9 Brutally real reasons why millennials refuse to have kids

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Most of those answers are bullshyt except for the high debt part. Anyway, these kids are young and most are below the average marriage/child bearing age. Let's see their answers when they are 32 and the clocks are ringing hard.

But besides high student debt, to be honest, the decision to have kids usually rests with the woman. Married or not, she is going to make sure she is on the pill or whatever to prevent pregnancy. A lot of chicks want regular careers or have even higher aspirations and having a kids will screw that up. They are independent and don't see the family model of previous generations as an aspiration, which is fine, it just means later marriage and fewer kids if any.

Some fukk around like dudes do so they don't want to settle down yet until they get worried about the looks and other aging issues and then will hunt dudes down to get hitched. So they wait and by the time they are ready, they are in the mid to late 30s which is why there are so many fertility issues and long waits to get pregnant, etc.

Not trying to put all the onus and fault on females but let's be honest, unless he is later in life 8/10 times it ain't the dude harassing the girl to have kids. Especially under 35.
 

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From a societal perspective, on one hand, if you have children before a certain age, it's :patrice::francis:, because, usually, there are some "requirements" that have not been met. Then, if you don't have kids by a certain age, it's also :patrice::francis:, even if you still haven't met said requirements or because trying to meet the requirements meant putting children on hold. Talk about a lose-lose situation. :pachaha:
 

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As a 21 year old, ALL of that is accurate af. When I see girls around my age pushing strollers down the street (even worse if their kid(s) are old enough to walk), I get sad. I don't know anyone my age that planned on having kids at this stage, they just fukked up and had them
Real shyt
 

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I'd rather people who don't want kids not have them than bring an unwanted baby into this world.

So with that being said, what's the point of this article?

Yeah no unwanted kids but if you look at the people they are profiling, educated probably better off, you would want them to have families, not for eugenics, but since sadly, we live in a society where a kid's trajectory and well being are closely tied to the parents' social status and maintaining a large middle class requires the middle class to have kids...
 

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DAYCARE IS HIGH AS fukk :damn:


biggest scam and mind fukk ever. the idea that to take a child to a daycare cost 700 a week is ridiculous.
thats a luxury car note but weekly instead of monthly. well at least in nyc its a crazy endeavor where the owners of these places are balling while everyone else is poor sending these damn kids to sleep and shyt until we get home from work.
 

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biggest scam and mind fukk ever. the idea that to take a child to a daycare cost 700 a week is ridiculous.
thats a luxury car note but weekly instead of monthly. well at least in nyc its a crazy endeavor where the owners of these places are balling while everyone else is poor sending these damn kids to sleep and shyt until we get home from work.
Daycare more expensive than college :wow:
 

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Daycare more expensive than college :wow:
im still in shock about this. I cant wrap my head around it. Like why so damn much. Why baby jesus, why. Luckily i got my girls mom and my father wife as an option when i have my child in a couple months. But if it wasnt for that. Id be in a shelter paying that much for fukkin glorified nannies.

I feel so bad for people who have to go that route.
 
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