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breh I passed the rock.
Shoot the shots til u win.
Pull em
Let em learn u
Gain their trust

Bush in a week and 3 days if she not breaking bread by then or done bought u some food,a shirt,paid a bill. Whatever it is it shouldn’t be requested by u.

jus mention some shyt u might want or need a couple times throughout the week and see if she don’t handle that square business for u.


These women want to do for a nikka out here
But nikkas be hard headed

every nikka different.im not scared of rejection or letting a bytch know I can’t fukk wit her cause she ain’t breaking bread like I want her to

I need u to invest in a nikka before I invest in u
If she like u
She gon go along for the ride anyhow

I made it simple as I could.

a girl can spend money on you and still act outta pocket. Had to Bush a chick like that recently. Caught her recklessly eyeballing a couple of times.
 

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Based on some of these comments, I don’t think some of you even know what it is to love and be loyal to another person.

oh look its a female talking to men about love and being loyal.

So have you ever flaked on a guy? lied to a man why you cancelled a date, dumped a man who did nothing to you just because you weren't in love or feeling him like that?

Let's get to this definition of loyalty

in the words of you


No I’ve never experienced heartbreak but I’ve seen it first hand and no, I will never allow another person to bring me so low that I’m acting irrationally in front of someone that clearly doesn’t give one bit of a damn about my feelings. No I won’t.

So what exactly can you tell men who have been through the ringer with females about loyalty and love?
 

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Do u want to talk about it or is it too soon?
I posted it on here. I live with my ex gf and I've been seeing a separated co worker on the side. She also lives with her ex. Tons of drama from her. That cause me to become angry and frustrated. We had this thing where we would break up and make up constantly. I cut off intimacy cause the drama wasnt worth it. She wont leave me alone. She'll cry and beg then the cycle repeats. I wasnt happy and I put myself in the situation. She plays the victim and blames me for all the negative shyt that we've been thru. I'm tired of living a double life. And putting someone thats not worth it on a pedestal. My needs and wants are more important. I want my old self back. Reading this thread is helping me see that.
 
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First breh imma need you to come in to the present because I haven't danced in 10 years so if you are gonna speak on it get your facts straight.

Second where did I discount an experience? I haven't. I asked about condone cheating and why some men paint themselves to be untrustworthy.

Third no it's not relevant. Dancing has nothing to do with relationships. Nothing. One is a job.

You just want to bring it to try to discount my line of questioning. But the answers came from men not me. And it was you or he (can't remember which) who stated that women have no incentive to be loyal to men because (according to one of ya'll) men are natural liars and cheaters.

:mjlol:

I didn't state that. I don't even believe that. That came from ya'll. Again you wanna come for me when ya'll in here shytting on yourself. Lol

So again, I don't have the problems ya'll have. I don't run up behind folks I don't like and don't trust. I don't keep people like that around me. I know good people.

However if you or anyone else is a cheater I think you deserve shytty women.

:manny:



bolded.

SOULS OF MISCHIEF : THAT'S WHEN YA LOST.
you souled your virtue.
plus staked a complete flag in the non-committal front.
there is no way we can take what you say to be fully real.
as you will not accept accountability.
plus act like you have not souled your virtue.

men do not place value in people with no virtue.
after you souled your virtue.
you can not ever get it back.




art barr
 

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oh look its a female talking to men about love and being loyal.

So have you ever flaked on a guy? lied to a man why you cancelled a date, dumped a man who did nothing to you just because you weren't in love or feeling him like that?

Let's get to this definition of loyalty

How many relationships have you been in? How many times have you told someone you loved them? How many times have you realized the relationship was wrong? How many times have you had to start over? Was it always the other person’s fault?

I take commitment strongly...I don’t flake with someone I love in fact I’ve been accused of being too considerate of people I love because the one thing no one can never accuse me of is being disloyal or not loving them. I have never broken up with someone for not feeling them or falling
out of love. When you love someone and want to be with them, it’s a serious decision. Just because you find someone attractive and you have good conversations with them doesn’t mean they should receive some loyalty or love...My loyalty and love runs deep.. I have never cheated and never entertained anyone else. There was never a time where I ever considered leaving my SO because I chose him as he chose me. Love is deeper then being fickle about dates. Love does not lie. Love does not leave just because things may not be going the way you want and the same goes for loyalty.
However love and loyalty can be abused if the person you chose to be with doesn’t reciprocate those feelings and takes advantage of them whether it be cheating or by any other way...

You can’t claim love and loyalty without giving the same and expecting the same.

There has to be a balance and even as you dismiss my thoughts because I’m a woman, I know that what I have is something most of you probably wish you did.
 

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How many relationships have you been in? How many times have you told someone you loved them? How many times have you realized the relationship was wrong? How many times have you had to start over? Was it always the other person’s fault?

I take commitment strongly...I don’t flake with someone I love in fact I’ve been accused of being too considerate of people I love because the one thing no one can never accuse me of is being disloyal or not loving them. I have never broken up with someone for not feeling them or falling
out of love. When you love someone and want to be with them, it’s a serious decision. Just because you find someone attractive and you have good conversations with them doesn’t mean they should receive some loyalty or love...My loyalty and love runs deep.. I have never cheated and never entertained anyone else. There was never a time where I ever considered leaving my SO because I chose him as he chose me. Love is deeper then being fickle about dates, Love does not lie, love does not leave just because things may not be going the way you want and the same goes for loyalty.
However love and loyalty can be abused if the person you chose to be with doesn’t reciprocate those feelings and takes advantage of them whether it be cheating or by any other way...

You can’t claim love and loyalty without giving the same and expecting the same.

There has to be a balance and even as you dismiss my thoughts because I’m a woman, I know that what I have is something most of you probably wish you did.


that's nice but you never answered my questions

have you ever flaked on a guy yes or no?
have you ever dumped a guy yes or no?

and to your last point nope you are wrong, I don't covet anything anyone has that's a sin.
 

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I posted it on here. I live with my ex gf and I've been seeing a separated co worker on the side. She also lives with her ex. Tons of drama from her. That cause me to become angry and frustrated. We had this thing where we would break up and make up constantly. I cut off intimacy cause the drama wasnt worth it. She wont leave me alone. She'll cry and beg then the cycle repeats. I wasnt happy and I put myself in the situation. She plays the victim and blames me for all the negative shyt that we've been thru. I'm tired of living a double life. And putting someone thats not worth it on a pedestal. My needs and wants are more important. I want my old self back. Reading this thread is helping me see that.

:mindblown:

why don't you move in with your separated coworker and have her ex move in with yours:yeshrug:


life is to short breh do what makes you happy, what if you die tomorrow imagine your last day on earth being stuck in this mess
 

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that's nice but you never answered my questions

have you ever flaked on a guy yes or no?
have you ever dumped a guy yes or no?

and to your last point nope you are wrong, I don't covet anything anyone has that's a sin.

No
No

Well you should because you all seem miserable

so why didn’t you answer my questions?

oh are you the holier than thou type that thinks everything that happens to you is someone else’s fault or the devil?
 

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No
No

Well you should because you all seem miserable

so why didn’t you answer my questions?

oh are you the holier than thou type that thinks everything that happens to you is someone else’s fault or the devil?

if i never been on a battlefield you won't hear me talking about war
 
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