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[Ohene]

it's things I tell my girl and she will think I am crazy, or even bitter and that it is specific to my experience with women. But the truth of the matter is that I speak to a lot of men (brothers, white dudes, indian dudes, old, young, muslim , christian etc etc etc), most of which are in long term healthy relationships. A lot of us are dealing with the same struggles and frustrations with these women but simply dont have anyone to share them with and to console us

why? because as a man you are always admonished and taught that its your fault. youre always the one thats primarily held responsible/accountable when things go wrong; whereas, women are coddled. as a result, women think they are immaculate and god's gift to humanity while most men struggle in silence and even cheat to cope (sometimes losing everything if they get found out). A lot of the men I know in long term relationships (married, with fiancees etc) cheat . It's the sad reality man. I'm not even joking. Have seen and heard it with my own eyes.

 

[Greenhornet]

women get the targets because they are supposed to be "partners"

what makes them dangerous is that they are currency... whether they like it or not
they know it, thats why you have brothels all over the world

dudes can be grimey and shyt too... but women and men dynamic... most women want what you have to offer... not the other way around
coming up I always had dough... I was with this girl for 9 years... helped put her through college... bought her family a car etc
soon as she got money, she changed... shyt didnt last beyond a year after that. Thank god it happened early in my life

after that dated a bunch of women trying to climb the ladder
both men and women mad insecure
most people want to know what you got... and are angry/hateful/jealous of it
or they will blatantly try to criticize it... because its shyt they dont have

gonna be real at 35 years old and say ive switched too
id rather be around ignorant rich people who really just dont care
than broke people scrambling and stabbing eachother in the back
... its been almost a guarantee that a broke person will turn on you

thats why its funny to me when broke people say "be humble... be gracious"
you should use your position to your advantage
you dont have to be a piece of shyt about it ... but thats why you're in that position anyway
and they are gonna turn on you regardless if it works out
you either have to avoid broke people or flex on them ... men and women

thats why pimps always say "keep a bytch broke" you keep her relying on you and you got her forever
women want what you can offer them... or what you can bring to the table
90% of the time if someone has a better table... or better offer they will make excuses to go sit at that table
and most of these types of people... which is a huge percentage... will play the "looks" game
they want to pretend to be level headed and honorable... because it only boosts their chances of lying further

I throw out the bait of being wild and out of control and people run from it
it helps weed out the bullshyt ... and they can play pretend on their own
while I lamp like a king in my zen garden of unbothered, no debt, treasures.

you can tell what's what really fast when you have money and experience
some people (or most) will act crazy if you talk down on family ... its happened in here
but family is the first to get you caught up... act accordingly and be real
the same people crying and acting like thats weird... to not trust family
are the same people who try to control their family which is nonsensical
if you can stand on your own feet... you dont need to treat anyone like a baby... family or not.
give people honest chances regardless and keep order... but dont go out of your way to help someone who cant help themselves.
when big money comes into the picture, family is always the first who will fight/sue/ and destroy it. Bigger the family... the bigger the headache. Always stay on your square and put yourself first in a realistic sense. Make sure you are good before you help or give a fukk about anyone else. And only make moves that benefit you really. So when shyt falls apart, you can still get something out of it. That doesnt mean dont be generous, but have your shyt trump tight before you do that.

When people cant make you rely on them, they break for the exit real fast.

 

[Ohene]

women get the targets because they are supposed to be "partners"

what makes them dangerous is that they are currency... whether they like it or not
they know it, thats why you have brothels all over the world

dudes can be grimey and shyt too... but women and men dynamic... most women want what you have to offer... not the other way around
coming up I always had dough... I was with this girl for 9 years... helped put her through college... bought her family a car etc
soon as she got money, she changed... shyt didnt last beyond a year after that. Thank god it happened early in my life

after that dated a bunch of women trying to climb the ladder
both men and women mad insecure
most people want to know what you got... and are angry/hateful/jealous of it
or they will blatantly try to criticize it... because its shyt they dont have

gonna be real at 35 years old and say ive switched too
id rather be around ignorant rich people who really just dont care
than broke people scrambling and stabbing eachother in the back
... its been almost a guarantee that a broke person will turn on you

thats why its funny to me when broke people say "be humble... be gracious"
you should use your position to your advantage
you dont have to be a piece of shyt about it ... but thats why you're in that position anyway
and they are gonna turn on you regardless if it works out
you either have to avoid broke people or flex on them ... men and women

thats why pimps always say "keep a bytch broke" you keep her relying on you and you got her forever
women want what you can offer them... or what you can bring to the table
90% of the time if someone has a better table... or better offer they will make excuses to go sit at that table
and most of these types of people... which is a huge percentage... will play the "looks" game
they want to pretend to be level headed and honorable... because it only boosts their chances of lying further

