A Psychologist's Thoughts on Love and Marriage

Uncouth Savage

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lol keep feeling sorry for yourself

i see bytches I couldnt fukk messing with ugly, chubby, loser, broke men all the time. they just know how to fake it til they make it or they have that something that just gets the girl going. at the end of the day, you have to just get in where you fit in and work on your confidence/attributes.

if you dont believe in yourself why should a woman?

The men I know who constantly have the interest of women do a lot of work for that.
Their haircut, shoes, clothes, words, car etc are women catchers

I would rather concentrate on other things than living for women.
Like being healthy, making money, being happy.

If I really really want sex, I would rather buy it.
 

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You remind me of one of my cousins in LA.
"women easy to get....just talk to them...."

What you have admitted to is having choice.
Again, most men do not.

Most men have never come close to a Beyonce type beauty.
Or have dozens of them like you.

Most men wish strippers desired them like they do @Savvir

Yall operating like the psychotherapist

You seem to think your above average experiences are the norm

Most men on the coli would tell you they would love to pick and refuse p*ssy
Didn’t I call this yesterday lolol

You literally don’t understand the regular perspective when you’re hot LOL
 

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The men I know who constantly have the interest of women do a lot of work for that.
Their haircut, shoes, clothes, words, car etc are women catchers

I would rather concentrate on other things than living for women.
Like being healthy, making money, being happy.

If I really really want sex, I would rather buy it.
The thing is, you can do BOTH


That’s what a lot of men AND women don’t understand. That’s what contributes to you being well-rounded.
 

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The thing is, you can do BOTH


That’s what a lot of men AND women don’t understand. That’s what contributes to you being well-rounded.

I refuse to play the Advertising game.
Someone is creating styles for summer RIGHT NOW.
What color everyone should wear.
What music will be listened to.
What products will be the hot products.
What will be in style.

If muscles are in style, then most women want that.
If bbl's in style, most men want that.

Only the individual can be trusted.
And EVERYBODY looks good at their birthday party or at a wedding.

You can follow what is in style and be popular/desired.
Or even constantly look like you ready for a job or date interview.
That is a lot of work.

For example, when I used to do a dirty job.
If I am on the train, there are certain women that will sit next to me.
And some who will sit far away.
Some can see I am basically in work clothes.
Some see a bum

Perception.
And I have no time for those who unable to view the world as it is.
You have to view facts/reality as much as possible.

Remember hot girl summer?
Brunches, dates, vacations, liquor etc etc
 

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I refuse to play the Advertising game.
Someone is creating styles for summer RIGHT NOW.
What color everyone should wear.
What music will be listened to.
What products will be the hot products.
What will be in style.

If muscles are in style, then most women want that.
If bbl's in style, most men want that.

Only the individual can be trusted.
And EVERYBODY looks good at their birthday party or at a wedding.

You can follow what is in style and be popular/desired.
Or even constantly look like you ready for a job or date interview.
That is a lot of work.

For example, when I used to do a dirty job.
If I am on the train, there are certain women that will sit next to me.
And some who will sit far away.
Some can see I am basically in work clothes.
Some see a bum

Perception.
And I have no time for those who unable to view the world as it is.
You have to view facts/reality as much as possible.
It’s not about advertising lol


No one is saying to be flashy. It’s just taking care of yourself and understanding that the physical is a factor for women AND men.
 

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It’s not about advertising lol


No one is saying to be flashy. It’s just taking care of yourself and understanding that the physical is a factor for women AND men.

Would you agree that individuals are rare?
The person who is not influenced by what is popular?
The person who chose not to sniff coke in the 70's, even though everyone was doing it.
The white person who was not racist, in a racist town.
The christian in a muslim family.

Yet specifically speaking of this issue, the woman/man who is an individual.
For example if anorexia or retarded women, came into style, would your man want an anorexic or retarded woman overnight.

What I am getting at is that most women/people have NO IDEA what they truly want.
And their mind is made up by society/others.

What I am saying concerning a relationship is that you can do all that.
And still end up on the losing end.

So yes do all those things, be the best you can be.
Do not do it for others though.

People are wishy washy.
I think I am being too personal here. In my feelings.
hahahahahahahahaahahah
 

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i never said women are easy to get, i said the opposite
i said i go through droughts often because i refuse to fukk an ugly bytch

thats the point...i would rather not fukk at all than have to fukk an ugly bytch and deal with her bullshyt

and a lot of average or below average men feel the same way. why fukk an ugly girl who is probably just as annoying as a good looking girl when you can just rub one out, get a nut and go back to your day

exactly. i dont know why this is so hard to understand lol.
 

