9 year old girl commit suicide... R.I.P...
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tha attitude of 'their opinion automatically has no merit since they have no experience in tha field' instead of thinking critically and objectively about what they said. Its not like were talking about technical subject matter pertaining to an esoteric field of study. Some shyt is just common sense. And not everything has to be learned from trial and error. A smart man learns from his mistakes, a wise man learns from others'. Let's not act like what i said has zero basis in reality.
Also for yall folks who dont have kids......once you have them keep them off social media until they are old enough to understand and comprehend that shyt.
Little kids do not need twitter, facebook and etc accounts. Their minds can't rationalize what is real and what isn't.
Its the same with these kids watching reality tv.....they don't need to see that shyt.
Just too much negativity for their young minds to absorb and understand.
Little kids do not need twitter, facebook and etc accounts. Their minds can't rationalize what is real and what isn't.
Its the same with these kids watching reality tv.....they don't need to see that shyt.
Just too much negativity for their young minds to absorb and understand.
as a parent it's very important to be visible in your child's school.
-go to field day
-go to career day
-sign up to read a book to the class
-meet you kid for lunch at school in their lunch room at least once or twice a year
-show up at activities where other students are so they understand that you are involved
it demonstrates to your child, other kids, the teachers, and administrators that you care about your kid's well being and education. i've met with the teachers and principal. i've met other parents with their kids around. they know i'm not with they shyts and will be at the school if there's an issue, regardless of whose fault it is. i also let them know that i expect them to take action if there is a problem child in my kids class or i will. have no problem finding a kid's parent number and calling them up to talk about it cordially, or however they want it to go.
i don't think kids need to be coddled and they do go through some hazing. also teach kids to stand up for themselves. but if bullying or teasing gets incessant and cruel and no one does anything that's a problem. in many cases some teachers and administrators are scared of confrontation. either with the problem child or the problem child's parent. that's their job though and we have to hold them accountable.
it's so sad to read stories like this because there's always something everyone could have done better to save this baby girl's life. i can't imagine the pain and anger her parents are dealing with. rip to that little angel. life as shorty shouldn't be so rough.
-go to field day
-go to career day
-sign up to read a book to the class
-meet you kid for lunch at school in their lunch room at least once or twice a year
-show up at activities where other students are so they understand that you are involved
it demonstrates to your child, other kids, the teachers, and administrators that you care about your kid's well being and education. i've met with the teachers and principal. i've met other parents with their kids around. they know i'm not with they shyts and will be at the school if there's an issue, regardless of whose fault it is. i also let them know that i expect them to take action if there is a problem child in my kids class or i will. have no problem finding a kid's parent number and calling them up to talk about it cordially, or however they want it to go.
i don't think kids need to be coddled and they do go through some hazing. also teach kids to stand up for themselves. but if bullying or teasing gets incessant and cruel and no one does anything that's a problem. in many cases some teachers and administrators are scared of confrontation. either with the problem child or the problem child's parent. that's their job though and we have to hold them accountable.
it's so sad to read stories like this because there's always something everyone could have done better to save this baby girl's life. i can't imagine the pain and anger her parents are dealing with. rip to that little angel. life as shorty shouldn't be so rough.
HimmyHendrix
Port Au Pawg Prime Minister / Black Queen Lover
shyt reminds me to be their for my (mine) daughter and son.Asking a simple question can save a life
Field Marshall Bradley
Veteran
Bullseye..... Couldn’t have said it better
cacs set the example and we are now following sadly.. parents aren't properly preparing their children for this "post-racial" but not really post-racial society.
the world don't love you or your kids prepare them for it. give them the mental armour they need to thrive. the tough skin to survive. the courage to be graceful under fire and tact to elevate above the positions society wants for them.
God is great, our struggle is only temporary.
:gmswarning:
don't let that go over your heads tho.
TheDarkskinnedDrake
All Star
Damn I have a daughter ......RIP 
kenreid0726eabos
All Star
Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
My son is taller than almost all his classmates, so he doesn't get bullied. And he can fight.
But I'm still on top of EVERYTHING. No matter how small it is. If he comes home and tells me a kid tripped him, yes I'm THAT parent that is calling the teacher the next day
I don't play about my kids. I don't let shyt slide when its about them. And if it really came down to it, I'd slap the shyt out of somebody's child and then tell them to go get their mother
People REALLY have to listen to their children. My son tells me his whole school day from arrival to dismissal. Everyday. I've seen some people brush their kids off when they are trying to talk to them. I don't do that. Even if its some normal, stupid lil kid shyt, I always listen.
Also, I know a lot of people have this "we don't run from our problems" mindset. But when you see your child is REALLY going through it, just pull them from the school. I know where I am, your child isn't only confined to the closest school. They can pretty much go to any school, especially under emergency circumstances like being bullied. If the school isn't taking your concerns seriously, pull your child and then sue their ass.
But I'm still on top of EVERYTHING. No matter how small it is. If he comes home and tells me a kid tripped him, yes I'm THAT parent that is calling the teacher the next day
I don't play about my kids. I don't let shyt slide when its about them. And if it really came down to it, I'd slap the shyt out of somebody's child and then tell them to go get their motherPeople REALLY have to listen to their children. My son tells me his whole school day from arrival to dismissal. Everyday. I've seen some people brush their kids off when they are trying to talk to them. I don't do that. Even if its some normal, stupid lil kid shyt, I always listen.
Also, I know a lot of people have this "we don't run from our problems" mindset. But when you see your child is REALLY going through it, just pull them from the school. I know where I am, your child isn't only confined to the closest school. They can pretty much go to any school, especially under emergency circumstances like being bullied. If the school isn't taking your concerns seriously, pull your child and then sue their ass.
Nintendough
#Kliq
We really gotta get away from cacs man. They are insecure devils
GetInTheTruck
Member
This society is eating itself. I swear man in my 50's I'm deading everything, gonna go live in an ashram or something away from all this fukked up madness.
AuntAnniesPretzels
Banned
fukk every person who’s response to school bullying is “man up/woman up”. That shyt fukks you up for life and I know from personal experience. RIP to the little girl
Please don’t do that. Let them know they can come to you for anything but if you are generally obnoxious in nature they’re not going to feel a desire to talk to you about much of anything but particularly serious matters
Sigh... rip
Ducktales
Brehs be flexing
they knew their child was being bullied and didn't even attempt to do anything. I have 2 children and theres no fukking way I would just be trying to ask my 9 year old if she was cool even though she was being bullied. Thats ridiculous. I don't care what anyone says, they could have easily prevented this, but due to negligence, their child committed suicide because she had no help in her corner