I throw out the bait of being wild and out of control and people run from it
it helps weed out the bullshyt ... and they can play pretend on their own
while I lamp like a king in my zen garden of unbothered, no debt, treasures.

you can tell what's what really fast when you have money and experience
some people (or most) will act crazy if you talk down on family ... its happened in here
but family is the first to get you caught up... act accordingly and be real
the same people crying and acting like thats weird... to not trust family
are the same people who try to control their family which is nonsensical
if you can stand on your own feet... you dont need to treat anyone like a baby... family or not.
give people honest chances regardless and keep order... but dont go out of your way to help someone who cant help themselves.
when big money comes into the picture, family is always the first who will fight/sue/ and destroy it. Bigger the family... the bigger the headache. Always stay on your square and put yourself first in a realistic sense. Make sure you are good before you help or give a fukk about anyone else. And only make moves that benefit you really. So when shyt falls apart, you can still get something out of it. That doesnt mean dont be generous, but have your shyt trump tight before you do that.

When people cant make you rely on them, they break for the exit real fast.

good post. especially the family part

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

as the kind brother above @Kiyoshi-Dono mentioned , men need to share their stories.

it's a lot of us in relationships or dealing with heartbreak, absolutely frustrated and infuriated by the ways of women. reducing these stories to "bitterness" and "incel shyt" only mutes men who honestly may want nothing more than to vent.

@Neo The Resurrected ONE this was honestly a great therad and has been a therapeutic read for me. I'm in a relationship with someone who I would honestly say is a good woman, but I am reminded probably biweekly by her ignorance, petulance and lack of true appreciation of how quickly she could probably turn on me.

The biggest reason for this is because women care about nothing other than how they feel. And as we all know, feelings...emotions are fleeting. As a result, you can never ever really put your stock into a woman or expect loyalty from them. They care nothing about the past, what youve done, what you represent or even the future - the big picture. Nope. All they care about is how they feel in a particular moment, and their decisions from one moment to the next will be based solely on said feelings.

That's why youll see women stick with cheaters, wastemans, abusers etc. It is why youll see them marry dudes who are in jail, even those who are known rapists, necrophiles, pedos etc. Make no mistake about it, those men are doing something that arouses their emotions or feeds their ego and anchors them as a result.

Preach. Man, I made this thread in a moment of fury and anger but it became therapeutic for me as well. Something about sharing our stories and reading the stories of others enforces at the very least some sense of community to let brehs know that "no, you're not going crazy. I'm going through the exact same thing." It's almost a form of vindication and reassurance.

 

[Mowgli]

The red flags

 

[africngiant]

Dude really ain’t wrong
He just didn’t speak in a politically correct way
And stop deducing everything down to incel speech
Muthafukkas running that shyt into the ground and not even using the term right
Sounding like these goofy tik tok hoes with narcissist
Look at it from this angle
You presented your case study to an audience
Some have told their stories
Now think of all the stories you haven’t heard
I mean stories from men that would make you believe the devil walks amongst us in plain sight
Then ask yourself if every man told his stories aloud
Yeah shyt could definitely get super ugly in these streets
I’m not condoning killing but every man that has been hurt
I’m talking down to the white meat/bones
Crying, listening to love songs 50-11 times in a row
See your old bytch we her new nikka not even 48 hours later
Smiling and keekeeing
Told every story to make your name look like shyt in these streets
Had family members ready to fight you for shyt that didn’t even happen
Took your vulnerability as a joke
Told all your business
Left you when you got sick, lost your job or got injured
Just grimey shyt
Only to act like a whole new character
When you know for a fact she ain’t built like what she trying to portray online or with this new nikka
The thought has crossed his mind
You can’t make a thread like this and be naive to the thought
Nor can you ignore unfortunately the crimes of passion that have gone on for centuries
Again for the non comprehending muthafukkas of thecoli
I do not condone murder of any kind
But I understand man
I’ve been down that dark path several times were a nikka was ready to jump out the window because the pain was so intense
That’s why it’s imperative nikkas let this shyt out to ogs, real homies, write
Men gotta stop shytting on nikkas pain and emotions and actually LISTEN

man the way i just “ooooooo’d” rn

 

[Slow Moving]

Happened to me twice recently. We all we got, breh.

