90 Days: NO Porn or Fap Challenge

[Swagg Pitt]

It took me a while to realize that porn was the reason for my problems. I would think it was from drinking too much caffeine, or some workout supplements I was taking. Once I discovered that it was the pornos, I stopped watching them cold turkey, and haven't gone back. One of the hardest things starting off, was getting the flashbacks of porn scenes out of my head. That took close to a month. It was also hard the first 6 weeks, because I wasn't ever horny AT ALL. But as I read, that is a normal part of the process. Now, at day 91, I SOMEWHAT get morning wood again, and I can see a bad chick just walking around and kinda get hard, but I still have a good way to go. Bad thing for me is, I won't know if I'm fully cured until I fukk another chick. And with my situation being what it is, I'm scared as hell to even attempt to fukk a chick given the fact I might not be able to get it up. It's a struggle brehs. That's why I really wanna wait until I'm at the six month mark before I start chasing ass again. I'm NEVER watching porn again. I know that for sure.

stay on the good fight brodie.

I'm in the same spot as you, If I see a bad chick I don't get hard for nothing. The turning point was after days of not seeing my chick, I tried to give her the pipe but I got soft half way through.

That's when I knew I was fukked up. All these years of watching porn finally did me in. I'm quitting cold turkey as well.

Somewhat of a relief tho, yesterday I gave her the D and everything was fine, but I know I could be way better. I miss the times when I'd see a bad bytch and get hard as a mawfukka.

We got this though Day 3 for me

 

[Sunalmighty]

It took me a while to realize that porn was the reason for my problems. I would think it was from drinking too much caffeine, or some workout supplements I was taking. Once I discovered that it was the pornos, I stopped watching them cold turkey, and haven't gone back. One of the hardest things starting off, was getting the flashbacks of porn scenes out of my head. That took close to a month. It was also hard the first 6 weeks, because I wasn't ever horny AT ALL. But as I read, that is a normal part of the process. Now, at day 91, I SOMEWHAT get morning wood again, and I can see a bad chick just walking around and kinda get hard, but I still have a good way to go. Bad thing for me is, I won't know if I'm fully cured until I fukk another chick. And with my situation being what it is, I'm scared as hell to even attempt to fukk a chick given the fact I might not be able to get it up. It's a struggle brehs. That's why I really wanna wait until I'm at the six month mark before I start chasing ass again. I'm NEVER watching porn again. I know that for sure.

Performance Anxiety is what you are dealing with. Heart beating, racing like, "will I be able to get an erection"? Been there. I'm a lot better, it nearly drove me insane. When I realized it was the porn, I was like "porn is a satanic tool". It will take about a FULL YEAR I believe, depending on the man. I will say this, if you are married, begin intimately sessions right away. Remember, intimacy isn't just intercourse. Lay together butt naked, get used to the touch of a woman again. Best thing for you, conversation with your girl, if you have one. Talking does WONDERS!!! BREAK the ice, and it transforms your thinking and takes you to another level. Honestly, I was AFRAID of my lady. It was like, I would always think, "how am I going to do this"? I'm good now, its just at times I have fallen. To hell with what a nicca in the streets say, that porn Shyt is serious. Porn stars cannot even PERFORM without viagra. Niccas get surgeries, insane Shyt. That line of business isn't natural. It messes your thinking up. Nicca think his Johnson not big enough, can I satisfying her, what if I nut quick? That's no way to live. If ya lady loves you and tells you u r just right for her, your good. Start back with NATURAL intimacy. I read about a guy just like us. It too months, up to 8 I think. He normal now. He would get an erection, then it would go away. When he was back to normal, man they got busy 4 times in a night. We r on the right paths. Shyt is an epidemic

 

[Sunalmighty]

When going through withdrawal from porn, your libido will vanish for a while. You won't feel ANYTHING. like, your sex drive is DEAD. It will come back. And don't take ANY viagra, you don't want to become dependent

 

[lamont614]

Man I wish I could do this 90 with no sex I got in house p*ssy and my girl look good but I rather jack off to some melrose foxx porn got me so jaded that I don't even wanna fukk my girl I want some new p*ssy

 

[raidersreceiver]

Day 4

 

[Swagg Pitt]

Man I wish I could do this 90 with no sex I got in house p*ssy and my girl look good but I rather jack off to some melrose foxx porn got me so jaded that I don't even wanna fukk my girl I want some new p*ssy

I feel ya bro, thats why we needa get off this porn shyt. It's got our priorities fukked up

 

[Casso Dinero]

I was on day 5 until I saw that favorite Asian pornstars thread. I swear I'm trying brehs, I'm..I'm trying

Spoiler

 

[Phillyrider807]

That's what it is for me. On two different occasions last year I had a chick butt ass in my bed, and didn't even feel like doing shyt with her. It's not just that I couldn't get it up, I wasn't turned on at all. Meanwhile, if I loaded up some pornos I was good to go. It was the weirdest shyt.

