A red flag that is often ignored

[DaRealness]

Be cool with a partner actually meeting up with an ex for lunch and dinner for the sake of "cordiality" when they don't have kids together just to prove you're secure, brehs.

I swear, some of you live in la la land.

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

the only way you'll know is if you ask. You could always turn it into a joke. "Look, are you crazy or into some weird shyt, cause I don't have time for all that...LOL...but not really"

not like she's gonna tell you the truth anyway.

 

[Diondon]

I don't hate my exes, I just don't fukk with them.
We walked away with a clean slate.
Be buddies for what? Why bring emotional baggage to a fresh relationship.

 

[Steve Piffler]

i let the river run in it's native direction. if i don't like the direction that the river is going in, i go and find another river.

fukk i look like telling a grown ass person what they can and cannot do. i can't control a grown person, but i can control how i respond to their actions. so i just watch and respond accordingly. stress free....

 

[DaRealness]

I don't hate my exes, I just don't fukk with them.
We walked away with a clean slate.
Be buddies for what? Why bring emotional baggage to a fresh relationship.

Exactly.

 

[Sad Bunny]

My ex and I were gonna meet up for breakfast in January of last year.

her then boyfriend was mad.....we didnt meet because she went to her sisters for brunch.

a year later...we are back 2 gether

 

[swimmingpools]

I don't hate my exes, I just don't fukk with them.
We walked away with a clean slate.
Be buddies for what? Why bring emotional baggage to a fresh relationship.

Exactly. If I happen to see them its a quick hi & bye; I dont need to converse with them about anything.

 

[MikelArteta]

She better.

So because a woman meets a new guy she should immediately cease contact with all other men (non family) in her life? Nah. Now if you two are getting to the point where you want to be exclusive, that's the time you should mention how you feel about exes or whatnot and you'd both be responsible for placing boundaries on your associations with the opposite sex.