Of course, who said they don't. I know a few who have ain't shyt baby daddies, that literally did that too themselves.
Got you, from friends and family members; the ones who actually don't/didn't do crash dummy shyt are all on long term healthy relationships. The ones who stay watching negativity and doing negativity are the ones who complain the most.
I don't know anyone personally, or been around any couples where I was like how did "X" get with "Y".
It seems like you both have some issue with women, idk why you brought up "it's always the man's fault".