9 Out Of 10 Woman Can’t Understand Why Her and Her Friends Can’t Find Men In San Francisco

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so OP just picked some random group of asian women and decided those were the friends she was talking about, and half the thread follows....
the problem with americans is that most are dumb af

Nobody else clocked this.

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

Look how fast a certain demographic flooded in, while another flooded out the city

 

[The_Sheff]

While I agree I still think that a woman's ability to earn a decent income matters. To me the biggest thing that matters is that she's not lazy and leeching off you. Life becomes so much easier when you have 2 good earning partners. Especially true in expensive cities like SF. I'm not asking that she earn hundreds of thousands but she has to earn some income and can't be working no minimum wage job. If I'm looking for a wife I definitely look at academics and her job. If I'm looking for a girlfriend or someone to mess around with then obviously I'm not looking at that.

Yes but women think that their score scales with their earnings or education and it doesn’t. Most guys have a minimum earning level for a woman they will accept, once it is reached then that other shyt I mentioned is exponentially more valuable.

An 8 with a bachelors degree will be more sought after than a 6 with a masters.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

You definitely don’t have any Asians in your circle
This reads like a white boy manifesto
Fobs are not docile
Fobs are very materialistic especially Chinese and Korean chicks
Asian nikkas in The Bay are not looking for these types of chicks even the Fobs
Most Asian nikkas in The Bay are dating Pacific Islanders, Latinas or White bytches
Fob nikkas with paper are trying to get a blonde bytch right out the gate just like Indian nikkas
So these chicks aren’t even on their radar like that unless he is a square and even still Asian nikkas first choice if he was getting chose like that would be a white bytch or and ABG
This hoe and her friends don’t even want those types of men even though they are contemporaries to them
They see white as upward mobility and keys to a secret society
Little do they know those white parents can’t stand having hapa grandchildren
They still get met with racism even in those marriages from their husbands
American Asian chicks and Fobs all care about money and that docile shyt is the biggest lie they run game with
Talk to a white nikka or spicy cac about their Asian wife and watch how they face switches up
Most Asian bytches have the personality of a turnip and don’t really have an opinion about shyt in life outside of academia and money
The ones that do have a personality, have friends of multiple races and their own minds get wifed up with the quickness because they are rare
These bytches ain’t rare and are cookie cutter cosplaying white bytches
But go off lil daddy

Facts.

Asian women are STEREOTYPED as docile because people see the Vietnam vet cac with his war bride and she's walking quietly behind him.

Even in those situations, she still runs the house.

Black women are the softest women by far and have the highest bullshyt tolerance. Asian women run shyt with an iron fist behind closed doors.

In America, men have to win approval of the dad. In Asian culture, the women have to win approval from a man's momma. This is why Asian American women hate dating Asian brehs.....because Asian Tiger Mom's ain't gon let any Soo Yung step to her son. You better know your place and keep quiet. Any hint of acting like a white girl gets you bushed.

Crazy Rich Asians was deadazz accurate on that part of their culture.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Nobody else clocked this.

i'm sure some did but folks on here be so desperate for rage bait. this can't be life
funny thing is i was looking at her other tiktoks and the only other girls in them look like white girls these brehs would be pawged out over

 

[Tres Leches]

just by the way she talks 4/10

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

TikTok - Make Your Day

She thought this shyt was going to go one way
Got caught with her hand in the cookie jar and now it’s about humanity
She had absolutely no point
I promise she doesn’t practice what she preaches
If her girlfriends were really attractive and if she was a baddie
She wouldn’t be coppin pleas and would’ve doubled down
She punched above her weight class and both genders cooking her because the audacity
This not even an Internet thing about being mean
It’s so many mid ass chicks(even the ones you geek nikkas run behind on this forum looking for digital hugs and likes from)
Espousing bullshyt then turn victim when nikkas point out the fukkery
nikkas of all races are tired of always being told they are less than
When most women don’t have hobbies, personalities or traits to make them think so highly of themselves
That’s the crux of the issue
It takes two to date
Both genders have to be interesting
Not just for dating sake alone
But to be well rounded for themselves
This also speaks specifically to why Asians have that robot stereotype attached to them
This is why they don’t get colleges aren’t actively seeking them out
Yeah everything looks good on paper
But you suck as a human being
You have absolutely no interests or value to bring outside your academic achievements and ability to make money
People want more than that
That’s in all relationships
The chicks that actually have personalities, wit, humor and as the kids say aura
Are never single
You want to know why the flighty chick that believes in astrology and all that other goofy shyt gets chased
Because the bytch is interesting
Crazy chicks get chased for the same reason
Even the quiet girl gets chased because she has a mystic about her
None of these chicks have that and it clearly shows
*this is the end of my Ted Talk*

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Assuming her friends are also Asian, the problem is 100% the fact that she dates white guys exclusively and they don’t want to commit to her because they also have options from white and better looking asian women, but she thinks she’s too good for any man of color that doesn’t look like a supermodel.

 

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But I did not disagree with her reasoning. Basically was saying that her friends arent toxic and are sweethearts with good heads on their shoulders..

Another thing is men and women behave differently around the opposite sex. They may be a great friend to her but she doesn’t know how they are with the men they deal with. If they are toxic they aren’t gonna admit it to each other

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Another thing is men and women behave differently around the opposite sex. They may be a great friend to her but she doesn’t know how they are with the men they deal with. If they are toxic they aren’t gonna admit it to each other

Very very true…

Which is why I hate chicks who hang on to their friend groups every word. They are not even genuine with themselves.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

On another note, if you're complaining that you can't find a mate in while living in a large urban area....it's you, no ways about it.

my thoughts exactly everytime i wander into this 2000+ page thread lol

Essential - Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

-Never let a chick know how much you want her, always play it cool. Dont come on too strong. Add on, lets share the wealth brehs.

www.thecoli.com

 

[VertigoKnight]

Nobody else clocked this.

From looking at her TikTok she hangs out with a lot of white chicks. She has that air about her.

It was probably those chick's she was talking about.

Those chick's in that picture that got posted must be with the unwanted attention and flaming they got. As for sure those chick's would never rate themselves that high.

 

[SadimirPutin]

Is she the type of her type?

Once she answers that question then she can move accordingly

 

[Givethanks]

Idk what's going on but the Indian ting holding the mocha latte is a cutie

 

[MegaTronBomb!]

Apparently, she heard yall Coli brehs loud and clear

TikTok - Make Your Day

Can’t post the TikTok for whatever dumbass reason

But sounds like she wasn’t trying to say it in an arrogant way. Basically, thats how she viewed her friends with certain things included (non-physical).

But I did not disagree with her reasoning. Basically was saying that her friends arent toxic and are sweethearts with good heads on their shoulders..


I can see that. There are some women who aren’t “perfect” but I would consider a 9/10 when you add in everything and get to know them including looks.

Called it.

She literally came with the "I only value the opinions of people i respect"

I guess she didn't expect to get packed up the way she did, or thought that she'd get far more support for her take.

The funny part is that the notion of her friends having "High EQ" and "not being toxic" is only measured through her interactions with them, and their recount of interactions with the men they've dated.

High EQ (too ambiguous/subjective to really quantify) and "Non-Toxic" doesn't equate with being desirable/attractive.


Like the possibility that they're simply just highly educated,gainfully employed,undesirable,boring people who've found a community anchored in the fact they can't find a mate isn't absurd.