What's worse is when old heads spew nonsense.That's the part they don't want to talk about.so if she work then she get to save or spend her money on whatever while I pay all the bills?
couldn’t be me.
Most people live together before marriage.The 50/50 conversation is stupid. If we aren't married, we aren't splitting any type of finances. Once we are married, we are combining our incomes together.
I disagree
If marriages were for love then you wouldn’t even need to have this discussion
One account for bills/household shyt and the rest for yourselves
nikkas making think pieces on this shyt… why are black folks seemingly the only ones stuck on this low vibrational shyt?
I told my girl from the get go, the only time I am paying all the bills is when she has my kid for the first few months or she is going to school to further her education. Other than that bills will be split
. Out of her MBA program, she may come come out making 60K more than me...like I am suppose to still pay all the bills..F that.Why tf are we the only ones who have this conversation?

Thought we was going to leave the 50/50 talk in 2024![]()
I would like to believe that but i’ve never seen this conversation being had from any other race and this consistentlyWe’re not the only ones that have these dumbazz conversations, but since this is a majority black forum (allegedly) that’s where people get their SM feeds from
The avg income in America has never supported a woman not working despite what these rose tinted people think
My only caution most women 40 and younger are terminally online, so they’re getting fed bullshyt like the O/P on a regular basis