lot of women do that kind of thing. A lot of first world women do that. It's called manners. But it doesn't define us because we aspire to be more that cup bearers.

But I understand that's a concept you can't understand because you have reduced your wonder woman who you "push away" at will to a series of tasks.

Do you guys ever stop and think why women from other parts of the world cling on to "western" society so quickly when given the chance and not visa versa? It's because women don't want to be reduced to tasks even if it's a norm within their culture.

Sorry that offends you but it's true. Actually I'm not sorry.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

correct. I miss when people do nice things for me, not that I need it to be done thus the very next phrase talking about how she positioned herself as a great partner. not that she is needed. big difference.


I don't know anyone who would not miss living rent free or having a door opened for them, but if you want to lie to us, ok great.



no you see it as a problem because you wouldn't do such things. this is the main complaint with men here, what do you first world women even do? that's why you see people in here disgruntled and instead of first world women looking within, they simply say 'pfff im not your servant' men are very easily pleased, and yes bringing water when asked isnt being a servant but being caring, but youve first world women lost these values while simultaneously wanting a man that PROVIDES. Would you date an unemployed man? if you say no, I wouldn't call you a gold digger, you see? So if I say a woman brought me water, I don't think it's appropriate to say she's my maid. I pay my maid btw. I do not pay my gf, she does these things because loves me. Men are expected to do a lot of things for women that you COULD call servant, responsibilities that you expect in a man. Now, what do you lot bring to the table if bringing water is a huge task that makes you feel beneath. this is alarming.

Ether. Goddamn.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

Missing someone because you'd rather they do housework is diminishing. Idc how you try to word. It is what it is.

So "missing" someone or wanting someone around specifically for financial gain is acceptable and encouraged by you? Cool, I stand corrected. Most people call that gold digging. But hey if you like it, I love it.

You're being presumptuous. I actually do do those things and a lot more but it isn't a defining attribute. It's basic human decency. A lot of women do that kind of thing. A lot of first world women do that. It's called manners. But it doesn't define us because we aspire to be more that cup bearers.

But I understand that's a concept you can't understand because you have reduced your wonder woman who you "push away" at will to a series of tasks.

Do you guys ever stop and think why women from other parts of the world cling on to "western" society so quickly when given the chance and not visa versa? It's because women don't want to be reduced to tasks breh.

Sorry that offends you but it's true. Actually I'm not sorry.

First off. Women around the world call you whores, so lets not go there. Your representation on social media such as IG, etc is pretty cringe. Perhaps you're talking about hijab wearing muslim women in Saudi Arabia who make more money and yet barely can drive a car yesterday, but that's not the world. But they will still marry a Saudi and a Saudi will still just use you as a purchase. You think they want western values? are you not reading what the MEN are saying about your first world gender here? Are you blind? Finding a first world woman with values is becoming slim, true or false? So how could the rest of the world, whom has manners and old school values wish to obtain lack of value? It's a contradiction. I don't really care if you don't like my wording, take it as you will. Just like you have no idea why I pushed away said person, yet you tried to use it as a highlight. What if its because she doesn't like my family? now what? Exactly.

Again, and it's the last time I'm going to mention it. I do miss when people do nice things for me. It doesn't define them, what I am saying is, when I am lonely, I thought about her, because of her well manners and her being here. If you took it the wrong way, well. Sorry but not sorry I really don't give af. If she had a problem, such as you, she wouldn't be here. I'm not forcing her to be here or do anything she doesn't want to do. So you speaking for her is comedic. After our break she even said while massaging me "I bet you missed this" and I said "you damn right thought about it every day baby "

Meanwhile a brethren in the states can go on 10 tinder dates, 3 gfs and not even be offered a simple shoulder rub, but he's buying movie tickets and flowers. Servant you said. I feel sorry for my brethrens in the west

 

[ChatGPT-5]

and wait a min. you say you do those things, but then get mad when I mention I miss when my woman does those things.

uhhhh what.

sure, yea, you do those things.


western woman after flat tire and having to change it in the rain by herself: damn I wish Thomas was here .

me: oh so you just thinking of Thomas as your servant, your tire changer. That's all he is to you.

western women logic.

per you, its you missing him for his physical prowess. but I see it as her realizing Thomas' contribution to the relationship. How much easier life is with a strong partner.

but I guess we all see things differently.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

First off. Women around the world call you whores, so lets not go there. Your representation on social media such as IG, etc is pretty cringe. Perhaps you're talking about hijab wearing muslim women in Saudi Arabia who make more money and yet barely can drive a car yesterday, but that's not the world. But they will still marry a Saudi and a Saudi will still just use you as a purchase. You think they want western values? are you not reading what the MEN are saying about your first world gender here? Are you blind? Finding a first world woman with values is becoming slim, true or false? So how could the rest of the world, whom has manners and old school values wish to obtain lack of value? It's a contradiction. I don't really care if you don't like my wording, take it as you will. Just like you have no idea why I pushed away said person, yet you tried to use it as a highlight. What if its because she doesn't like my family? now what? Exactly.

