A Man Shouldn't Change Their Daughters, Diapers?

[Sbp]

Grown folks needing their entire extended family to help them change a diaper, feed and put a baby to sleep is

Breh I don't know if she realizes how ridiculous that shyt sounds. I remember growing up hearing several grandmothers say "I'm done raising children, you better take care of your own". Like I said that account gotta be trolling.

 

[FTBS]

Sounds like a discussion that should have preceded reproduction .

 

[cyndaquil]

To say this to the child's own father? Yeah she was most likely sexually abused by a family member. She needs therapy and medication

 

[Mugenight]

Gang...

I don't feel sorry for this stupid muthafukka.

 

[TRBM]

Folks debating a quanmillz post

 

[Yinny]

It's extremely troubling that a person would have a child with someone they also suspect might be a pedophile.

It's from their own trauma which is valid but they clearly need help that should've come before conceiving.

Unfortunately, my son's father is similar in that he says random things (like my son being interested in my breasts, or me holding him up to place his back diaper on and then "slamming" him on the bed to finish/tape it cause he rolls and is v strong) are weird and pedophilic. It's horrible projection and strange.

 

[Why-Fi]

my lady wouldnt let me change my son neither. she said its "not a mans job"

 

[Yinny]

my lady wouldnt let me change my son neither. she said its "not a mans job"

that's just sexism, not a subverted assumption that you're a pedophile/incestuous.

 

[☃ ೋ]

On one hand this bytch is dumb, on the other hand, sure go ahead and change every single of those diapers yourself

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

On one hand this bytch is dumb, on the other hand, sure go ahead and change every single of those diapers yourself

Looooooooool

 

[Why-Fi]

that's just sexism, not a subverted assumption that you're a pedophile/incestuous.

i dont see a point to fight that. its a poor reason to upset the peace

not like its a cushy job anyway

 

[Mowgli]

Emotional damage

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

my lady wouldnt let me change my son neither. she said its "not a mans job"

i would think better parents should be thinking more so about the childs development than their own gender biases but i guess putting the kid first is too much to ask

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[Gloxina]

You keep talking in the past tense. That setup stopped being the norm by the mid 90s. Of course at family gatherings the women tend to the small children. I'm talking day to day. When my kids were babies if any of them needed to be changed I took care of it without a problem. I think you're in this thread be purposely obtuse/trolling for engagement.

I’m not trolling. Lawd.


Never mind.



Of course dads change diapers.


My point was that it was old school for women to generally handle things like bathing, clothing and yes, diapers (obviously not exclusively).

 

[Roid Jones]

Mental illness.