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[GhettoTeK]

He may have cheated on u and started showing attention to other women but the reason he left u wasnt because u are TOO NICE

You may not have a personality and yall may not mesh. That's more believable

Theres something else about you other than the fact that you're too nice while women always say that they will leave a man if hes too nice to them

And I'm not saying theres anything wrong with that. Women want a strong man thats going to lead them and a pushover nice guy is the complete opposite of that.

only I know what you dont know what i know of you and the rest of these incels on the coli...is you nikkas had mammy issues growing up, so that's why you bytches make threads bashing women.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

We have different definitions of disloyal

When I'm talking about disloyal for a woman, I'm not even talking about a woman cheating

I mean breaking bad, mistreating u, trying to destroy you

Those are my definitions of disloyal in this thread

Men NORMALLY dont go out of their way to destroy a woman

Yall will try and destroy us in a heartbeat tho.

Men dont go out lying on women because to what end? What do we get out of that?

Yall on the other hand will lie on us for many reasons.

You didn't answer question.

Why would someone who is a liar and a cheater expect to be treated well especially after the situation is said and done? Why would someone who "by nature" isn't loyal expect loyalty on any level. I don't understand the logic.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I guess the question is are humans like Swans or Wolves? Where they mate for life? Should they be? And if yes are they getting consistent sex from their mate. If no then everything goes out the window.

This doesn't answer the question either.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Even teh worst of us men have a code. All this means is that he has a language and rules that you can negotiate a 'peace' deal with. Doesn't mean that you can trust him to share 'territory'.

Exactly. In the normal realm of things, men can come to an understanding

You don't like me, I dont like u, we stay out of each others way.

I got plenty of men that I'm like this with.

But for the most part, when a man has been there for u and helped you up when you needed it and had a hand out for you, you're gonna feel a sense of loyalty and gratitude to that person

Not so with women. You could provide for women for years and when they get mad at you, they come from a place of irrational hatred.

Women even develop irrational hatred if they are interested in you and you're not interested in them. They talk all that stuff about being afraid to reject a man because of the fact that hes gonna cuss them out or physically harm them and I'm not saying that doesn't happen sometimes

But let's be real here. We as men get rejected by women all the time and how many of us are cussing her out or trying to fight her. That's rare and extrme cases of some ignant nicca without male figures in his life

But EVERY SINGLE TIME that a woman has been interested in me, made her interest known and I rejected her, she changed up and became filled with hatred for me and I even caught a few of them trying to take me down behind my back


Women are ruthless creatures.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Seriously question, if men are by nature disloyal and always seeking new p*ssy what is the point of a woman being loyal to them out side of resources? I'm not saying it's true or untrue. I just wonder why some men will yell from the hills that they are in constant need to get their dikk wet but then complain about women unconditionally loving them.

Because women swear cheating will destroy their life and is harmful when in reality cheating is just her pride being hurt that he wanted another womans vagina. The only reprocussions from cheating are MADE UP in a womans head. A man can fukk other women and still take care of all of his business as a man for his woman and family.

Women will use and sap a man for all his resources while giving nothing back and then leave that man for the next man once he is used up, while the other man will be left to pick up the pieces of his life as best he can if he can.

The sad thing is women know and fully understand a mans nature of wanting some strange, yet constantly try to turn them into something they are not. Men understands a womans nature and he won't try to change her at all, he will just try and protect himself from her nature as best he can.

 

[Neuromancer]

This doesn't answer the question either.

Oh. Sorry. The person doesn't deserve loyalty if they don't show it.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

You didn't answer question.

Why would someone who is a liar and a cheater expect to be treated well especially after the situation is said and done? Why would someone who "by nature" isn't loyal expect loyalty on any level. I don't understand the logic.

This is a different topic. I defined the definitions of loyalty and disloyalty for thread purposes

I realize now that a lot of yall didnt understand what I meant when I said disloyal and so I defined it for you. Obviously anyone can be disloyal from the standpoint that you are referring to.

