A fine girl called me "Bruh"......

[TigerLord]

What happens when a fine black girl, who you know, KNOWS you are an attractive guy calls you bruh?
A Spelman girl i don't even know personally whom I met at this HBCU event called me bruh out of nowhere...

I felt insulted and didn't know how to respond... I'm not tryna brag, but I'm considered somewhat attractive, lightweight pretty boy. Most girls I come into contact with me are attracted to me...I get a lot of "Helga Pataki" type chicks who try to ignore me, or give me attitude, because they don't want to come off like they are interested in me.... A lot of girls are actually intimidated to approach me....She was obviously one of those chicks... We barely had any convo, cause she didn't initiate convo with me...and I damn sure aint with her... at the end she was like "can you pass me that, thanks bruh" and I'm like.....




Im hoping some Coli ladies can chime in on this. Let's all Discuss

She testing you. You didnt initiate convo.... she looking at it like "you gonna treat her like a dude and just act chill?" ok breh, make yourself useful then and pass me my ish. She poked you with a stick to see if you'd react. how i read it but in real life tone, timing and body language would tell you alot more.

 

[live it to the limit]

Huh? I've called guys that I'm attracted to but also comfortable with things like breh, dude, kinfolk, my guy, partna, mane, etc. maybe, just maybe she's different. Women aren't monolith. She may like u but she's not gonna fawn all over u like other girls. Or she may not like your pretty boy attitude and is paying u dust because u think you're the shyt and girls chase u. I've done this to dudes in the past and always get the "you don't like me like the other girls?" vibe in return

 

[Quiet Magician]

Huh? I've called guys that I'm attracted to but also comfortable with things like breh, dude, kinfolk, my guy, partna, mane, etc. maybe, just maybe she's different. Women aren't monolith. She may like u but she's not gonna fawn all over u like other girls. Or she may not like your pretty boy attitude and is paying u dust because u think you're the shyt and girls chase u. I've done this to dudes in the past and always get the "you don't like me like the other girls?" vibe in return

 

[live it to the limit]

Lol. What should I call them? Bae, boo, cutie, handsome? Then I'm a thirsty stalker

 

[Token]

Women saying "bruh" is a problem now?

 

[Quiet Magician]

Lol. What should I call them? Bae, boo, cutie, handsome? Then I'm a thirsty stalker

Do you but I just think it comes off as weird. Like you are trying too hard to fit in with the guys.

Me: Hey live it to the limit, whats sup.
You: Not much breh, just doing my thing partna.
Me:

 

[Milk N Cookies]

So... Girls shouldn't call dudes 'breh'??? I say 'breh' cause I don't wanna call dudes 'nikka'. But now what do I say since dudes don't like that???

 

[live it to the limit]

Do you but I just think it comes off as weird. Like you are trying too hard to fit in with the guys.

Me: Hey live it to the limit, whats sup.
You: Not much breh, just doing my thing partna.
Me:

Maybe I've always been so comfortable with guys that I'm not aware that I should pick and choose my words.
You: hey live it to the limit, what's up
Me: nothing mane, what it do?

It would go more like that, or maybe it's cause I'm from Memphis . Lol

 

[XII]

Breh calls himself a lightweight pretty boy

 

[thirdeye]

So... Girls shouldn't call dudes 'breh'??? I say 'breh' cause I don't wanna call dudes 'nikka'. But now what do I say since dudes don't like that???

Call em' douchebags
I call all my guy friends bro or breh and they have no issues with it

 

[Quiet Magician]

So... Girls shouldn't call dudes 'breh'??? I say 'breh' cause I don't wanna call dudes 'nikka'. But now what do I say since dudes don't like that???

It comes off as masculine. Like when I see my boy, I call him breh and we dapp.

When I see a girl I know, I call her by her name. I don't call her man, bro, mane or all that other shyt.

 

[kaiOogway]

im out yall

 

[Milk N Cookies]

It comes off as masculine. Like when I see my boy, I call him breh and we dapp.

When I see a girl I know, I call her by her name. I don't call her man, bro, mane or all that other shyt.

It's way too many dudes at my job. I've been there since February and I still don't know half the dudes names I see daily. Breh is the best general term to the unknown named dudes.

 

[SouljaVoy]

Huh? I've called guys that I'm attracted to but also comfortable with things like breh, dude, kinfolk, my guy, partna, mane, etc. maybe, just maybe she's different. Women aren't monolith. She may like u but she's not gonna fawn all over u like other girls. Or she may not like your pretty boy attitude and is paying u dust because u think you're the shyt and girls chase u. I've done this to dudes in the past and always get the "you don't like me like the other girls?" vibe in return

You and @TigerLord may have a point

Women saying "bruh" is a problem now?

So... Girls shouldn't call dudes 'breh'??? I say 'breh' cause I don't wanna call dudes 'nikka'. But now what do I say since dudes don't like that???

To all you females... YES calling a guy "bruh" is an insult... At least to me.
That's lightweight like you are SONNING me... You basically saying I'm not alpha male enough to be your nikka, or hit that p*ssy. So I'm demoting you to friend level zone.

 

[PhonZhi]

Mine said Southwest, Atlanta when I used to live out there.

Right of campbellton road

Was out there this time last year, glad I moved. That Cali life

why are you glad you moved? i just got out here. Was was it that you hated? Personally, im already realizing im not about this traffic life