A lot of young women are on the prowl for an Unk (35 & up Grown men)

The ADD

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Of course, who said they don't. I know a few who have ain't shyt baby daddies, that literally did that too themselves.
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Got you, from friends and family members; the ones who actually don't/didn't do crash dummy shyt are all on long term healthy relationships. The ones who stay watching negativity and doing negativity are the ones who complain the most.

I don't know anyone personally, or been around any couples where I was like how did "X" get with "Y".
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It seems like you both have some issue with women, idk why you brought up "it's always the man's fault".
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How does that translate to it being an issue with women? You blamed the men as the sole problem for what they allegedly aren’t doing. That’s the non-sense we are talking about.
 

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So women that attract degenerates give that out?
Pretty much. You're being obtuse right now. If she wasn't a degenerate than some of the degenerate stuff he's doing wouldn't appeal to her at all and she would be out. Like I say water seeks its level. If you keep ending up with trash women or in trash situations that means you're trash too. We gotta start keeping it real with folks out here.
 

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Pretty much. You're being obtuse right now. If she wasn't a degenerate than some of the degenerate stuff he's doing wouldn't appeal to her at all and she would be out. Like I say water seeks its level. If you keep ending up with trash women or in trash situations that means you're trash too. We gotta start keeping it real with folks out here.
He said attract not date. BBW shots her shot at you then you must be a Big Back Man :troll:
 
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How does that translate to it being an issue with women? You blamed the men as the sole problem for what they allegedly aren’t doing. That’s the non-sense we are talking about.
When did I say men are the problem? You asked me if it's only men and I said No?
 

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Pretty much. You're being obtuse right now. If she wasn't a degenerate than some of the degenerate stuff he's doing wouldn't appeal to her at all and she would be out. Like I say water seeks its level. If you keep ending up with trash women or in trash situations that means you're trash too. We gotta start keeping it real with folks out here.
People really don't wanna look at themselves but blame everyone else for their problems eh.
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When I was only hanging out Hood mans doing hoodrat shyt -nothing with my life, the only women I was dating or around was strippers/escorts et. One of my ex's wanted me to start hustling to buy her nice shyt lol, my girl now would probably leave me in a heart beat.

I was luckily enough for my environment to change and I started to be around women who aren't galavanting with that kind of foolishness.
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Nah. If you're a man in your 30s.

Do yourself a favour and aim for low 30s and above.

Still just because a woman is 25+ doesn't mean she's just out and out materialistic. There are good people on both sides, no matter what the internet tells you. Maybe you won't find that person in a night club, parties, Tinder, etc, it might be just outside at an event, but no one wants to approach anymore. That social media callout is craz,y I get it.
 

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Yep.

Just like when the older guys would pull up on college campuses and pick up whoever. Now it’s the new 30s turn.

The 20s are going. Cept I cap around 26/27 once they are thirsty to get tied down or rush into marriage
 

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People really don't wanna look at themselves but blame everyone else for their problems eh.
:mjlol:

When I was only hanging out Hood mans doing hoodrat shyt -nothing with my life, the only women I was dating or around was strippers/escorts et. One of my ex's wanted me to start hustling to buy her nice shyt lol, my girl now would probably leave me in a heart beat.

I was luckily enough for my environment to change and I started to be around women who aren't galavanting with that kind of foolishness.
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You see it too! A few years ago I was dealing with a bunch of strippers, nurses, bottle girls, etc. and all the shenanigans and headaches that came with that type. But I grew outta it because I wanted a bit more from the women I was dealing with. Once I changed and elevated the women that came around and I ran across did too. I still run into some of the ones I dealt with back then. They still try to stoke the fire and It's all love but it just doesn't interest me like it used to.
 

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That older dude sounds nuts. But that's how some of the brehs in here sound so I know they'll relate to it ... :francis:
Did you peep how he said the interviewer was stupid because he was 22? What does that make the 18 year olds he desires to date?
 

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You see it too! A few years ago I was dealing with a bunch of strippers, nurses, bottle girls, etc. and all the shenanigans and headaches that came with that type. But I grew outta it because I wanted a bit more from the women I was dealing with. Once I changed and elevated the women that came around and I ran across did too. I still run into some of the ones I dealt with back then. They still try to stoke the fire and It's all love but it just doesn't interest me like it used to.
So after you “elevated” every chick you met was marriage worthy?
 

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When did I say men are the problem? You asked me if it's only men and I said No?
I said the feedback was they aren’t finding women worthy marrying and you launched into what men aren’t doing. AKA blaming men off rip.
 

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Did you peep how he said the interviewer was stupid because he was 22? What does that make the 18 year olds he desires to date?
I peeped it and was mad the interviewer wasn't able to flip it on him. It would have made him sound even more silly and predatory smh
 

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Nah. If you're a man in your 30s.

Do yourself a favour and aim for low 30s and above.

Still just because a woman is 25+ doesn't mean she's just out and out materialistic. There are good people on both sides, no matter what the internet tells you. Maybe you won't find that person in a night club, parties, Tinder, etc, it might be just outside at an event, but no one wants to approach anymore. That social media callout is craz,y I get it.

Why should a childless 30 year old man should aim for women low 30s and above?
 
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