Again, and it's the last time I'm going to mention it. I do miss when people do nice things for me. It doesn't define them, what I am saying is, when I am lonely, I thought about her, because of her well manners and her being here. If you took it the wrong way, well. Sorry but not sorry I really don't give af. If she had a problem, such as you, she wouldn't be here. I'm not forcing her to be here or do anything she doesn't want to do. So you speaking for her is comedic.

Well unlike you and these supposedly people from all over the world who think western women are all whores I go off of what I see instead of throwing insults and making assumptions. A lot of western women aren't doing those things. I would say the majority aren't despite the propaganda you choose to ingest, believe and then spew out as an attempt to insult. I live in a city full of women from all over the work. I can assure you the majority enjoy western culture very much.

And I never spoke for your girl nor implied she was doing anything against her will. That is you being defensive and presumptuous. I solely spoke on how you communicated your perceived value ie the bringer of water and beer and that given the chance IMO most women would not want that to be their value.

Idk how a simple concept has you so worked up. I would think it would be easy to see why a human would want to be seen as more than you made her out to be.

But now you seem sensitive and have reduced your argument to insults via inclusionary group generalizations. Oversensitive men who preach patriarchy is odd and contradictory to me. So I will agree to disagree and wish you and your cup bearer the best.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

Well unlike you and these supposedly people from all over the world who think western women are all whores I go off of what I see instead of throwing insults and making assumptions.

just like you assumed all women around the world want western values?

A lot of western women aren't doing those things. I would say the majority aren't despite the propaganda you choose to ingest, believe and then spew out as an attempt to insult. I live in a city full of women from all over the work. I can assure you the majority enjoy western culture very much.

I lived in your country for 4 years. I think you're mistaking people liking america and what it stands for, for liking western relationship values. keyword, relationship. Somali women do not go to america and then start thotting on social media, you'll rarely see them have one night stands, there's exceptions but majority, no. NO twerking in the club. Do chinese women do it? No. Do they wild out and have hot girl summers, I don't think so. They go to america, enjoy the perks of living in a super power which has equality professionally. I commend that. Nothing more, nothing less, but majority maintain their culture while living within yours. Get it right. They may dabble in some things like remove a hijab, but going full blown american, fukk no, and don't even try to lie.

And I never spoke for your girl nor implied she was doing anything against her will. That is you being defensive and presumptuous. I solely spoke on how you communicated your perceived value ie the bringer of water and beer and that given the chance IMO most women would not want that to be their value.

So now being well mannered isn't a trait I should have highlighted? You're upset because I detailed mannerism? Again, I believe it's because you do not do these things, it's the only way one could be offended by such wording. Hide if you want, but it's the truth.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

and wait a min. you say you do those things, but then get mad when I mention I miss when my woman does those things.

uhhhh what.

sure, yea, you do those things.


western woman after flat tire and having to change it in the rain by herself: damn I wish Thomas was here .

me: oh so you just thinking of Thomas as your servant, your tire changer. That's all he is to you.

western women logic.

per you, its you missing him for his physical prowess. but I see it as her realizing Thomas' contribution to the relationship. How much easier life is with a strong partner.

but I guess we all see things differently.

I'm not upset. I am simply having a conversation with you. Aren't women allowed to do that in your culture?

And western women have this service called 'roadside assistance' just like western men. It's included in our insurance so we don't need a tire charger. Your assumptions about western culture are pretty off. Probably should learn a little about it before you start on your rants. I mean you should have time since your drink runs are covered.



Anyway, I appreciate the dialogue but I must move onto something more productive now.

 

[BigMan]

Do you guys ever stop and think why women from other parts of the world cling on to "western" society so quickly when given the chance and not visa versa? It's because women don't want to be reduced to tasks even if it's a norm within their culture.

thats not really true