I did some research and found out that internet porn is desensitizing dudes from regular chicks. Mainly because with internet porn you can go from one scene or chick to the next in seconds (You could never do that before the internet). It causes a sensory overload and makes your brain release abnormally high dopamine levels. Once your brain gets used to those levels, it has to reach them every time you're trying to fukk. It's virtually impossible to reach those levels with just a female in front of you, regardless of how dope she is. So you basically have to retrain your brain by not looking at porn for an extended period of time. It's actually similar to heroin addiction.

My 90th day is tomorrow, and while I've seen big improvements, I'd say I still got a couple months AT LEAST til I'm back to normally. I was talking regularly to this bad chick recently and pretty much had to dead the situation because I knew there was no way I'd be able to fukk her. Viagra and Cialis don't even help because they help with bloodflow to the dikk. This aint a bloodflow problem, it's a brain problem. I realized I had to pretty much stop watching porn or deal with this shyt for the rest of my life.

THIS JUST HAPPENED TO ME LAST NIGHT. :thisnikka:


I spit game to this chick i met at the gas station a couple days ago. We go out tonight to the movies and dinner. She invites me back to her crib. She starts undressing right in front of me and im thinking to myself "This bytch isn't Baby Cakes or Melrose Foxx"


I should of noticed something was wrong when i hit the strip club with my friends for my friend bday the other week and i didn't even get hard when the strippers were on me. Like i didn't feel anything. Then last night happened. I litteraly had no desire to fukk her and i couldn't get hard.. Man fukk this. Im deleting all my porn.























Well maybe not yet...

DAY 1 starts now.

 

[lamont614]

I was on day 5 until I saw that favorite Asian pornstars thread. I swear I'm trying brehs, I'm..I'm trying

Spoiler

You made me curious i was on day 10 breh


Now I'm on day one

 

[Theabbot]

You made me curious i was on day 10 breh


Now I'm on day one

 

[AVO]

Day 1 This the last day 1 for me ever. Never fapping again.

 

[Casso Dinero]

You made me curious i was on day 10 breh


Now I'm on day one

 

[Shameonyou]

Man I wish I could do this 90 with no sex I got in house p*ssy and my girl look good but I rather jack off to some melrose foxx porn got me so jaded that I don't even wanna fukk my girl I want some new p*ssy

its borderline impossible to do this with no sex on the side...im fukking dying....


most I went was 3 weeks...and I almost lost it


but imma keep at it because sex is still cheating on this challenge IMO

 

[Theabbot]

See for me, sex was the only way I could start reprogramming myself. Like @Sunalmighty and @malbaker86 mentioned before, you gotta get your mind back to factory settings. You need to strip yourself down to the basics. The female body being the one and only source for sexual pleasure. I used my girl(s) as a way to ween myself off of porn and fapping. I stopped watching porn, then whenever I felt like I was getting horny, I'd do something with my girl. I would get naked with her and just enjoy her body. Touching, kissing, etc... Sometimes my joint wouldn't work though. But because I told her about the whole porn problem and no fapping, she understood what was happening and was patient with me. After a while it started happening less and less. Still happens sometimes though. Not gonna lie. Which is why I agree that this rehab can easily take a full year.
But I'm doing much better now. My joint works 7 out 10 times now. Not 2 out of 10 like it was before. Just the other day I met up with my girl and we had about 30 mins of free time before we had to meet up with some friends to go see IM3. She hit me with the then asked: "Can we get a quick session in?" I was like and we got it in. If a girl asked me that question 2 months ago, it would've been straight status and my shyt would NOT have worked. The mental anxiety that comes with porn addiction is completely debilitating. So trust me when i say the no fap/porn process works, and refills your confidence levels at the same time too. It's a win-win situation if you can maintain your abstinence. It's an uphill battle but you can do it brehs.

 

[StarClout]

Day 43