a former co worker who ain’t from Harlem asked me out for drinks…am I heading down the wrong path?

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Worked together about 2-3 years, he got laid off in the thick of covid. Haven’t spoke since then like almost a year ago.

we would just have casual talks at work, nothing major or in depth.

hit me up yesterday asking to meet up for drinks.. and that he “knows a spot” where he has the plug. So I’m assuming he’s also kinda paying for me :dame:

said he’s been working hard, and has always respected my opinion and vision on certain things..so just wanted to catch up with me to get some insight…I asked who else was going, and he was like nobody :mjlol:

I have never been invited out with a nikka who I wasn’t already cool with on some bros 4 life shyt…is he trying to turn me out? :damn:
 

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Worked together about 2-3 years, he got laid off in the thick of covid. Haven’t spoke since then like almost a year ago.

we would just have casual talks at work, nothing major or in depth.

hit me up yesterday asking to meet up for drinks.. and that he “knows a spot” where he has the plug. So I’m assuming he’s also kinda paying for me :dame:

said he’s been working hard, and has always respected my opinion and vision on certain things..so just wanted to catch up with me to get some insight…I asked who else was going, and he was like nobody :mjlol:

I have never been invited out with a nikka who I wasn’t already cool with on some bros 4 life shyt…is he trying to turn me out? :damn:
He is also assuming that ass is his:ehh:

:scust: Thinking @Another Man who ain’t ya breh paying for you
 

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be a literal homophobe by expressing fear of another man's intentions, brehs.

i've been hit on by gay dudes several times in my life.
i just let em know i don't move like that but i'm flattered and leave it at that.
that's literally the worst case scenario other than him drugging and raping you.

i would go and see what's good with breh.
he prob got some cool stories from the time yall been apart.
 

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Personally, I wouldn’t go. Not because he may be suspect but because of the relationship itself. I don’t know how extensive your casual talks were but if it was nothing too deep and y’all never hung out in public before, then it’s a no for me. Plus you two haven’t spoken in almost a year lol.

I don’t think his having a plug means he’ll pay for drinks. It is kind of a weird thing to say tho.
 
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