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It’s not about advertising lol


No one is saying to be flashy. It’s just taking care of yourself and understanding that the physical is a factor for women AND men.
Dont waste your time. Some ppl just make excuses all day. Like bushwick bill said its 3 types of people

Those who dont know what happened, wonder what happened, and those who make things happen. He chooses to not know whats really going on out here lol
 

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:gucci: nikka speak for yourself. I couldn't imagine being so desperate to bust a nut that I would smash an unsavory woman. Thirty-five years o living has taught me that only men with no self-control, poor social skills, and/or low desirability move like that.
It's called alcohol



We've all been there


Waking up next to somebody cussing yourself out cause what the hell happened to the girl I brought home last night, who is this in my bed?




35 years of living u might be gay if u that picky
 

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It's called alcohol



We've all been there


Waking up next to somebody cussing yourself out cause what the hell happened to the girl I brought home last night, who is this in my bed?




35 years of living u might be gay if u that picky
No we haven’t. I don’t turn into an idiot when I drink. I just crack more jokes, I’m more extroverted. Ugly bytches don’t become fine, I’m not trying to fight randoms. My friends are not like this when they drink either. That’s the kind of behavior people joke around about but that’s the domain of a certain type of weak man.

And you’re proving my point calling me “gay”. No nikka. I’m high enough on the totem I don’t have to tolerate ugly women and they know not to even try.
 

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No we haven’t. I don’t turn into an idiot when I drink. I just crack more jokes, I’m more extroverted. Ugly bytches don’t become fine, I’m not trying to fight randoms. My friends are not like this when they drink either. That’s the kind of behavior people joke around about but that’s the domain of a certain type of weak man.

And you’re proving my point calling me “gay”. No nikka. I’m high enough on the totem I don’t have to tolerate ugly women and they know not to even try.
U sound like the kind of person who has a drink or two and catches a hangover

Matter of fact your friends sound like they shop for club clothes at target, or maybe they young cause I've noticed a lot of younger men just want to go out and hang around, drinking and chasing women is above they intelligence level, they just outside existing. Type of guys to hug they phone cause they sister hanging out and they need to be on call if she needs them :mjlol:

Guarantee if u ain't drinking your quality of women is far below mine, all the fine women drink and do drugs, it's the fat ones with glasses that don't drink. Or hideously skinny vegans


Matter of fact, why did u bring up your gay ass friends? That's probably why y'all ain't chasing women cause y'all looking forward to going home together. Only going after certain women for "appearances" cause u don't want people to know u fukking your homeboys.


Don't get mad at me, in real life I'm cool with damn near everybody. Including gay people. That's how I know about u down low creatures. Y'all take trophy girls and be calling Big D at 3 in the morning. I've been a cab driver too, took plenty of y'all over to see Michelle who is really a Michael.

U gay and that's ok, that's your choice. What's not ok is u sneaking around spreading diseases. Come out the closet breh, u ain't ever got ficked up and fukked an ugly chick cause u really like men

"High up on the totem pole" that's a gay man speaking



It's ok just be honest with yourself.
 

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U sound like the kind of person who has a drink or two and catches a hangover

Matter of fact your friends sound like they shop for club clothes at target, or maybe they young cause I've noticed a lot of younger men just want to go out and hang around, drinking and chasing women is above they intelligence level, they just outside existing. Type of guys to hug they phone cause they sister hanging out and they need to be on call if she needs them :mjlol:

Guarantee if u ain't drinking your quality of women is far below mine, all the fine women drink and do drugs, it's the fat ones with glasses that don't drink. Or hideously skinny vegans


Matter of fact, why did u bring up your gay ass friends? That's probably why y'all ain't chasing women cause y'all looking forward to going home together. Only going after certain women for "appearances" cause u don't want people to know u fukking your homeboys.


Don't get mad at me, in real life I'm cool with damn near everybody. Including gay people. That's how I know about u down low creatures. Y'all take trophy girls and be calling Big D at 3 in the morning. I've been a cab driver too, took plenty of y'all over to see Michelle who is really a Michael.

U gay and that's ok, that's your choice. What's not ok is u sneaking around spreading diseases. Come out the closet breh, u ain't ever got ficked up and fukked an ugly chick cause u really like men

"High up on the totem pole" that's a gay man speaking



It's ok just be honest with yourself.
:skip: I have multiple pictures on here that validate my income. What’s troubling however is the essay you just wrote at 7AM to an internet stranger. You continue to confirm what I said about your ilk.
 
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