I was already at a low point and then it happened AGAIN.

I have the hero gene and high morals woat combination in world full of snakes so i understand.
Is best to never extend your arm to anybody is always thankless job that at best might get u something of equal value back but mostly back stabbing.

 

[MoveForward]

I'm a 30 year old man sleeping in my childhood bedroom because she cheated and when I went off, she got a stay away order on me. Then had the fukking nerve to tell me that she would consider rekindling our marriage if she saw me make some changes ... The fukking nerve

I came a looooooong way. This post doesn’t capture the pain I was in, I didn’t think I was going to make it. Now I’m thinking about proposing to my new chick.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

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I came a looooooong way. This post doesn’t capture the pain I was in, I didn’t think I was going to make it. Now I’m thinking about proposing to my new chick.

breh you made it.

 

[The ADD]

I came a looooooong way. This post doesn’t capture the pain I was in, I didn’t think I was going to make it. Now I’m thinking about proposing to my new chick.

Ain’t learn nothing

 

[CopiousX]

never and I mean NEVER completely let your guard down


At least half the population of real men lives by a code and a ethos and we have loyalty to a degree to someone that has been there for us when we were down.

Women have no such code. Once they are upset, all bets are off.

Every woman and I mean EVERY woman has the potential to break bad on you.

The only woman that's ever truly been in my corner is my mama. Ma dukes been there for ya boy


Always ALWAYS sleep with an eye open no matter how good she is to you, no matter how much you think she loves you, no matter what.

You CANNOT fully trust a woman. They have no code.

You could have done every single thing for them, been there for them during the rough points of their lives and it means nothing.

Wicked creatures they are



Can't live with them can't live without them

Werent you married when you made this post?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

it's things I tell my girl and she will think I am crazy, or even bitter and that it is specific to my experience with women. But the truth of the matter is that I speak to a lot of men (brothers, white dudes, indian dudes, old, young, muslim , christian etc etc etc), most of which are in long term healthy relationships. A lot of us are dealing with the same struggles and frustrations with these women but simply dont have anyone to share them with and to console us

why? because as a man you are always admonished and taught that its your fault. youre always the one thats primarily held responsible/accountable when things go wrong; whereas, women are coddled. as a result, women think they are immaculate and god's gift to humanity while most men struggle in silence and even cheat to cope (sometimes losing everything if they get found out). A lot of the men I know in long term relationships (married, with fiancees etc) cheat . It's the sad reality man. I'm not even joking. Have seen and heard it with my own eyes.

This is the part that has always made me

So no matter what happens, its my fault? I'm always the bad guy?

 

[ReggieFlare]

Thread is facts but don’t be surprised if dudes come running in here with their capes on.

Truth is the only woman who may have any real love for you is the one who’s stomach you lived in. Every other woman either loves you for what you have or what they believe they can gain from being with you…honestly I don’t even think you should be mad because if you understand women on a biological level it’s not surprising. Self-preservation and preservation of her seeds will ALWAYS come first with so don’t expect them to have strong principles or a code that they live by.

 

[DaPresident]

I learned SOME women ain’t ish, when my first wife cheated on me while she was deployed and I stayed faithful (I’m a loyal guy by nature)

I realized very late in my life that women aren’t all “sugar and spice and everything nice”

It didn’t leave me jaded, but more upset at myself. Learned to move MUCH differently and truly vet the women in my life.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

When did I ever relate disloyal to cheating?

I never once mentioned anything about a woman stepping out to sleep with another man cause guess what? That's not a gender thing

Both men and women do that

I specifically said disloyalty relating to the following

A woman trying to backstab you and destroy you because you made her angry

A woman telling lies on you to turn people against you because she's angry

A woman who you have been there for during the low moments of her life having no sense of gratitude and all of that goes out the window when she truly gets angry with you.

When women are mad, all bets are off. They will do any and everything and then they sleep good at night because society tells them that they are a "scorned woman" so anything she does, its justified

I had a woman act a complete fool with me recently and then told me what do I expect? Shes been through a lot.

So basically no matter what women do, they can always find justification for it in their hearts and place the blame elsewhere instead of on who it truly belongs on: and that's them.

I was spitting fire in this thread