A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

[Ziggiy]

Nah nikkas getting married literally everyday.

She just cant keep a man

Exactly.

At what point does she say “hmmmm maybe its ME”

Association breeds similiarity. If she’s messing with brothas who don’t want relationships how about she set parameters with any prospective dating candidate that she’s only looking to build something long term? That’ll weed out the bullshyt REAL quick.

All of this “brothas only do X,Y,Z” like we’re all one person is bullshyt. Its the same as Brothas who claim “all black women are yada yada”. The shyt is stupid, ignorant, and offensive

 

[Barnett114]

Commitment, lasting marriage and nuclear families are no longer a part of black American culture.

White men over 25 have lines and veins,yuck, maybe go Asian?

The nuclear family as we know it is a white creation.

Blacks have always had an extended family in this country and it started with slavery

Commitment goes both ways

There are a lot of single people still single because they passed up people that weren't good enough for them

And you said you like thug nikkas

i like super hood dudes

 

[MMA]

We need selfless women not influenced by the media and embrace their Feminity without bitterness. Stop with the Tupac in a Business Suit and get with a healthy breh dedicated to BUILD WITH a woman.

Women want the finished product to show off to their friends. Always superficial and never anything about what lasts.

It's not tupac in a business suit. It's timing and reflections of past decision making.
understand that people in general but in this situation black men and women simply suck at dating, the bubble that no one wants to admit is they are trash at dating. That's why they (particular posters) are in here writing off black men/women instead of looking at themselves. No one wants to admit the truth of what they have done to be in the position they are in.

How many blame themselves for their past decision making? There's nothing you can do for someone who refuses to see how they failed to find a partner. You are the common denominator if you can't find a black men or women to start life with, you either have standards that don't fit with what you are or are still making the same mistakes you were when you were younger. This kind of person doesn't learn their lesson and will continue this formulated behavior. Don't try to fight any breh or brehette who thinks their solution is the other side.

 

[Vilify]

She described me to a T but I am trying to change.

 

[Wild self]

It's not tupac in a business suit. It's timing and reflections of past decision making.
understand that people in general but in this situation black men and women simply suck at dating, the bubble that no one wants to admit is they are trash at dating. That's why they (particular posters) are in here writing off black men/women instead of looking at themselves. No one wants to admit the truth of what they have done to be in the position they are in.

They hate black brehs that dont bow down to feminism

 

[King Jae]

Personality is overrated. I just need her to have discretion, morals, positive productivity, discipline, accountability, loyalty and good looks.

I don't want a life of the party chick constantly leaving my kids with a "baby sitter" because she's a socialite and attention addict. That's 90% of young black women right now.

Why u quote babysitter...not a complicated word and didn't need emphasis...

 

[Afro]

The low rate of black marriages tell you what you need to know about black men and committing.

I don’t really follow her and I ain’t watch the video, but that quote is true to life with what I’m dealing with right now. Then I can also look at one of my homies from college who let a good relationship/woman go because of this. Not sure what the issue is with this generation but I’m about to go white

Commitment, lasting marriage and nuclear families are no longer a part of black American culture.

White men over 25 have lines and veins,yuck, maybe go Asian?

The hell did Black men do to yall

Stop chasing after dudes who don't want the same thing you do

Brad will treat you like a hoe just as much as Chang or Ishmel could

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

I imagine your requirements cannot be achieved by regular brehs.

The problem is, the men you want already has loads of options. Really hard for a top tier breh, single and no kids to be locked down..

You’re making a lot of assumptions about me...especially given what you listed.

Furthermore y’all keep thinking of this stuff in terms of the game and superficial shyt, trying to pull new men/women. Her quote goes a lot deeper than the typical “I have options” bullshyt

 

[reserved_one]

She's just a wack broad with an inflated ego that brothas will pass around but always pass on.

Women like Amanda think because they're women and have vaginas that it's enough for men to wanna wife them.

I'm a man that doesn't put p*ssy ahead of everything. The moment men will begin to stop putting p*ssy on a pedestal, the more miserable women like Amanda will become.

Its mad Black women getting chosed out here....
Amanda just isn't one of em

Maybe the black men she's seeking is out of her league or isn't just feeling her at all.

Instead of putting that on black men, she needs to look herself in the mirror and maybe change her mindset, personality and relationship skills.

 

[MMA]

They hate black brehs that dont bow down to feminism

It has zero to do with that. They are just women who failed at doing what they expected out of themselves and now caster their issues that it's someone else's fault. It's not easy to blame yourself for your "problems" and the funniest part is learning that discipline of accountability is the most freeing experience one will ever experience. Anyone who sees in absolutes has already made their mind up. They are probably on here because of their lack of communication with brehs in real life to formulate such conclusions. If they see all black men has problems and unmarriageable that isn't someone who mind you should attempt to shift.

 

[BigMan]

You’re making a lot of assumptions about me...especially given what you listed.

Furthermore y’all keep thinking of this stuff in terms of the game and superficial shyt, trying to pull new men/women. Her quote goes a lot deeper than the typical “I have options” bullshyt

aint you an elitist postgraduate degree six figure woman in Cali? its not hard to read you

 

[Critical Distance]

I think the married women on this site should whip the ones who want to be married but aren't wifey material into shape.

 

[Guile]

marriage is too risky

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Sounds like she setting the stage to c00n it up...

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

What do stats say about the rates of blk marriage on the books these days.