But from the definition that I'm using for this thread, most women are like this and few men are.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Men understands a womans nature and he won't try to change her at all, he will just try and protect himself from her nature as best he can.

bars

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

All females who look, sound, and breed like women are not women. What yall are talking about is not a gender issue but a maturity issue. Those bad experiences should teach you what to look for and what not to look for, but they shouldnt make you condemn all women.

I'm not no wise expert or nothing, but I've learned that I would rather be alone in peace than be with somebody and have to put up with their crap. After I got to that point, I met my wife and we were in the place and it's been working out so far.

I didn’t think I said or implied all women are like this. I was just speaking on capabilities based on your comment about it’s a person( men and women) not just women. That’s why my first statement was I agree for the most part.

You have a great outlook but I hate to tell you, maturity isn’t always the issue. And it isn’t always malice on her part either. Sometimes shyt happens.

But one thing that a man can’t do is pin a baby on an unsuspecting man for what ever reason, be it good, bad, mature or not.

To me that’s one of the worse things you can do outside of murder(add aborting a baby a man wants to things a man can’t do) or any other horrible crime against people.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Because women swear cheating will destroy their life and is harmful when in reality cheating is just her pride being hurt that he wanted another womans vagina. The only reprocussions from cheating are MADE UP in a womans head. A man can fukk other women and still take care of all of his business as a man for his woman and family.

Women will use and sap a man for all his resources while giving nothing back and then leave that man for the next man once he is used up, while the other man will be left to pick up the pieces of his life as best he can if he can.

The sad thing is women know and fully understand a mans nature of wanting some strange, yet constantly try to turn them into something they are not. Men understands a womans nature and he won't try to change her at all, he will just try and protect himself from her nature as best he can.

Cheating does have major implications though outside of pride though.

But even if we go with what you said that still doesn't explain why a man would expect loyalty or be upset when a woman moves on. If it's just an exchange of resources and sex and a man is "allowed" to be disloyal then why should a woman be obligated to stick around once the exchange is made.

In your scenario I just see no reason for a woman to be around longer than she needs to get what she wants. If a man is handing out dikk left and right what is her motivation to stay?

Do ya'll wanna be loved or do you wanna just be a resource?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Cheating does have major implications though outside of pride though.

But even if we go with what you said that still doesn't explain why a man would expect loyalty or be upset when a woman moves on. If it's just an exchange of resources and sex and a man is "allowed" to be disloyal then why should a woman be obligated to stick around once the exchange is made.

In your scenario I just see no reason for a woman to be around longer than she needs to get what she wants. If a man is handing out dikk left and right what is her motivation to stay?

I see that u are ignoring my above meanings of disloyalty

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Cheating does have major implications though outside of pride though.

But even if we go with what you said that still doesn't explain why a man would expect loyalty or be upset when a woman moves on. If it's just an exchange of resources and sex and a man is "allowed" to be disloyal then why should a woman be obligated to stick around once the exchange is made.

In your scenario I just see no reason for a woman to be around longer than she needs to get what she wants. If a man is handing out dikk left and right what is her motivation to stay?

What implications does cheating have outside of pride?

There isn't a reason for a woman to stay, it isn't in a womans nature to be loyal because the human female is hypergamous by nature, just like the human male is polygamous by nature.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I see that u are ignoring my above meanings of disloyalty

And I see you wanna create a whole other conversation instead of answering my question.

You answer my question and I'll answer yours.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Yep.

Fukk a bytch.

My ex put me in the friend zone to fukk with he dude before me.

Nicca wound up being a meth head, used her spot for a rest haven and made her a sidechick.

Karma is a mugg.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

What implications does cheating have outside of pride?

There isn't a reason for a woman to stay, it isn't in a womans nature to be loyal because the human female is hypergamous by nature, just like the human male is polygamous by nature.

Sex creates babies and emotional connections. It alss takes time, energy and resources away the the relationship in addition to spreading diseases.

Okay good so then why do men expect loyalty?