a former co worker who ain’t from Harlem asked me out for drinks…am I heading down the wrong path?

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Worked together about 2-3 years, he got laid off in the thick of covid. Haven’t spoke since then like almost a year ago.

we would just have casual talks at work, nothing major or in depth.

hit me up yesterday asking to meet up for drinks.. and that he “knows a spot” where he has the plug. So I’m assuming he’s also kinda paying for me :dame:

said he’s been working hard, and has always respected my opinion and vision on certain things..so just wanted to catch up with me to get some insight…I asked who else was going, and he was like nobody :mjlol:

I have never been invited out with a nikka who I wasn’t already cool with on some bros 4 life shyt…is he trying to turn me out? :damn:

Relationships drive business. You never know what could come of it. You shouldn’t even be thinking of the suspect part. Just go
 

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@Lil Bape the PostGod

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~_^ Whats the worst that could happen?

OP better not go to the kitchen

Could end getting his cheeks taken

:dame::hubie:
 

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You must be super thot material to worry about getting turned out so easily :russ: old weak sales resistance, “I’ve never done this before” ass :mjlol::mjlol:

man just go and shoot the breeze. You know know what good rapport can do for you down the line :ehh:
 

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"is it gay to get drinks with your male friend/coworker"
:gucci:

Watching dudes regress mentally/emotionally/etc for fear of looking gay is wild.
 

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Worked together about 2-3 years, he got laid off in the thick of covid. Haven’t spoke since then like almost a year ago.

we would just have casual talks at work, nothing major or in depth.

hit me up yesterday asking to meet up for drinks.. and that he “knows a spot” where he has the plug. So I’m assuming he’s also kinda paying for me :dame:

said he’s been working hard, and has always respected my opinion and vision on certain things..so just wanted to catch up with me to get some insight…I asked who else was going, and he was like nobody :mjlol:

I have never been invited out with a nikka who I wasn’t already cool with on some bros 4 life shyt…is he trying to turn me out? :damn:
I’m sorry I busted out laughing here :laff:
 

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Bro he probably wants career advice
Probably he didn't find a job yet and doesn't know what to do
I would go to be honest, help a man out, that's probably all that it is
But do ensure you bring a condom with you.
 
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