A lot of young women are on the prowl for an Unk (35 & up Grown men)

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as a 40 something who sometimes questions my own decisions not to smash more of these young tender types:hubie:

these young women require a lot of energy and don't like to plan. add in them generally being busy and shytty communicators and it gets tired and not worth it fast
 

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you just described most of the men on this site
Exactly! Or at least the ones in here thinking that's a flex. The last time $20-$30 and some liquor was impressing a woman I was 20 yrs old broke in college working at Church's chicken. It made sense back then. But it's brehs in here in their late 20s early 30s still pulling that move. Either their mindset, wages, or quality of women haven't elevated which is crazy. I don't even want a chick that's impressed with that to even come to my house. I got too much nice stuff over here :russ:
 
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I guess you can say

It's our turn now

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In all seriousness, a lot of issues younger men have is they still don't get that women like older men. Especially ones that are in shape, with paper and good personality

Young men should spend their twenties leveling up and staying in shape.

Their turn is coming, if they patient.
 

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These aren't sugar babies either. These are young ladies, who havent been able to land a good paying job / career yet and are beginning to realize the American dream isnt a obtainable as it seemed and that the strong independent life they see 30 and up women living is hard and lonely. They've also are already realizing there isnt much benefit in dating broke, inconsistent and unreliable young dudes. They know most unks will at least have a cozy home (with a grill and repository tequila /henny) a reliable car and money to play with. This isn't necessarily a sugardaddy/ sugar baby relationship, this is a situation that's beneficial to both without the headaches and mandates of dating women your own age.

35 and up men, u must decide if u would rather give 20$ here, 25$ there and a bottle of Don Julio occasionally to a young, low mileage 911 Porsche Carrera Turbo ?

Spend 100s of dollars on dinners and events trying to heal and restorate an old 1st model year Expedition with 5 previous owners?
:laff::laff:
 

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It depends on which women you go after. I'm short, I make and have enough saved to live above most people means , I3m 35, i have my own car & place, I'm in great shape.....but I only clean up with hoodrats who women who make minimum wage.

The women in my salary range think I'm going broke. I got a breh that made around 110k a year with a fiance. He spent all his money on her and her child. She left him because he was always broke. They had the same exact salary because they were city cops.
 

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Exactly! Or at least the ones in here thinking that's a flex. The last time $20-$30 and some liquor was impressing a woman I was 20 yrs old broke in college working at Church's chicken. It made sense back then. But it's brehs in here in their late 20s early 30s still pulling that move. Either their mindset, wages, or quality of women haven't elevated which is crazy. I don't even want a chick that's impressed with that to even come to my house. I got too much nice stuff over here :russ:
eh i dont mess with women who only want my money anyway. i dont know why anyone would want to finance someone like that. doesnt it feel like youre paying for sex? doesnt that bother people???

:whoa: ive been out of the dating game for a few years now, but i would never put up with some shyt like that. i would rather be lonely and save my money.

and if you need to fukk someone to pay your bills... you need to get a job :ufdup:
 

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A brotha in the field with a real story.
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It’s surprising you don’t meet ambitious women who don’t care to have kids. You would be their unicorn.
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I was 29 when I met my 27 year old soon to be Wife. She was on the path to be a lawyer and didn’t care to have kids. I didn’t care about it either. Women like that are out there. If you were in the DMV, you would have 10 on your roster right now ready to marry you because you don’t want children.
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DMV has some beautiful ambitious black women. Had I stayed out there longer I would be married and living in one of those big houses in PG county
 

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The rates have been goin up this decade specially in bigger cities. Gen Z women are the first gen of women out earnin male counterparts, on average more educated. Over 60% of men under 30 are single and that rate is much higher than that of women of the same age range.....so it's obvious what's happenin.

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Most Gen Z men haven't even approached a woman in real life and a large majority of em get their fix off social media, porn, gamin, anime, vapes, Doordash and all that other stuff. They're not even interested in datin or pursuin em, and a lot of the ones that might try are too socially awkward, swagless, low confidence and a lot of those men have bought in heavy to that red pill manosphere shyt. Turnin incel, real hate for women and wit all that they steal lean majorly right while women are more liberated and progressive than ever. I don't think any generation has a political divide this large between genders just look at this last election male and female votin split shyt was crazy.

A lot of these Gen Z men want all this traditional shyt from women yet they are not traditionally masculine men themselves. Can't provide, no confidence, low testosterone, addicted to social media, porn, gamin, anime, vape, and if ya actually know Gen Z people or even go outside you'll see Gen Z women wit older guys every day. So these Gen Z nikkas got all these deep rooted personal problems from what they're exposin themselves too since a early age from internet and have a self defeatist attitude that get em turnin to red pill manosphere shyt not even tryin to improve yet they very opposite politically from most they female counterparts and these Gen Z women are earnin MORE than em too...... This shyt been buildin up and the rates of millennial men wit Gen Z women is only gon increase this decade wit societal trends specially as AI and virtual reality start REALLY poppin off.

The age gap ain't even societally and culturally as big as previous gens like boomers and Gen X cause millennials grew up wit internet and social media too but they still got the last of the real life outside shyt before it went full internet so they got the best of both worlds both gens still get they news from mostly same sources, follow a lot of the same shows, music, trends etc. But as a older man ya still gotta not be flabby, be attractive physically, have some kinda fashion sense, ya most likely got confidence and general shyt down of ya pullin young women it's not like every older man got all that but if ya do ya scoopin these younger jawns easy in 2025

Gen Z the first gen that was raised whole life on internet and Gen Alpha is probably gon be some even crazier shyt wit AI.

This isn't healthy for any society. We're going to have big problems (and we already are) as a society with all these single young men.
 

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Now that I'm in that age range its becoming more obvious I'm going to have to drop down to at least 30 years old if I want a wife and kids. Maybe even 26-28, and set aside a dating budget of $500-$1000 a month. It seems like more women online are expecting a stipend of sorts in the form of going to "Instagrammable" restaurants or lounges. Even women who are in their mid-30's and well in their career try to pull this, along with expecting the man to get on HER schedule to travel out of the state/country. In real life I don't deal with this as much, either because they have high interest in me or they know its a pipe dream, but younger women do tend to appreciate it more. Maybe its because they haven't experienced being in nearly every VIP section/Luxury SUV/vacation spot they've dreamt of.

Even though I generally despise it, I watched that Pop The Balloon episode from 2 weeks ago with the early 30's-40's women and most were pretty good. However it seemed like all of them were grilling the men onto a fasttrack where they are married with a kid within the next 2 years:mjlol:I wonder how much time they spent dealing with Forex Boys/Rappers standing in front of rented foreigns over the past decade.
 

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35 and up men, u must decide if u would rather give 20$ here, 25$ there and a bottle of Don Julio occasionally to a young, low mileage 911 Porsche Carrera Turbo ?

Spend 100s of dollars on dinners and events trying to heal and restorate an old 1st model year Expedition with 5 previous owners?

Decent analogies, b.:ehh:
 

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Exactly! Or at least the ones in here thinking that's a flex. The last time $20-$30 and some liquor was impressing a woman I was 20 yrs old broke in college working at Church's chicken. It made sense back then. But it's brehs in here in their late 20s early 30s still pulling that move. Either their mindset, wages, or quality of women haven't elevated which is crazy. I don't even want a chick that's impressed with that to even come to my house. I got too much nice stuff over here :russ:
If it’s getting them the results they want it sounds like win….. good for them
 
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