A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

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Personality should be important to you if you're trying to build a serious relationship, cause you basically talking to this person all the time. And personality keeps things moving.
But if you like boring chicks thats all you playa :hubie:
That's like determining the quality of winter clothing by it's colorways instead of it's fabric's. Pleasing but lacks durability esp when tested by the elements.
 

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Personality is overrated. I just need her to have discretion, morals, positive productivity, discipline, accountability, loyalty and good looks.

I don't want a life of the party chick constantly leaving my kids with a "baby sitter" because she's a socialite and attention addict. That's 90% of young black women right now.
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That's like determining the quality of winter clothing by it's colorways instead of it's fabric's. Pleasing but lacks durability esp when tested by the elements.
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Women that can't get married have themselves to blame. Stop being a victim and look in the mirror.

Nah that's not true. Some women have standards and refuse to settle. And you can't tell somebody to settle cause I'm not settling for an aint shyt chick so women shouldnt have to settle for aint shyt nikkas or somebody they arent compatible with.
 

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Women gonna ignore this but brehs been saying this for a while now.

Men aint that complicated. We are quick to tell you what we see as marriage material. And if we dont see you as marriage material.... we could fukk for a decade and you'll never get a ring.

If you out here engaging in shyt that we deem as unbecoming of a wife, why would expect to get the ring?

When i was visiting my friend in Oakland, we had this long ass convo about why she couldnt get a man and how men were shyt and all that.

Eventually, i just straight up told her, "yo i wouldnt marry or date you, you stay doing shyt thst i wouldnt want my gf doing :yeshrug:"


She got offended and pointed out that i was being a hypocrite cuz i was right there with her doing the same shyt :stopitslime:


I said nope, difference is im not expecting to get married doing this shyt. Im 100% aware what i need to give up to get a wife. You over here crying about not having a man but refusing to live different :yeshrug:



I aint never heard a nikka bringing hoes back from the club crying about not being able to get married or find a good girl.

But yet i always hear women say this shyt. Why is this? Women aren't stupid, they are aware of the disconnect. They just want it all without sacrificing anything.

Not how life works unless u find a big ass simp :wow:

Trying to get something outta nothing. That delusion. The entitlement. The audacity.
 

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Nah that's not true. Some women have standards and refuse to settle. And you can't tell somebody to settle cause I'm not settling for an aint shyt chick so women shouldnt have to settle for aint shyt nikkas or somebody they arent compatible with.

You mean superficial standards.
 

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A lack of the traits I mentioned will destroy any relationship. I'm just saying personality isn't even top 10 for me as long as she's not psychotic, mentally disabled or a Cac00n:yeshrug:.

The girls I've dated with the greatest personalities lacked the other qualities. Im still in touch with them and they're out there driving their respective simps crazy :bryan:. But go ahead & commit to that playboy:ufdup:
 
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