Women have no accountability.
I have had plenty of convo's with my brehs where one of would say. You know what. I fukked up. I was wrong in that situation. etc. I made the wrong call.
VERY RARELY will you hear a women say this. There will always be a spin. Well yeah I did it because he did this. . Or yeah I did that fukked up shyt cause she tried me.
Over the past week my girl has been reading this book.
Book is about a black chick who married a foreigner. I think he is german. Moved over there. They had two kids. blah blah. Now periodically my girl would throw out tidbits about what she was reading at the time. I would be halfway listening

while I am playing my Playstation. But I got the gist of the story.
As she is feeding me info about crazy parts of the story the amazing thing is the chick who is writing the story kept it ALL THE WAY 100. She was the piece of shyt the whole time. She pressured him into kids even tho he was iffy about it. He made it so she did not have to work but the stress of carrying the whole load turned him into gambler. He still took care of the fam but blew threw some money. She used this as justification to cheat on him with a broke handyman who worked on their house. He finally was thinking something was going on and she told him she only kissed him. Meanwhile she kept fukking ol boy. The handyman wanted her to leave her husband but she did not want to cause he had money and the handyman was a broke boy.
Now my girl is telling me this stuff and I am waiting on the spin the whole time. By the end. . .Me and my girl was in shock. She ADMITTED it was her fault. She was the bi polar crazy one. She was bendwenching and money hungry. I caught it first. Cause my girl got to the end and was

I guess that is it. . I told her. You look unsatisfied.

She was like um. . yeah. I kept waiting for him to cheat. Or beat her. Something to justify all the crap she put him through.

I was just sitting there.
The point is when a women is all the way 100 and truly holds herself accountable for her actions it is RARE. It was so rare my girl did not know how to process the book.